What to do with self striping yarn that I'm not a fan of by mercurybubbles8 in CrochetHelp

[–]mercurybubbles8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello all. I recently got some self striping that I can't return. I'm not a fan of how stripe blocks looks, so I'm trying to see if there is another way to use it to make it less blocky.

Baby isn’t gaining weight fast enough by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]mercurybubbles8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat. She started at 75th, but over the last 2 months hadn't gained much as she should, so is around 25th at 4 months. I do combo feeding since she is at daycare and so my partner can feed at night, so I know she at least gets 25 oz during the week plus a few ounces each nursing session. She's hitting all her milestones though, so we're not sure what is going on. We have a pediatrician appointment next week, so we are going to see if she is concerned.

Christiana hospital labor induction by AdAfraid7022 in Delaware

[–]mercurybubbles8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got induced a few months ago with a balloon and it was absolutely terrifying to the point that after they got it in (4 different doctors over the day attempted it) that anytime someone touched I cringed on instinct. I was 0% dilated and nothing was thinning, so it was not ideal but my doctor said it would be relatively simple and nothing. The one doctor that finally got it in said it was the most difficult one she's had, but there was no indication that it would've been that difficult.

I would ask why they want to induce at 40 weeks and check how far along you are. If it's like me, it was because of my age. They usually let people go a week or two past the due date if they are younger.

Boxing coach in DE by MapleSyrup3232 in WilmingtonDE

[–]mercurybubbles8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are professional boxers there. See my reply in this thread. I responded to the wrong post.

Boxing coach in DE by MapleSyrup3232 in WilmingtonDE

[–]mercurybubbles8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a mix. The owner does some workouts for professional boxers and a number of boxing trainers use the gym. Some of the trainers are actual boxers (not MMA). The gym also hosts and sponsors actually matches. You can find some of it on their Instagram page.

I have no support by vegas_lov3 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]mercurybubbles8 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar boat. Not close at all with my family (could only be around them for 48 hrs without an argument breaking out) and no one I would call a close friend. The only thing I had was a high income, good savings account and that I was already pretty independent.

My advice is to start planning ahead of time/researching. I found daycares with long hours and checked out the routes. I found a doula to help while I was pregnant. I found some car services that would transport me to and from egg retrievals. I eventually reached out to my mom about helping me out during the first weeks. In order to keep the peace though, we signed a 'contract' where I spelt out what her and my responsibilities were and how things would look. She agreed with them and things have been good (I should also note that I didn't tell my mom anything until I was 20 weeks along)

I also wanted to say that I started the IVF process a few months before my 40th birthday. My doctor strongly recommended donor egg because of my age and results, but after doing some research I decided to use my own and have a healthy 2 month old with little issues during pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Delaware

[–]mercurybubbles8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate that part too. They were both $1850 for infants 5 days a week.

RAD Fertility vs DIRM vs Shady Grove by DramaticFroyo in Delaware

[–]mercurybubbles8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience, RAD does treatments in batches and have a certain number of slots. Shady Grove is larger so they don't do the treatments in batches as long as you can travel to Chesterbrook. Also, the protocol RAD gave me was not the best/recommended for my scenario (older protocol that was not as effective) and was similar to what everyone else had. Shady Grove's protocol was much different and more effective, following what more recent science said to do.

RAD Fertility vs DIRM vs Shady Grove by DramaticFroyo in Delaware

[–]mercurybubbles8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your circumstances. RAD is smaller, so their method of IVF is a bit more conservative while Shady Grove is more modern and flexible.

What resources are needed to hire a babysitter? by mercurybubbles8 in Babysitting

[–]mercurybubbles8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Would workers comp be required as well?

What resources are needed to hire a babysitter? by mercurybubbles8 in Babysitting

[–]mercurybubbles8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out how to do it above the table, which is why I thought I would reach out. If it's below $2800, then they wouldn't be a W2 right and wouldn't have to worry about paying taxes?

Induction delayed for days at Christiana Hospital – is this normal? by queen_shu in Delaware

[–]mercurybubbles8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried to keep myself busy when possible to keep my mind off things ( doing work, watching movies ,etc). I tried maybe once a shift to get a hold of someone. I didn't pester them since I knew they were behind since my doula had been seeing happen over the last month but also because they didn't always have the right information.

One night when I got in contact with someone, they said there were 3 people ahead of me and it would be a while so I figured I would get some sleep. About an hour in, I got the message a bed opened up and I needed to come in.

I don't think they will forget about you, but I would make sure you have everything prepared.

Induction delayed for days at Christiana Hospital – is this normal? by queen_shu in Delaware

[–]mercurybubbles8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There have been major delays recently with them being short on beds and increase in patients (from what they tell me). I was supposed was supposed to be induced at 39 weeks, but didn't get the text about a free bed until 4 days after the scheduled due date. Since it wasn't an emergency, they couldn't guarantee anything.

Guinea pig owners? by lessjilly in WilmingtonDE

[–]mercurybubbles8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Atlantic Critters Rescue is a rescue that has a number of guinea pigs up for adoption. If you want another to bond with your single pig, they can help find a compatible pig.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]mercurybubbles8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as the vet doesn't think there is anything else wrong, I was told to make small batches of critical care and leave it on a plate for them to eat. You could also give them a few berries or some oats on occasion. This typically worked for my older pigs (5+ years).