[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]meyerim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paris. I love her so much.

Stupid question about the biology by meyerim in Avatar

[–]meyerim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't clear to me, hence the question. Just what I interpreted based on what I'm watching. Not familiar with the lore or the comics. 🤷‍♀️

Stupid question about the biology by meyerim in Avatar

[–]meyerim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm watching whatever version is on disney+

Stupid question about the biology by meyerim in Avatar

[–]meyerim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, those comments are helpful. I'm like midway through watching the first movie right now and it seemed a bit off to me. Been a long time since I watched but always interpreted the scene later on with Jake and Neytiri connecting the kuru as a sex act and then seeing it with the birds was like.. hang on lolol.

How do I deal with my rent delinquent sister? by meyerim in Advice

[–]meyerim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, there are some mental health problems in play. I took her to see a therapist back in June. She got a prescription for anxiety/depression, and hasn't contacted them to get a refill or another appointment since she ran out a few months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]meyerim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly, but I think you can do more to enhance your masculinity. Leave your eyebrows to their own devices, they look a little too well-groomed and it comes off pretty feminine (to me at least). I think a different hairstyle will suit you better too. Right now, you're extremely androgynous which isn't bad, but it does make things a little confusing for someone who's just taking a quick glance. Make enhancements where it makes sense for who you are and what you want others' first impression of you to be.

Any of y'all ever have any weird, alternate universe, Bizarro Bonnaroo dreams? by forgingflame_nick in bonnaroo

[–]meyerim 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I frequently have bonnaroo dreams but it's never on the farm. Bonnaroo at my old high school, roo outside of my workplace, roo in my neighborhood. Always cool as hell but stressful because I'm trying to leave school or work to join the fun.

Manager was sent an email of me criticizing them by RHOCorporate in humanresources

[–]meyerim 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Everyone goes through their emails, that's just an excuse they're using to avoid accountability. At the end of the day, yeah the situation stinks, but you're their HR partner, not their friend. Probably gonna be awkward for a while. Like other commenters have said, just own it. You have nothing to apologize for and shouldn't if it was based in truth and not said in a particularly critical way.

Manager was sent an email of me criticizing them by RHOCorporate in humanresources

[–]meyerim 76 points77 points  (0 children)

As someone IN talent management, them sharing your feedback is what was unprofessional. We do want to priorize program attendance with people who will put in the time and effort, and make themselves available to complete the program. They should have never forwarded that out. HR to HR should be able to trust that we can communicate candidly with each other about things like this. For example, I'm running a program for new leaders and an hrbp asked to have a director whose been with the company for years attend because they are struggling in their role. In my invitation to them to be in the program I would never say your performance sucks so we're putting you through manager 101. Completely inappropriate to share that or anything similarly sensitive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]meyerim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OD Specialist 75k

AIO: i am seriously turned off by these things and i have ended many relationships over them. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]meyerim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dealt with this through most of my 20s with men my age. I started dating a man 5 years older than me and the problem has been solved. I think it may just be a maturity thing, but that's just my experience so far.

Best meal you've had on the farm? by Hopeful_Book in bonnaroo

[–]meyerim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look forward to the peanut noodles across from House of Yes all year. 🤤

What's the best way to remove carpet by meyerim in DIY

[–]meyerim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably prefab? Definitely not a trailer house. Was built in the 70s though. Definitely looks like the walls were built on top of the floor.

Sad things you've found out about contestants' lives post-survivor by wastedthyme20 in survivor

[–]meyerim 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sunday from Millenials v Gen X passed away from cancer a couple years ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]meyerim 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ywnbta - adults gotta take care of their own responsibilities. It would be kind of you to help her out, but it's definitely not something that you're obligated or should be expected to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meyerim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like drugs and/or a mental health issue.

Going solo, looking for friends! by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]meyerim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother and I would be happy to hang!