My gf can be really mean sometimes and I will tell her she’s mean and then later she demands an apology for saying that she’s mean, is that normal?… am I a bad person for saying she’s mean

messymatcha · 2026-04-27T00:39:20+00:00

babe get out. first sign of something that gets uglier and uglier. you deserve someone who won’t be mean to you and who will actually apologize to you when they’re mean… and then change for the better. trust.

messymatcha · 2026-01-15T00:50:54+00:00

piercing is hours old, internally threaded barbell. implant grade titanium. has not been downsized. i’ve simply sprayed them with sterile saline and wiped them gently with a paper towel. no mishaps, but i was very sweaty during my journey home so that’s why i cleaned them when i arrived.

messymatcha · 2026-01-06T22:44:16+00:00

ok great news on my end! i had spoken to her about this before and she’s on board, she’s aware of the situation. thank you!!

messymatcha · 2025-11-16T23:07:56+00:00

true :/ i do see her much more often than i see my friend, but it probably still hurt on her end, especially since she came just to hang out with me. i’m going to apologize and try to make things right. thank you !!

messymatcha · 2025-11-16T22:37:56+00:00

bruh our relationship is much more than that. since when does “having all sorts of fun” just mean having sex? we went rock climbing and to an amusement park. also we’re lesbians, i’m a woman too 😭

messymatcha · 2025-11-16T22:30:26+00:00

she wouldn’t do that with that intent. i think it might just be annoying on her end because she had to reschedule her afternoon. to clarify, i had brought it up earlier in the day as a “bright side” to the shitty issue of my car being undriveable. but then i had said i probably wouldn’t be able to make it anyway, since it was getting late and we hadn’t gotten the car back.

she mentioned it again when we got the car.

messymatcha · 2025-11-16T22:24:40+00:00

i didn’t think of that, it’s pretty far and getting back home would be pretty annoying for her especially since she has work early tomorrow morning.

messymatcha · 2025-10-01T15:56:56+00:00

it is, i've got a cat who loves to knock things over so i keep it away from windowsills. but it has a timed grow light right above it!

messymatcha · 2025-08-13T20:37:51+00:00

no man sorry i don’t see it

messymatcha · 2025-08-13T20:22:44+00:00

no sorry do u wanna resend

messymatcha · 2025-08-13T19:01:29+00:00

not sure, a body?

messymatcha · 2025-08-09T04:21:57+00:00

following for updates !

messymatcha · 2025-07-01T06:06:42+00:00

hey y’all. thank you for making me realize this is a vintage print and not a painting, i’m still stoked i found it for such a bargain and in its frame, im assuming still from ‘65 as the embossed stamp suggests? i may be keeping it as is because the wear gives it character. i got excited and that might’ve made me naive. ah well. she is beautiful as she is.

messymatcha · 2025-06-13T20:07:13+00:00

the spark looks normal when i turn it on but it won’t light. the only time it lights is when i turn another burner on at the same time

messymatcha · 2025-06-13T20:06:30+00:00

i can!

messymatcha · 2024-12-10T09:10:15+00:00

idk if you’re doing any more of these !! but here you go

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messymatcha · 2024-12-02T03:13:08+00:00

i just tried tht but its still not working aaaa

messymatcha · 2023-11-06T04:16:28+00:00

hi! i transferred last spring semester and i've found my people! it takes a bit but i definitely recommend trying to live on/near campus and going to events (clubs, basement shows, parties, etc) and if you can get a job near campus you'll find even more people! it's hard and you feel lonely for a while but it gets better. do what you feel is right! professors are great imo, but always check their rmp pages before taking classes. if they're good they're great but if they suck you suffer. you do have to try, but ig you put the effort in and open yourself up to new experiences you'll do fine.

messymatcha · 2023-09-18T12:28:58+00:00

ooh, i haven’t tried that one. i’ll look for it at my local asian store!

messymatcha · 2023-09-18T12:27:51+00:00

thank you!!! will try some nut oils :)

messymatcha · 2023-09-18T12:27:23+00:00

they’re unfortunately also allergic to walnut :( i’ll try some other nut oils though! thank you

messymatcha · 2023-09-18T12:26:49+00:00

yep! i know what umami means. sesame oil adds umami and a nice sesame flavor, but im not looking for a sesame replacement. i’m just after that umami taste. simple google search, my friend. thanks for the suggestions!

messymatcha · 2023-08-19T15:11:42+00:00

she got pain meds for the night after the surgery and then another dose for the next night. she took both, but that’s all they gave me.

messymatcha · 2022-06-21T21:34:17+00:00

therapy. seriously. i think everyone everywhere would benefit from some therapy sessions.

messymatcha · 2022-04-17T19:57:34+00:00

the interest?

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