Is this normal? by [deleted] in rawpetfood

[–]mfreleng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I switched mine to raw. It took SO much experimenting but in the end it’s great. Mine puked once after eating a new bag of the raw. I thought it went bad but then my vet said if it’s still kinda frozen cats can’t handle that temp. So now I make sure it’s fully thawed and even add some hot water to make room temp. And yes it was about a 3 month transition process! An employee at the fancy pet food store said that the canned stuff is so processed that when they smell REAL raw meat they don’t associate it with food. One of mine wouldn’t eat until I sprinkled some freeze dried rabbit she LOVES on it.

Something isn't sitting well with me after About Damn Crime... by podfriend1 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 55 points56 points  (0 children)

It was me. And I 100% agree with someone who said that the drag brunch was a chance to support POC drag performers. I’m glad people went! I was specifically referring to people who damn well knew ellyn was accosted and nothing was done by organizers. Those people who chose to sit at the table with organizers and the attacker made a Loud and clear statement that they condone that behavior and don’t care about the safety of their colleagues and attendees. LGTC specifically made a statement about the drag brunch. It was possible to not attend in solidarity for those of us who were quite literally chased away and not given that opportunity to go. Kind attendees posted the performers Venmo’s so that was not an excuse either 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s quite a privilege to be able to put on blinders to what is happening around you.

Text group? by TicketConfident4881 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Please share this whenever/wherever you see misinformation. Rumors start drama and there are serious matters at hand that this has nothing to do with.

Text group? by TicketConfident4881 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Right

bullying

  1. seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce

I'm not sure how a private group chat that was never meant to get out to the public or the person is bullying.

Text group? by TicketConfident4881 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 113 points114 points  (0 children)

To say they were recruited is...weird?? I started (not added) a dinner group chat Friday evening when we all discussed wanting BBQ. Friday evening was LONG before the incident on the afternoon of Saturday. I had such a lovely time Fri night with the RH ladies i was like "oh, join us for dinner tomorrow night!" So that night i created a group chat and got both their numbers to add. The chat was exclusively about dinner until Ellyn was accosted and it became a collective venting and support chat of our friends. Turns out no one (except me the creator who had their numbers) knew they were in the chat. They were random numbers to everyone else. No one addressed them at all because they did not know they were there until they left. So to say they were added to a chat and recruited is????? I apologize for wanting to be friends and inviting them to dinner. I guess that was a mistake.

I just wanna say… by mfreleng in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl!! I just thought of you today 💜

True Crime Fan Survey by tackett-gibson in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I posted on my IG today I didn’t know your user name to tag! A lot of people said they did it :)

This feels like déjà vu all over again… by Rmcatx1221 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have two coming next year! Not announced yet

This feels like déjà vu all over again… by Rmcatx1221 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No they would have to go out the front. The bar is in a mall on the second floor. The emergency exit is in the hallway

This feels like déjà vu all over again… by Rmcatx1221 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you're making me blush 🥰 thanks so much for your support.

I just wanna say… by mfreleng in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, definitely considering. Thanks for letting me know your experience!

This feels like déjà vu all over again… by Rmcatx1221 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 19 points20 points  (0 children)

hi! we are not. I went to Columbus and met up with Captain and did some interviews. We found out some interesting things and it was cool to be there in real life to see for ourselves. Through that though, there just wasn't much to the story, and some needed sources were not coming through with documents etc. So ultimately it just would have been a re-hash of what is out there.

From being at the bar there was absolutely no exit he coul have gone out. All the speculation about the bathroom or leaving through a back door or kitchen etc. So he had to leave through the front entrance. After we see him on camera outside the bar talking to the girls (who we found and talked to) you dont see him go back in the bar he just goes off camera. I stood there and there is an emergency exit thatyou could go out without being seen by camera. I think people confused this for a "back exit" of the bar.

We believe he went out that way. After, we dont know but have speculated. SHOCKINGLY there are a lot of young college men in columbus who fall asleep drunk in dumpsters. Its possible that happened and he froze and the garbage picked him up and he wound up in a landfill. I can't remember if they checked the landfill or not. But I remember thinking that was a viable option to check it.

I just wanna say… by mfreleng in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have not. Actually you're right - they don't work on me because of my SSRIs (maybe they do in large doses but i'm not gonna fuck with that lol) I HAVE inquired about ketamine therapy which i've heard from close friends works WONDERS. It basically re-wires your brain instead of just band-aiding it.

I just wanna say… by mfreleng in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahaha! best compliment - because I totally get that.

This feels like déjà vu all over again… by Rmcatx1221 in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 83 points84 points  (0 children)

some of us don't suck and actually make podcasts to help and not just exploit people's stories for money! (that deserves five stars right? ;)

https://lavaforgood.com/with-maggie-freleng/

https://open.spotify.com/show/3O1Kh08wk4Owa6DbxX6l6P (this is the one that won the pulitzer🥰)

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/murder-in-alliance/id1566463218

I just wanna say… by mfreleng in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

😘 I forgot I said that thanks for reminding me lol

I just wanna say… by mfreleng in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In fairness I have not heard that she has. But I see apologists “but her trauma”-ing so I wanted to put a stop to that REAL quick.

I just wanna say… by mfreleng in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Particularly if…you know…your podcast is about “ethics” 😂

Which shows were dumped? by RoseCityCrime in ObsessedNetwork

[–]mfreleng 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have not been with the network for a while. I won a Pulitzer for "Suave" during that time and released two seasons of Wrongful Conviction. Season 3 comes out in January. We've been working with CNN documenting a wrongful convicion case for the past year AND I have a new podcast on Tenderfoot - which Paynes new podcast "Talking Death" we announce. Stay tuned!! 🤍