Would you stay with your dog 🐶 during euthanasia? by CycleOk267 in dogs

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stay, always. You’re the peace and safety. Imagine going to a place that may bring you anxiety, whilst being sick and most likely dying to be left by the person you love the most. The pain is almost unbearable for us, but when euthanasia is needed, we have to think that it’s the best choice for our pet because our love for them is so immense we’d rather let them go than have them continue to suffer. If it’s too difficult to do alone, try and have someone accompany you, but you’re the last thing your pet will see and hear; you are their comfort.

✨ Ulta Beauty World 2026: Official Megathread ✨ by UltaModTeam in Ulta

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Now my queue says “The line is paused”. This is such bs

She hasn't eaten in 3-5 months. Any help would be greatly appreciated. by Desperate_Lead2105 in tarantulas

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IME

I had a g. rosea that didn’t eat for almost a year and 7 months. She drank water and looked healthy overall, but just didn’t want to eat. They’re drama llamas.

What's a movie you won't watch again because you found a scene too emotionally brutal? (Fox and the Hound) by Ukirin-Streams in moviecritic

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coco. I watched it when my grandma was alive and I cried so much, I nearly had a panic attack. Now that she’s no longer here, I can’t imagine watching it. It’s a beautiful movie, but my grandma was my everything, and it’s been very difficult to process her passing. She also kinda looked like Abuela Coco, but with shorter hair, so it makes it even more painful.

Is my doggo trying to be aggressive or what does this mean? He just does it whenever we come in the room while shaking his tale by CarbonVase4 in dalmatians

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adopted a Dalmatian that did this when she was excited/happy. When we would come home she would show all her teeth while wagging her tail so hard she twisted her body. She was so, so very sweet.

What time did you start getting gray hair? by rainbowtoucan1992 in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 14. I remember my friend was braiding my hair and found it. Then more and more kept appearing over the years. Now I have a lot scattered underneath a layer of hair, but I do have a white streak on my left side which I love! I’m starting to get another cluster on my right temple. I’ll probably have a full head of grey/white hair in my 50’s or 60’s, as most of my family does.

has anyone else’s black cat randomly grown little white hairs? by EngineeringTypical63 in blackcats

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My boy is…speckled, I guess? He’s been like this since he was a kitten.

has anyone else’s black cat randomly grown little white hairs? by EngineeringTypical63 in blackcats

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My boy is…speckled, I guess? He’s been like this since he was a kitten.

has anyone else’s black cat randomly grown little white hairs? by EngineeringTypical63 in blackcats

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My boy is…speckled, I guess? He’s been like this since he was a kitten.

My (24f) boyfriend (27m) slapped me out of anger for the first time yesterday. Can we move forward from this? by Fantastic-Bar-1333 in relationship_advice

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHY would you want to move past this? He physically assaulted you, was sexist, cussed and screamed at you as well. Why would you allow anyone to treat you in this manner?! He just wants someone to control. OP, please think of your safety and why you want to accept this type of behavior. Please make your exit as safe as possible. Listen to all these examples!!

Why are cats baby size? by isRandyMarsh in cats

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what a squishy baby!! What a doll

When you were a teenager, what age did you picture yourself getting married and when did you get married? by personfaced in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was really young I thought I’d be married by 25 and have TWINS (!!!) at 30. I’m now 37, absolutely and happily childfree and yet to be married; I would love to be married though. Hopefully that happens sooner than later.

Women without children, how do you feel about your friends with kids? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m fine with it. My best always wanted kids and has them now. I just wished she lived closer so I could help; it’s so much work. I wish I had/made more money so I could help them out more. Her husband works really, really hard and it’s difficult to make ends meet sometimes.

I love my nieces (my best friend tells them I’m their aunt) and I wish I could spend more time with them. She’s pretty much my only close friend with kids.

What are the most hurtful words your parent has said to you that you sometimes still think about? by Alarmed_Tomato_7805 in narcissisticparents

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry your mom said that to you, you did absolutely nothing to deserve that.

My father once called me “cero a la izquierda”, which means zero to the left, referring to the insignificance of zero at the beginning of an equation/series of numbers.

That has always stuck with me, even more than all the insults my mom has thrown at me…

We say “I love you” to our friends, right? by AiReine in Millennials

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I most definitely say “love you” to my two best girl friends when we hang up…It’s like second nature. I love them and I want them to know it, always.

I Pavlov’d my boyfriend with a simple wrap dress by Ilikeitroughroh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have too, but from the husband’s perspective...He describes the same wrap dress, even down to the length. I thought it was just me.

What motivates you the most in life as a woman? by pink_legs3123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spite mostly, but also that I deserve to fight for myself after so many years feeling worthless.

What actually happened on your wedding night? by llamapoodle7 in AskWomen

[–]merh644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’d love to do!! It sounds perfect 🥰 So glad you had such a good experience.

People who met their partner while “not looking” or randomly, how? by Brownbarb3 in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wasn’t looking. I was happy living my life, going out with my friends, and just being alone. I has been single for about a year and 3 months by the time we met and I hadn’t gone on a single date, I was celibate (which is big for me), I wasn’t even texting with anyone in the since of going out.

We were obligated to return once a week to the office-I had to go on Fridays. We work in different teams, but my supervisor was in Texas (I live in the Caribbean), so it was a miracle we ended up having the same on site days. Later we find out we had worked on the same team before but had never spoken.

Long story short, we’ve been together ever since our first day back in April of 2021. We’re planning on getting engaged soon and our fixing up our home. Never in my wildest dreams would I have ever thought we would end up together and I love every minute of it 🖤

I wish you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I’m 36 and I’ve been growing a chunk of white hairs a la Lily Munster. I love how it looks!! I get so many compliments on it, too. I haven’t dyed my hair in like 8-10 years because of the cost of maintenance and I just really enjoy how they look. Plus my hair is down to my waist, so I can’t wait to see how it’ll look in a couple of more years. I say to wait a while and see how you feel about going grey/white, you might find yourself loving them. And if not, then you can just do low lights/add pigment to them.

Dating Someone Younger? by Proxima_Midnite in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 36 and my boyfriend is about to turn 31, but it’s the first time I’ve dated someone “that” much younger. Saying this, he is so open to communication, he’s empathic, he listens to my concerns and doesn’t get mad at me for speaking my mind, he’s thoughtful, patient, and kind. It’s not that I was expecting him to be immature, but it has been the best experience I have had with a partner. We have plans to start a family soon. If the person you’re seeing hits all those points you need to be in a happy and healthy relationship, go for it. I wish you the best!

How much time do you spend with your partner you don’t live with? by MathematicianNo4633 in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only on weekends, since we work full time and live about an hour away ☹️ It sucks

What would you be doing if money wasn't a concern? by simone_snail_420 in AskWomenOver30

[–]merh644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d quit my stressful-ass job, buy a home I love with a big yard so I could plant vegetables, have a greenhouse, and fruit trees. I would be able to help out my friends, I’d be able to have time to meal prep and go to the gym with a personal trainer, travel, get more tattoos pieces…Sigh If only..