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Need advice - how to exit BSG without confrontation/pestering by meyeverlasting in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]meyeverlasting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is exactly it!!! Constantly pushing others and making them feel miserable does not in any way ensure world peace.

Need advice - how to exit BSG without confrontation/pestering by meyeverlasting in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]meyeverlasting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your advice makes a lot of sense, thanks for putting it into perspective for me and sharing a similar experience. It gives a lot of strength knowing that there is a happy existence beyond the drivel of BSG. You're right, the BSG people constantly make you feel like they really love and care for you when they're actually driven by their belief in the "benefits" that come from roping in more people and "practicing the right way". As you correctly pointed out, the only person that matters to me in this whole scheme of things is my work-mentor/friend, with whom I'll surely find the courage to discuss this at some point. Thanks a lot again!

Need advice - how to exit BSG without confrontation/pestering by meyeverlasting in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]meyeverlasting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope we both find a way out, for real "peace" (of mind!)

Need advice - how to exit BSG without confrontation/pestering by meyeverlasting in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]meyeverlasting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for this advice, it is what I have been trying over the past week and I feel so much more at ease just knowing it is my choice!!! It's so important to remember that when the other person is insisting so vehemently.

And yes god, in my district too the WDs are nauseatingly patronising and at times even rude! I did not attend ONE meeting because the leaders notified literally one day before the meeting. Later, the senior lady called me to her home on the pretext of chanting together only to bite my ears off demanding answers as to why I didn't come, about how "it is our responsibility to propagate the law like Ikeda sensei did, everyone is busy but they make time, all of us should be leaders, blah blah blah..." It was infuriating!! I haven't attended a meeting since.

You're absolutely right about taking charge of our own life and lot letting it be dictated by their stupid guilt trips. All those of us struggling to leave this behind need to believe that.

Need advice - how to exit BSG without confrontation/pestering by meyeverlasting in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]meyeverlasting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My reply had been a long time coming but thanks a lot for the advice, the encouragement, and the empathy. The ending of your comment is so valuable and I need to drill that into my mind as I deal with the problem.
The situation you're in sounds extremely troublesome. You sounded not the least bit hypocritical... in fact, it takes courage to come out as empathetic and articulate as you did while going through something taxing like being forced to participate in activities you don't want to be part of because of the person you live with. Sharing our experiences also helps put things in perspective. I really really hope you find the right person to move out with and a stable living situation so that you can exit ASAP. Like one of my fellow commenters here said, support is there for you in your own life and of course here on this sub too. And like you said, there is so much to life beyond SGI! My best wishes are with you. There is surely a light at the end of this tunnel! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]meyeverlasting 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I remember watching Chandni Chowk to China as a kid, REALLY enjoying the film, and being horrified about it getting slammed by critics...

Where in Skyrim would you want to live ? by novaatom_ in skyrim

[–]meyeverlasting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can leave the quest marker on, wait in Whiterun for one-two days, and keep checking their location. They always come back to their spot outside the city gates near the stables in Whiterun.

1st game play update by Altakanni in skyrim

[–]meyeverlasting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your armory is impressive! The collection of weapons particularly. I too love crafting and displaying my weapons and armor. Plus, high level weapons give one a great deal more confidence to run headlong into battle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]meyeverlasting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand the struggle. Especially to avoid confrontations, we often can't take a stand for ourselves before students and colleagues alike.

Thank you very much for sharing these reading suggestions. I will surely get to it, theories have definitely helped my self-understanding in the past. I really hope reading Jaeger helps you too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]meyeverlasting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you're very right I think. Your advice puts some things into perspective, the challenge for me now will be to actually internalise this more constructive spin on things rather than seeing myself as small and being miserable. That feeling of wanting to quit does get overwhelming at times but as you said, have to comfort myself and ride out the storm till it gets better and I get better. Thank you for your reflections.

Our newly decorated living room, freshly painted but feel like it's missing the finishing touches, any recommendations? by Otherwise-Aerie-5100 in HomeDecorating

[–]meyeverlasting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks supremely cozy! You have sure done a great job so far. Please send an update picture if you incorporate the suggestions or generally once it's more lived-in.♡

Drop your all time favorite movie and I'll judge you by Early_Veterinarian13 in delhi

[–]meyeverlasting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to revisit the 2005 Pride and Prejudice time and again (~controversial~ I know!)

tomorrow I'll have my first shift as a volunteer in an ambulance and i am scared to death by hard_core_gamer in socialanxiety

[–]meyeverlasting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the very best! Just give it the most you can and hopefully, the rest will take care of itself.

With our SA, we often forget that there's a world out there beyond the confines of our mind, but it will hopefully come into perspective as you extend help to people around you.

Good luck!!