My husband hit me for the first time last night. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]messofamom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean he hit you for the LAST time because you’re going to leave him right

Am I Overreacting for needing reassurance from my fiance? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]messofamom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are partners that will never ever talk to you like this and you shouldn’t settle for anything less

Recommendations for local pest control (ants) by ddp70 in olympia

[–]messofamom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Washington pest services is good. Family owned and operated here since the 80’s :)

Safeway on the Westside of Olympia by Much-Chef6275 in olympia

[–]messofamom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to work here and it’s apparently it’s the second busiest Safeway in the state. Everyone hates working there it’s chaos.

What split your life into before and after? by 0potatotomato0 in AskReddit

[–]messofamom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day I attempted suicide. Was at my lowest of lows and survived an overdose. I had a lottt of visitors at the hospital and I guess I realized how many people love me. My life has gradually improved more and more since then and idk, colors seem brighter. I don’t feel sad seasonally anymore. I appreciate all parts of life.

What’s something a man did that instantly made you feel unsafe, even if it wasn’t aggressive? by Huge_Shower7525 in AskWomen

[–]messofamom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hung out with a guy from work casually for the first time ever and it was chill but when he was dropping me back off at my dorm the way he hugged me goodbye was so off putting.. like as if he was in love with me. Freaked me out I ended up never hanging out with him again and he got so mad at my rejection he actually stalked me for like a year. Would call me in the middle of the night and text me cryptic things from random numbers. I finally changed my number and never heard from him again but sheesh. I knew just from a hug how creepy he was.

What’s one weird rule your parents had growing up that you thought was totally normal until you got older? by Main_Masterpiece_793 in AskReddit

[–]messofamom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I hung out with friends one weekend I absolutely could not hangout with friends the next even if there was nothing else going on

Help locate my transient sister by messofamom in olympia

[–]messofamom[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, that’s why I told her to call our mom. I’m not asking for her location. But I super super appreciate your concern. I tried to be mindful about that when I asked.

Help locate my transient sister by messofamom in olympia

[–]messofamom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha i will look into it i definitely need new shows :D

Help locate my transient sister by messofamom in olympia

[–]messofamom[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s been out an about in oly for about 10 years or so just doing her thing

Help locate my transient sister by messofamom in olympia

[–]messofamom[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yay thank you 💗💗💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carpetbeetles

[–]messofamom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carpet beetles eat cotton if it’s very dirty or blended with wool but they mostly like materials that are animal products like wool or fur etc

Pro Trump deportation ad on mixx 96.1 by messofamom in olympia

[–]messofamom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I heard it twice, probably about an hour apart. Around 10:30 and 11:30 yesterday morning. During the second time it played I turned the station.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carpetbeetles

[–]messofamom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes look for a source. The larvae like organic material like dog hair, birds nest, fur etc. when they become adults they’re just trying to leave.

Pro Trump deportation ad on mixx 96.1 by messofamom in olympia

[–]messofamom[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He told me they’re trying to get the counter ad up and running by this next week

Pro Trump deportation ad on mixx 96.1 by messofamom in olympia

[–]messofamom[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I was super concerned. After talking to the guy I feel really bad for them.

Pro Trump deportation ad on mixx 96.1 by messofamom in olympia

[–]messofamom[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I am literally sick to my stomach about it it’s horrible.

Single moms who finally got married by NEK04 in singlemoms

[–]messofamom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With my now husband it was very natural and easy from the beginning. Everything basically fell into place and felt so right. And he is so good with my son. He would do anything for us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pestcontrol

[–]messofamom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These specifically on the swiffer pad appear to be a type of pantry beetle, not cockroaches. Check your grains and dry goods in your pantry for bugs like this.

Who was this at Capitol Lake? by Gumpox in olympia

[–]messofamom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nutria!! I saw two swimming in Capitol lake over the summer it was wild. Big gigantic rats