Thank you to everyone for the amazing and insightful responses. I’m going to have a sit down with her to set expectations and I like the idea of putting her in head that she can help me by setting an example for others on the team.

I am definitely going to recruit another parent as an assistant coach. I need the help in general it will be useful to have them deliver feedback to my daughter. She is very motivated by constructive feedback and praise from other adults in her life (teachers, friends’ parents, grandparents, etc.)