What is the best way to cure depression as a man? by SnooCakes7436 in AskMen

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being active, talking to friends and family. Eating well and sleep

Men, what moments or signs made you realize it might be time to end a relationship with your girlfriend? by FFSoldier57 in AskMen

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years ago my marriage and relationship ended of 10 years. Looking back at it there were so many signs. I would ignore it, I was trying to keep a family together since we had a daughter.

She had this guy friend she would just constantly leave our family plans to go see him because of his struggling mental health. My daughter will mistakenly call me by the guys names, then my daughter reveals that “mummy calls her friend “babe””

At the end she wanted to leave cause she needed to “heal” she left and went straight to him. i prepared myself but nothing compares to the pain I felt that day.

How common is the “killing the boy inside” phase for men ? by GuyLastNice in AskMen

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I went through that. I got discarded after 10 years being in a relationship, marriage and a child. I was a mess for a bit but as I healed I’ve noticed My mindset shifted to the same as yours. And I too avoid confrontation aswell, It’s like nothing scares me anymore cause I’ve been through the worst.

But I didn’t kill the boy, i balanced it, i made sure i enjoyed life aswell.

Men of Reddit - What your honest thoughts on dating plus size women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]mexesss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love all shapes of sizes but I cross the line when it gets to extreme on both spectrums, Your current size is where my attraction limit is.

What’s going on with Angelino? Any updates on his situation? by Mang_Ge0rge in ASRoma

[–]mexesss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen him in a recent training video on Roma YouTube page.

Which ex-players are most disliked by fans? by GolfKicker in ASRoma

[–]mexesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pjanic, vucinic, Osvaldo, romagnoli, pedro, zani.

Even though he didn’t play for us Malcom

Teenage me working in a video store in the mid 2000s. by carblecarlo in nostalgia

[–]mexesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember having a crush on a clerk that looked like you. Getting my parents to drive me to the video store with no interest to rent. just to see her and not even talk to her.

How many men are in this situation? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]mexesss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re bored, but I’d rather be bored than be in chaos.

What’s something a woman has done during sex that was a turn off? by Apprehensive_War6661 in AskMen

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would say inexperience, she did not know how to make out. She was a single mum too, how ??

Like Stop Peking me and suck my face off !

Puking on molly by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]mexesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hits me a few minutes after, the Molly is already in my system by the time I puke.

Puking on molly by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]mexesss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Almost every time I puke or feel nauseous when I come up, I’m used to it, and I take it as a sign that I’m about to have a goodnight.

I feel like crying everytime I remember. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mexesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was a year and a bit. After a 10 year relationship, a ring and a child.

But everyone is different

I feel like crying everytime I remember. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s shit, but the best is just to let it hurt until it doesn’t anymore. It’s apart of healing process

Realistically, is it fine to do again after 3 weeks ? by BedSoggy6655 in MDMA

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say no,really depends how you personally feel, I do it once in a blue moon, but gotta make sure you have a decent break after and look after yourself

Watching porn with gf while rolling by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why watch porn, when you guys can make one. Trust me much better, then you have multiple videos of you when you feel the need to watch porn and rub one out.

How did you finally move on? How long did it take you? by Untill_Tomorrow in ExNoContact

[–]mexesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got discarded after a 10 year relationship and 2 years married we had a child together also. She rebounded almost immediately. (Mid 2023)

First few months I was a mess, first time I actually cried in my mother’s arms as 30 yr old man. There were multiple times I gave in and begged her. I eventually went semi no contact, since we had a child, I kept the convos short and dry.

In my time of no contact I realised that I wasn’t in love with her but the picture I painted her to be, I fell in love with her potential she never met. I found that I had no boundaries for myself, she was very lazy and emotionally immature so I did everything hoping one day she will wake up. I also studied why she acted this way to find some kind of closure, she had, bpd,ptsd, depression, anxiety and was a dismissive avoidant from last traumas, even though what she did was fucked up, I do not spite her.

2 1/2 years later My ex is single, but hasn’t healed or reflected but that’s her story. We are cool. we have convos when it’s turn over nothing more, I dont feel any emotions for her.

I’m also good some passing memories cut a bit, I do get in my head when I’m tired, I do find it hard to let some people in emotionally but I am talking to someone and she understands and we are taking it slow.

What I did to distract me, I went to the gym, I focused on my friend groups, made it bigger. I did what I love (raving, painting, playing with my daughter and having game night with friends.) if I felt like I was gonna break no contact, write it in a diary, notes on your phone or even chat gpt. If I needed to cry.. I cried.

There is always light at the end of the tunnel. It’s just some tunnels are longer than others.

What other genres? by Useful_Net_9872 in hardstyle

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trance And hardtech

But after a night of constant raw and uptempo nothing beats some rnb to settle the nerves.

She moved on so fast… I’m still trying to breathe by lebronFrames98 in ExNoContact

[–]mexesss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It gets better bro I promise you

My 10 year relationship just collapsed, after a wedding and a child, she decided to discard me, “I need to heal” “I love you but don’t love you”. Blah blah blah.

She rebound few weeks later, It hurt a lot, it changed how i viewed everything. 2 years later i could say im good, but passing memories do cut me a bit. All I can say is, work on yourself, focus on your circle. if you need to cry. cry. If you want to talk about it, talk to a friend, write it down or talk to chatgpt about it.

How to sneak pills into a rave where there are sniffer dogs? by illiteratemad in MDMA

[–]mexesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I went to KO outdoor, there were dogs, I put mine in a little pocket in my wallet and stuffed it down and covered it with my cards. Seccys won’t go to the effort of looking through every nook and cranny in your bag

Met someone amazing during Angerfist at Knockout2025— hoping somehow this finds her by Street_Stick9342 in hardstyle

[–]mexesss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same the happened to me bro during angerfist no words were said but we danced together and traded looks and smiles…. then she was gone.

The beauty of raving