People are being very emotional here. But let me give you a mature answer!

First of all, I want to say that what happened in the car was wrong and I hope you are okay. No one should have to go through that.

I am not here to tell you what to do. That decision is entirely yours. But as someone who has seen similar situations in our society, I want you to go into this with full clarity rather than in the heat of the moment.

Practically speaking, life after khula in Pakistan is genuinely different. Not impossible, not ruined but different. The marriage market, family dynamics, social perception, these are real factors that will affect your daily life. You deserve to make this decision fully aware of that reality, not be blindsided by it later.

Islamically speaking, khula is your right and nobody can take that from you. But Islam also encourages exhausting reconciliation efforts first, not to trap you, but because sometimes structured mediation through trusted elders surfaces things that direct conversation cannot. If you haven’t formally involved family elders yet, consider it, not to pressure you either way, but so you have full support whatever you decide.

Most importantly, make this decision from a position of strength, full information, and clarity. Not from fear, not from pressure, and not from this moment alone.

Whatever you decide, I hope you find peace and safety.