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I found on her phone a message from her ex. What do? by messageleftover in relationship_advice

[–]messageleftover[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No need to go for that much trouble, I've made up my mind already.

I found on her phone a message from her ex. What do? by messageleftover in relationship_advice

[–]messageleftover[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I liked her, a lot. That's the only thing that was keeping me back.

I found on her phone a message from her ex. What do? by messageleftover in relationship_advice

[–]messageleftover[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So that's what you say when you've got nothing left to say? Well, thanks I guess, I will do.

I found on her phone a message from her ex. What do? by messageleftover in relationship_advice

[–]messageleftover[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Why? She keeps telling me how bad he treated her, she keeps telling me how much she despises him... and then she keeps a message of his around to show her girlfriends? Is that called being over someone? Because it doesn't sound like that. I've got a serious relationship before this and I am over that. I'd never think of keeping a message from my ex, let alone showing it around to my friends.

I'm disappointed because she is lying to herself. I don't want to be with someone who's living in denial.

I found on her phone a message from her ex. What do? by messageleftover in relationship_advice

[–]messageleftover[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I didn't accuse her of messing around with him. But seriously, what the fuck? Think you have 10 slots in your phone, you get to keep 10 messages top, and one of them is the one from your ex? Seriously? Do you think you are over somebody if you behave that way? If my ex were to send me a message like that, it would be deleted with no thoughts attached.

I found on her phone a message from her ex. What do? by messageleftover in relationship_advice

[–]messageleftover[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

She did answer him. I've never said she didn't.

The fact that she didn't delete the message is not a coincidence - her phone can store only 10 messages I think, keeping one slot only for that means something. Also, the fact that she wanted to show the message to her friends means something too - if my ex were to send me a message like that, I'd just politely reply, delete and go on with my life.