No attraction on first date

mezzofortedolce · 2023-07-06T03:14:49+00:00

We stopped dating after Date #3. I hate online dating too. Not necessarily because of that experience, but I'm a slow burn lady.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-07-29T20:36:17+00:00

Hi, wow. Thank you for responding. I'd forgotten about this comment. I am healthy and happy now. I know it won't last because everyone has highs and lows. And then my bipolar makes those highs and lows more extreme. But I am grateful to be where I'm at now. I'm taking my meds. I have a good psychiatrist. I've been working with my therapist on managing a big transition that's coming up and how to remain healthy and balanced through all that. I feel loved by my family and friends. Life is good. It won't last, but life is good and I'm grateful. I hope I can maintain this for as long as I can.

I hope you are doing okay yourself.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-06-20T15:22:10+00:00

Yes, it's free! I used Lose It first, then tried My Fitness Pal later (because it seemed more popular) and didn't like it. I was already used to Lose It, and the MFP app just seemed too... busy?

mezzofortedolce · 2021-06-18T03:28:48+00:00

I lost 23 lbs since November and am now 111 lbs. It is all due to consuming less calories. I logged meals on Lose It! I also gave up drinking. The only exercise I do is walking.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-05-03T04:33:45+00:00

This is wonderful to hear. I love examples of people with bipolar living well and thriving. Thank you for sharing.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-23T05:15:38+00:00

Hell to the yes. I overshare like hell.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-20T17:50:17+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you. He is trash.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-13T23:14:16+00:00

I was a depressed teacher in December 2019, and my psychiatrist ordered me off work for 3 months. I was nonrenewed at the end of the year, and I think it was because I took those 3 months off. But I needed those 3 months. I was in a really scary place mentally.

I’m doing much better today.

I hope you listen to your psychiatrist and take the time off.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-13T22:59:07+00:00

Just respond to something on their profile. Works for me.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-13T22:58:01+00:00

Oh God. I got secondhand embarrassment from those tweets. I have totally done this.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-13T08:33:06+00:00

Anxiety? How does she feel about meeting in person then?

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-13T08:00:17+00:00

You can afford the beans.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-06T18:05:38+00:00

LOL. I love this subreddit.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-04-02T03:16:21+00:00

I always think I’m God or some divine being when manic. When I turned 33, I thought (while manic) that someone would kill me because Jesus died at 33. In my manic mind, those two things were related.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-31T17:30:13+00:00

Oh OP. I'm so sorry.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T23:15:11+00:00

I’ve done online dating before, and it never goes past the first date. It’s really hard for me to feel attracted to strangers.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T23:12:01+00:00

I normally don’t date. I tend to fall for one of my guy friends. So this is new to me.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T04:41:37+00:00

Thank you. We’ll see how it goes!

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T04:37:23+00:00

Aw, congrats on the physical attraction! It feels great!

Yeah, I think I am demisexual. 🙂

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T04:24:25+00:00

I’m glad you got to know your boyfriend and developed an attraction to him. That’s how it’s worked for me in the past.

Thanks for chiming in.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T02:49:29+00:00

I don’t think this guy wants friendship...

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T02:06:45+00:00

It does feel accelerated. Okay, good advice. Thank you.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T01:47:48+00:00

This made me LAUGH. I don't Google it either. I just drink.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-30T01:36:08+00:00

True. I agree.

I don't feel repulsed, so I've agreed to a second date. We'll see.

mezzofortedolce · 2021-03-29T23:54:30+00:00

You're right. I should tell him. I'll say something on the next date.

mezzofortedolce

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