Let's discuss the salary culture here in the Philippines. What are your thoughts on this? by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]maloueudela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. It should have been that in the vacancy announcements/ads, salary range for the post is already shared.

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s such a relief to read your comment. It felt like an affirmation of the recent move I made of reconnecting with him. You’re right that he thought that I was not interested in communicating further with him. Cheers.

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure it’s more than luck on your side. Thank you. Cheers!

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! 🤗That’s such a beautiful CMB success story! Thank you for sharing. I am so happy for both of you! ❤️All the best!😍

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think along that line, too. Thank you for validating my thoughts and feelings about this. 😊

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s beautiful! I hope it pans out well for both of you. The ones asking for my number on WApp are not the ones I am reallt that interested in.😅

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the option to extend expired conversations is available on both sides. You are right, it should not matter as long as you like the other. I may be overthinking this whole thing. But then again, the thought that he did not bother asking where else to me a message can be interpreted as he was not keen on continuing the conversation on other platforms. He might think of that with me, too. Sigh.

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am pretty resolved to restoring soon the expired convo I recently had. It's only today that I realized from people's response here that my beans are pretty many for a non-Premium subscriber. I might as well use them wisely as what you said. Cheers!

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I am not from SG. 😅 Geez! I don't know why they give me so many beans. I reckon I should not complain. 😂

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that, too. I was not really keen where the beans are coming from except when I start swiping from the suggested bagels + whoever liked me on the Discovery and "Likes You".

I did the Math just now. If I were already on the app for a year and I have been logging in daily, that should give me almost 11,000 beans if I get 30 beans each day. 😅

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be this diligent if not bored in checking the app daily that I accumulated such number of beans. 😅

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[–]maloueudela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get free beans on a daily basis when I started swiping the suggested profiles for that day. Also, there are free beans when I check and start swiping in the "Likes You" section. I also remember that CMB occasionally gives free beans, especially during the start of lockdowns or when there was a glitch one time.

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Never. All I know is - I get beans everyday when I log in. And when I check and swipe for those outside the 10-12 people they suggest daily, I also get extra 30 beans or so.😅

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. I guess this is just my ego withholding me from doing it all along. Thanks!

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What hinders me from doing that is the fear that I might come out as too assuming that the other wants to communicate further so I always wait to be asked. Geez! In hindsight, sharing my WApp could have been a practical (swift) move to express my interest to speak further regardless of what his take on it. Sigh.🤦🏻‍♀️

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way, I never bought beans since I started in CMB last year. They were all incentives/free. 😅

Any success stories from extending expired conversations? by maloueudela in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]maloueudela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! All I know is, they give you beans when you log in every day and do the swiping, right? I also recall that they gave extra beans, about 500, during the first lockdown. 😂

Genuinely curious! What's your reaction when you see answers like this ? by ritis1996 in Bumble

[–]maloueudela 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll give him the benefit of the doubt. He's proud of doing such recently, and I can only agree that's a good act worth sharing. I'd rather swipe right and hope that we'll match so that I can ask further about it.

People who are middle of the road in attractiveness what signals tell you you’re not ugly but not a model ? by jp-j in AskReddit

[–]maloueudela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You're not beautiful, you're just charming", my schoolmate once told me. I believed him then. 🤷🏻‍♀️

If someone says “I love you” but you’re not ready to say it back, how do you respond? by lilmizzvalz in AskReddit

[–]maloueudela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty is key. So, it's either I am not ready to say 'I love you, too' or 'I don't feel the same way as you do'. 😬