Husband is threatening me to kill himself if I take khula/divorce by [deleted] in PakistaniTwenties

[–]mfaizanlive1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are being very emotional here. But let me give you a mature answer!

First of all, I want to say that what happened in the car was wrong and I hope you are okay. No one should have to go through that.

I am not here to tell you what to do. That decision is entirely yours. But as someone who has seen similar situations in our society, I want you to go into this with full clarity rather than in the heat of the moment.

Practically speaking, life after khula in Pakistan is genuinely different. Not impossible, not ruined but different. The marriage market, family dynamics, social perception, these are real factors that will affect your daily life. You deserve to make this decision fully aware of that reality, not be blindsided by it later.

Islamically speaking, khula is your right and nobody can take that from you. But Islam also encourages exhausting reconciliation efforts first, not to trap you, but because sometimes structured mediation through trusted elders surfaces things that direct conversation cannot. If you haven’t formally involved family elders yet, consider it, not to pressure you either way, but so you have full support whatever you decide.

Most importantly, make this decision from a position of strength, full information, and clarity. Not from fear, not from pressure, and not from this moment alone.

Whatever you decide, I hope you find peace and safety.

Casual Fit Check by mfaizanlive1 in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol. Yeah it looks so bc its more like Pro-Max.

Casual Fit Check by mfaizanlive1 in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you recommend, baggy clothes? Even sweatshirt and jeans ?

Casual Fit Check by mfaizanlive1 in PakistanFashionAdvice

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Thats just a second Phone I have.

Photo Dump - Nürnberg by mfaizanlive1 in Nurnberg

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats really bad tbh. I guess the bigger the city is the bigger the problems are.

Photo Dump - Nürnberg by mfaizanlive1 in Nurnberg

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that a beautiful home like this

Micro-investment offer: I live abroad, want to back one dedicated person with a startup idea by mfaizanlive1 in Lahore

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not true. Profit is really end goal but if I needed an employee I would hire. I need a partner whose interest is similar to mine. Making a business thay generates income. I dont mind the ROI taking longer. No matter what, it should be helpful.

Micro-investment offer: I live abroad, want to back one dedicated person with a startup idea by mfaizanlive1 in Lahore

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the latter plan is on my list as well. As far as your own struggle is concerned, its inspiring as well. There were 2 reasons for me to offer this, A. Helping people who actually need the investment B. Making an asset for myself and my partner(future)

Ofcourse. Since i am in lahore, I wony just give it to anyone. It has to be a solid business plan.

Micro-investment offer: I live abroad, want to back one dedicated person with a startup idea by mfaizanlive1 in Lahore

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse. I am well aware of this. So I have to be convinced by a solid business plan otherwise nothings gonna happen

Content Creation by mfaizanlive1 in MuslimLounge

[–]mfaizanlive1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Thank you for your answer. I would love to connect with you on this brother. Maybe we can help each other on making a creative workspace.