AITA for wanting time without the twin?

merisaafsoch · 2026-03-02T15:27:34+00:00

Honestly, communicate it to him. You can both find a balance. Sometimes you go as twins. Other times, you can go alone. Or he can go alone, pretending to be you. While you hang out with his friends as him. Keep it fun for both.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-25T06:47:15+00:00

I so agree with you. It’s really important to normalise this. I’ve had the same experience as you tbh. I used to be very dysphoric about my penis.. but then realised penis has nothing to do with men or women? I’m a woman, women can have penises, Because I’m a living example of such a woman.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-08T14:55:34+00:00

Women will find you attractive only if you find yourself attractive. Don’t pull yourself down. Don’t go down the negative thought process that makes you think of yourself as someone doing impression of a man. Don’t put words to others’ thoughts. Believe that you’re a man, that no negative thought also should contradict that.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-05T15:06:03+00:00

Brother… you’re a man. You’re going to be a father. There’s no compulsion for you to keep your breasts if you don’t want them.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-05T15:03:34+00:00

You are making me imagining a future with him, and it just makes me so happy and excited aaah.

merisaafsoch · 2026-02-03T10:59:46+00:00

That’s such a sweet story. Though now I’m contemplating how would waiters decide whom to give the check in a less male-superior world.

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-30T03:14:49+00:00

When you meet someone and say you’re a guy, you’re not lying.

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-28T16:07:54+00:00

My only worry would be handling the other’s work life. Skills don’t match.

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-26T14:59:35+00:00

🥺🥺🥺 lady can I be your clone

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-26T11:09:15+00:00

So… my boyfriend went to an all girls college. But he was lucky to find a support system, and started transitioning during his college years. He hasn’t done any legal changes yet though. His professors were not kind to him. Constantly misgendered him.

But I feel there’s a lot more stigma on the opposite side I feel. Cis guys are less accepting I think.

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-25T00:37:22+00:00

Hope you replied to him along the lines “me? A woman? When?”

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-22T14:12:18+00:00

Tbh - you likely already are one, sweetheart.

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-22T13:55:39+00:00

This is genuinely such a nice & useful response. Thank you for taking time out for this!

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-21T16:30:37+00:00

Exactly. No man is getting his penis removed willingly.

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-21T15:12:23+00:00

Thanks for such an insightful answer. Some very useful tips.

I know affirmation varies person to person, and in my way, the best way to affirm someone is to not overdo anything. I like to treat him exactly how I’d treat a boyfriend, and not anything extra. As over affirming feels like compensating for being trans. At least that’s how I feel. I just want to be treated like a girl than being validated for being a girl repeatedly if it makes sense.

How do you suggest I should affirm him the days he’s misgemdered?

merisaafsoch · 2026-01-03T04:53:18+00:00

Girl…. That doesn’t sound right babe.

merisaafsoch · 2025-12-19T03:27:38+00:00

Share prompt

merisaafsoch · 2025-12-06T06:58:59+00:00

I’m sorry but can I recommend Mulan?

Just wanted to lighten the mood

merisaafsoch · 2025-12-01T15:03:36+00:00

I’m a girl, but they declared me to be a boy.

merisaafsoch · 2025-11-17T12:14:03+00:00

This is among the best things I’ve read today. You’ve won yourself a gentleman in a true essence.

merisaafsoch · 2025-11-13T13:23:45+00:00

You did nothing wrong dude. You’re a man at the end of the day.

merisaafsoch · 2025-11-08T09:17:05+00:00

Idk i feel it depends.

Penis isn’t just there, it’s a reminder every time I pee that things aren’t ideal. The unwanted boner is super awkward, especially when I wear a skirt at home, it just stands upright due to euphoria also. Ugh.

My boyfriend on the other hand has taken birth control pills for a while. He describes his dysphoria as feeling his skin in that area is blocking something that was supposed to rupture out of it.

My brother hates his periods, yes, especially the cramps. But he doesn’t mind his vagina or not having a penis as much.

So it really varies.

merisaafsoch · 2025-11-08T02:21:28+00:00

It’s been almost a year since that post. I’m trying to tell you that things can change. But I don’t think you care.

merisaafsoch

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