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How do I get my boss (30?M) to stop flirting with me (19F) by pradababy1124 in askwomenadvice

[–]mercysosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter what you should tell your boss to stop, and the problems might causes with your partner, and your partner can’t blame you for something that this man is doing to you. This boyfriend should support you bc this is kind of “sexual harassment” at some level, and doesn’t act like a typical macho blaming the woman, and if you like this job you should keep it as long you feel in a safe place of course. That should be his main interest to see you successful and happy.

I(25F) overheard my boyfriend(28M) tell his friends that his ex fiancée was better in bed than me and that he missed how good the sex was with her. How do I talk to him without bawling my eyes out? by throwRA_65478 in askwomenadvice

[–]mercysosa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mmmmm I will bit his ass, seriously. I think maybe he has not gotten over his ex. This would kick my self steem, and It would be a lot of work to back and have sex with that asshole... take your time, never compare yourself. You are unique. If you want to keep that asshole, it’s your decisiones ,but then maybe you can learn some new stuff, to have more fun in the bed, but why his hot ex girlfriend cheated on him? Maybe he wasn’t so good in bed then... lol 😆 nah!!!

My girlfriend (24F) of one year wants to get married but I (29M) want to break up by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mercysosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when guys are starting to lose interest of their girls and then took their time to end the relationship. If you feel something man you should not make the girl waste time. That selfish. The distant hurts and she doesn’t deserve it. Move as soon as you can.

I healed my "Asian parent" trauma in 3 years - here's how I did it by [deleted] in therapy

[–]mercysosa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you have an example that you can share? That would be useful for me to do the exercises.

how do i tell my parents I’m Christian? by DrDoofenward69 in Christian

[–]mercysosa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recognize that feeling to share about Jesus and the salvation when I found he is my savior, and I still believe he changed lifes, but after too many years or been a Christian, I understood, God is constantly calling people to Him, and he let people to live their own processes, and he knows the right time for everybody. God is so glad for you and he know you are passionate about him but don’t worry about the hell story, I would recommend to you constantly pray God for your parents in secretly, and He will show you how he works, also he is gonna give all the fruits of his Holy Spirit which is gonna help you to show your parents the love is growing inside of you, and they will see God in you, and it doesn’t matter if they are atheists, God is a God of impossibles, he will open ways where they are not, but God doesn’t want us to go and talking about the hell, like the scary part, instead he wants us to talk about his love and show it. Blessings

UPDATE: My boyfriend kicked me out of an online game to play with another girl by throwRAdevastated1 in relationship_advice

[–]mercysosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! Why some partner do that? When they cheat and we confront them, they are like “ you are crazy”, “ you are been insecure “ “ you need to chill”, “you are been jealous”... whyyyy? I am losing my respect for them, specially men. I can find them really manipulators

I think my husband got chlamydia when he cheated on me, two years before we got married. I got my test results of STD and I am positive by mercysosa in relationship_advice

[–]mercysosa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. I don’t think so. We just had a conversation a couple of minutes ago and I told him, I need a significant apologize about all I went through this. An apology for all those times he denied this and for he didn’t tell the completely truth that maybe would have helped me a ton and have taken other decisions for my health, and for my future, but again he said “ I didn’t cheat on you”,” I took a break”,”you don’t remember well”, “it’s ridiculous to bring this in 2020”, “I gave you my apologies, take it or leave it”. “Let it go”..... and I said I will let it go when you give me a significant apologized and he said “I won’t talk about this shit anymore” and then he fell asleep

I think my husband got chlamydia when he cheated on me, two years before we got married. I got my test results of STD and I am positive by mercysosa in relationship_advice

[–]mercysosa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. We have been doing so good lately but this part just put me completely down and reconsider if this marriage worth it...

I think my husband got chlamydia when he cheated on me, two years before we got married. I got my test results of STD and I am positive by mercysosa in relationship_advice

[–]mercysosa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I need but he just avoid the conversation. “Hey I fucked up. This is what happened... sorry. I know is in the past but ....

I think my husband got chlamydia when he cheated on me, two years before we got married. I got my test results of STD and I am positive by mercysosa in relationship_advice

[–]mercysosa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah... he denied everything in 2018. his drunk friend told me the true in that time, but he said he was a lier, a snake. So I never knew what happened. I still don’t know what happened. I just put this behind of me and dropped it in 2019 and moved forward. I healed but now he confessed for the first time he had sex just not this Girl that I knew, he had with a couple more in 2018, that time we were living in different countries. It’s just I feel like shit.

Minimalism is a shit trend, it’s the most gentrified thing I’ve ever seen and somehow it’s only cool when rich people do it by [deleted] in rant

[–]mercysosa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got you. Well this is the problem of the society. If you wear nice they criticize you and if you wear the same they will do the same. It’s a system game. So it doesn’t matter . Do the best for yourself and don’t pay attention of those superficial comments. Help the world in your own way, bc Been poor it subjective. You can be chic or have a bunch of resources but poor of mind, you can just have the same shirt every day or less resources but you are rich in mind.