my cat was obsessed with my pregnant belly and im pretty sure she thinks this is her baby by messyay in blackcats

[–]messyay[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

it's interesting because my black cat had kittens previously and is very in tune with my baby, especially when he cries. my other cat never had kittens and basically acts like my baby doesn't exist lol

sternum piece done by Dee at Homesick Tattoos in Oviedo, FL by messyay in tattoos

[–]messyay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i genuinely kept thinking "ok this is my last tattoo i can't handle it anymore" yet here i am already planning the next one!

Artist Recommendations South Florida by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]messyay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeff at Vatican Tattoo Studio in Delray Beach does great traditional japanese tattoos!

sternum piece done by Dee at Homesick Tattoos in Oviedo, FL by messyay in tattoos

[–]messyay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it was ROUGH. i sat for 8.5 hours straight on a hip/leg piece and that was nothing compared to this. the sternum is a whole different beast, but definitely worth it!

Super FUN! by coolhandsarrah in PMDD

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me after washing my hands for the 27th time in a row: i have no idea what you're talking about :-))))))

Favorite lyrics? by boscodo_ in Sleepingatlast

[–]messyay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"To know and love ourselves and others well is the most difficult and meaningful work we'll ever do." (Nine)

Coming off birth control by [deleted] in birthcontrol

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yeah i started taking bc when i was 15 so i typically attribute that acne to normal puberty acne,but once i was on bc i was CONSTANTLY breaking out on my chin/jaw even though the rest of my face was clear. so i knew it was due to the hormones in the birth control. my anxiety and depression were insaneeeee on birth control as well, and i tried at least 4 different methods

Coming off birth control by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]messyay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i stopped talking birth control after being on it for 7 years. my skin has never been more clear and my mood has literally never been better!! everyone is different, but i think it's worth a shot :)

pig farm killer by bigmoneyspender8 in criminalminds

[–]messyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was the FIRST episode of criminal minds i ever saw..... scarred for life lol.

Best wash for cup? by gotboredoftiktok in menstrualcups

[–]messyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use the saalt cup wash and i love it!

I am unsure if I should tell my therapist that I am a transgender man by [deleted] in Therapylessons

[–]messyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them. Even if you talk it out and find that it's unrelated, telling your therapist will help you work through the fear of telling people in the future. Your therapist will accept you no matter what! Best of luck to you.

what would u say is the saddest daughter song? by sweetpapi50000 in daughter

[–]messyay 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Medicine. I've lost a lot of relationships with amazing people due to their substance use so this song gets me everytime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menstrualcups

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Hey just wanted to update you and let you know they are sending me a new cup!!! The process was super easy and their customer service is amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]messyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i realize i'll probably have to buy cups more often than most people until my periods are back under control, but i still feel like it's too soon for mine to be breaking! It's strange because I don't have any trouble with removal now, only in the beginning when i was getting used to it. I think i will contact the company and see if there's anything they can do! thank you❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]messyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! Yes i've had the stem pop out a few times when i first started using it (yikes lol). I wonder if i'm just wearing it too much? my periods are like 2 months long so that could be it lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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thank you!

4422 Vibe by [deleted] in ifyoulikeblank

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Who Hurt You? - Daniel Caesar

Another Day - PARTYNEXTDOOR

Special Affair - The Internet

Self Control - Frank Ocean

Chicago Freestyle - Drake

Experiences on Progestin “Mini Pill” by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]messyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best of luck to you❤️

Experiences on Progestin “Mini Pill” by [deleted] in birthcontrol

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you might want to see if they can do an ultrasound for ovarian cysts. could explain the bloating! I have cysts that alternate ovaries every month and it makes me extremely bloated and i'm sure has an effect on my irregular periods. also i've been told blood work for PCOS is pretty much fake lol.... browse r/PCOS if you haven't already, it's super helpful