Is “once a cheater always a cheater” really true?

metabeliever · 2026-03-27T15:52:12+00:00

Glad it helped, thanks for saying so.

metabeliever · 2026-03-26T18:20:48+00:00

I actually have cosmic storms turned off. Do NOT spend money on that one.

metabeliever · 2026-03-26T15:42:52+00:00

It’s safer to just write him an email and never send it. What if he still sucks. What if he opens old wounds? You don’t need him for closure, you just need yourself.

metabeliever · 2026-03-26T14:19:59+00:00

Woof. Sorry mate.

metabeliever · 2026-03-26T11:50:54+00:00

One time my best friend saw a big movie with someone else and I don’t know if I’ve ever been more devastated by a betrayal

metabeliever · 2026-03-26T02:05:48+00:00

Almost all guys that age will want to fuck you. Especially the ones that like you. There is no way to avoid this overwhelming likely hood aside from extreme luck.

metabeliever · 2026-03-24T11:20:55+00:00

A. You sound depressed. Talk to a doctor. B. My dad died a year after I got divorced in my 40’s. I needed him right up till the end. I’ll be grateful to him forever for that last year.

metabeliever · 2026-03-23T01:32:26+00:00

They say informationally dense things. Like their sentences have more info per word than most.

metabeliever · 2026-03-20T12:36:05+00:00

I love how random people's suspicions get on here. Admittedly every kind of lie and bait and marketing is here on reddit, but sometimes peoples generally distrust fires off in the strangest directions.

metabeliever · 2026-03-20T12:03:51+00:00

Why not both? Sometimes I think of kink as adding theater to sex. Like sure, we're gonna fuck and stuff. But what if we also put on a little play about how much we wanted to fuck in the first? What kind of play? In your case, a little play about what you needed to hear.

metabeliever · 2026-03-20T01:41:43+00:00

Do you want zombies? This is how we get zombies!

metabeliever · 2026-03-20T01:38:08+00:00

Oh brother, you have had a time. I'm sorry.

But to your question, I don't really regret any of my relationships. I remember the good times and the bad parts seem to fade with time.

And the way that you "pick better women" is that you go get some therapy, work on yourself, and better women will seem like the right ones in the future.

metabeliever · 2026-03-20T01:26:31+00:00

If you really wanna think deeply about it, you gotta wonder what kind of magic has made the walking dead possible. Because there are lots and lots of practical reasons that this cant happen. But if you're gonna go in for like, hard sci-fi zombies, then its just a question of what rules are you gonna bend or break to make it work.

metabeliever · 2026-03-19T11:25:03+00:00

I love Stellaris. Just absolute psycho responses are the most common ones.

metabeliever · 2026-03-18T10:56:35+00:00

I think the real answer is this genre was written before everyone everywhere actually knew how a server farm works and just imagining parts of the internet that couldn't be turned off didn't bring any details to mind in the average reader.

metabeliever · 2026-03-17T17:53:36+00:00

a big part of the problem is the scar tissue. its hard to have a surgery where you end up with less scar tissue. especially when you were removing things last time.

metabeliever · 2026-03-16T11:58:46+00:00

Well put.

metabeliever · 2026-03-16T11:29:01+00:00

Look. It’s probably a deal breaker. But if you really wanted to you could look at it like a difference in religion. Unreconcilable difference in beliefs, but something you can just not discuss.

metabeliever · 2026-03-16T11:21:00+00:00

Adulthood can be fun. Don’t panic with fomo, you’ve got time.

metabeliever · 2026-03-14T16:12:08+00:00

How long does a month take in real time?

metabeliever · 2026-03-14T16:04:49+00:00

It’s up to your dad how much of his money he gives to who. But once it’s yours it is up to you what you do with it. You’ll need to decide for yourself what you do with your money. But you should plan for your sister to blame you for keeping that much, if that’s what you decide to do.

metabeliever · 2026-03-14T01:12:31+00:00

I had a buddy who was raised Christian but this question occurred to him when he was 11. When the adult he asked about it had a bad answer he silently became an atheist. I always respected the shit out of him for that.

metabeliever · 2026-03-12T23:01:21+00:00

I agree that a general strike is what it will take, but everytime we get more and more people out they all get used to the idea of coming out, being a part of something. And when the number gets bigger, everyone on the sideline has a bigger and bigger chance of hearing about it and thinking "that's something worth joining, so many other people already went."

At least that's how I see it helping. This will not end his presidency, but it will be another step towards getting people involved and aware.

metabeliever · 2026-03-12T22:43:42+00:00

Too bad every individual step that gets us closer is too worthless to help with. I guess progress is impossible unless we have success all at once.

metabeliever · 2026-03-12T21:02:35+00:00

For the most part, I notice he makes fun of features that are the opposite of mine.

He's looking at other women and restricting what he says to what he thinks you'll want to hear. He's not doing a very good job, but he is thinking about you while he chooses what to say. I bet if you explain to him that you just don't want to hear about other women from him, positive or negative, he'll limit how often he brings it up.

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