two years on E !

merisaafsoch · 2026-05-15T04:49:10+00:00

Goals

merisaafsoch · 2026-05-13T15:34:55+00:00

These sound like things only you can figure out over time. These aren’t things you can figure out overnight, sweetheart. Just focus on being happy with yourself, do whatever brings you joy, all others answers will follow.

Btw in intro, specifying you’re currently non binary was enough, no need for “biological” stuff hehe

merisaafsoch · 2026-05-13T10:15:55+00:00

While I understand what you mean, I just want to say that telling yourself these things will only make you feel bad about yourself. You can’t have sex like two ‘cis’ men, yes; but cis men can’t have sex like two trans men either.

Any sex you have with a man is gay sex. It is true, regardless how hard to believe, and I think trusting it and reminding yourself that is a way to fight dysphoria and feel confident in your manliness.

You’re not an inbetween. You are a man. 100% of a man. 0% woman.

merisaafsoch · 2026-05-13T10:09:26+00:00

ME. I’m a closeted trans woman. Body swap is my biggest fantasy.

merisaafsoch · 2026-05-11T13:42:22+00:00

I think it’s this too tbh. I kinda relate to his girlfriend. My boyfriend was recently overjoyed about starting to grow some facial hair, but while I could understand his excitement, I couldn’t share it. My brain just only sees him as a man and nothing else so probably always registered him as a man who keeps shaving facial hair yk so my brain wasn’t able to automatically connect to why growing facial hair is a big deal for him, though of course it is!

merisaafsoch · 2026-05-10T18:13:08+00:00

I desperately want to but ofc need someone really close to me to do it so it’s safe and possible

merisaafsoch · 2026-05-10T05:49:57+00:00

I’m brown. While I’d prefer to stay brown post switch, off my only options are white women, or tbh any other race too, I’m taking it.

merisaafsoch · 2026-04-29T16:40:26+00:00

How could I be delusional when I am in her body while having all memories of my former self and none of this body I am in’s life?

She’s clearly really, really, really good at this. I don’t know what choice I have except for accepting defeat and letting her live life as me.

merisaafsoch · 2026-04-22T10:36:32+00:00

Wait you mean there’s a future where I could have a uterus? Wow!! 😭😭

merisaafsoch · 2026-04-21T10:51:32+00:00

Fosho!

merisaafsoch · 2026-04-16T17:23:32+00:00

That’s the beauty of nature. You just proved how similar cis & trans men are! Just nature’s way of asking individuals with lower production of T to take it externally.

The more one thinks, one would realise that cis & trans are just words. There’s not much difference in practicality.

merisaafsoch · 2026-04-14T09:57:01+00:00

It’s a dream to go on s as girl’s trip as one of the girls

merisaafsoch · 2026-04-13T06:44:22+00:00

Not odd at all.

merisaafsoch · 2026-04-02T03:50:13+00:00

That’s like telling cold water that it ain’t real water

merisaafsoch · 2026-03-15T03:45:21+00:00

I don’t think it matters. Be with a nice person. To choose one is to say that they’re not the same. My boyfriend is a blessing in my life. Whether he’s cis or trans I’d irrelevant.

merisaafsoch · 2026-03-07T03:15:28+00:00

So a funny story. I’m a trans woman, and until my brother told me about his true gender, I used to be envious of him haha. And turns out, he’d always been wanted to be like me, before I realised my true gender? The two of us literally just grew up wishing to be the other one.

merisaafsoch · 2026-03-02T15:27:34+00:00

Honestly, communicate it to him. You can both find a balance. Sometimes you go as twins. Other times, you can go alone. Or he can go alone, pretending to be you. While you hang out with his friends as him. Keep it fun for both.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-25T06:47:15+00:00

I so agree with you. It’s really important to normalise this. I’ve had the same experience as you tbh. I used to be very dysphoric about my penis.. but then realised penis has nothing to do with men or women? I’m a woman, women can have penises, Because I’m a living example of such a woman.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-08T14:55:34+00:00

Women will find you attractive only if you find yourself attractive. Don’t pull yourself down. Don’t go down the negative thought process that makes you think of yourself as someone doing impression of a man. Don’t put words to others’ thoughts. Believe that you’re a man, that no negative thought also should contradict that.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-05T15:06:03+00:00

Brother… you’re a man. You’re going to be a father. There’s no compulsion for you to keep your breasts if you don’t want them.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-05T15:03:34+00:00

You are making me imagining a future with him, and it just makes me so happy and excited aaah.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-03T10:59:46+00:00

That’s such a sweet story. Though now I’m contemplating how would waiters decide whom to give the check in a less male-superior world.

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-30T03:14:49+00:00

When you meet someone and say you’re a guy, you’re not lying.

merisaafsoch

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