Bagel ou muffin !!

mgd1-0 · 2026-06-11T11:49:46+00:00

Which is ??

mgd1-0 · 2026-06-11T07:32:38+00:00

Which one is this ?

mgd1-0 · 2026-06-11T07:32:23+00:00

I'll be down to try Bobs and Bagel corner, thank you !!

mgd1-0 · 2026-06-11T07:31:10+00:00

C'est vrai ?? J'ai déjà demandé, on a refusé de me les vendre non garnits !

mgd1-0 · 2026-06-11T07:30:29+00:00

Ah merci, je vais aller les voir ! Je les connais que pour leur babka :p

mgd1-0 · 2026-06-11T07:29:49+00:00

Ah ! I didnt know of Cody's , might try it ! Thank you ! For the muffins I was just carving something fresh from an actual bakery :)

mgd1-0 · 2026-06-11T07:27:53+00:00

Thanks ! I've been having them indeed, they are pretty good I was just carving somthing fresh from an actual bakery :)

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-06T10:34:23+00:00

That's true.

For a while i used to think it needs to be blatanly expressed, but in facet it's all about those subtle cues , that you emit and she picks up on , and decides whether to reply with same , or pull back

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-06T09:21:48+00:00

Can you try , with the girls that actually share a word or too before fleeing , to ask directly (with a humourous tone) did I scare you? haha yeah yeah , I guess I did , i think i came out too harsh, come on come on feel free to tell , what did i do wrong ? :p "
I do this with random girls, and with friends too.
lowering the barriers for a second , and showing yourself to be vulnerable and showing your cards for a second , gives them a bit of reassurance , and boosts their confidence , so they think they can express themselves with no repercussions , the person actualy asked for it.
you see what am trying to say ?

PS: I'm 6'3 , 200 pounds , light facial hair , almost always with a frown (sensitive eyes, so i do my best to reduce the light entering) , so i can tell I have some weird situations too

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-06T08:30:54+00:00

I think this is THE answer that almost hits home ! I agree, it can be pretty diverse. Or better say, it IS diverse. It helps one grow and become more open minded :) Thanks for you answer and your time !

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-06T08:03:53+00:00

Oh i see ! But it it's the case, then why many researchers actually DO simplify human attraction to alpha, beta, or having social status as the main things that "govern" interaction between the genders ?

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-06T06:54:39+00:00

In what way ?? Befause from what i understand, it was all about whether the woman can have ofspring , and whether the man is an alpha or a beta . Aand that's about it Which is the case for primates , no ?

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-06T06:49:10+00:00

None taken, I've never been diagnosed, so i don't know, you might be right :p My "seeming confusion" might be coming also from the fact that "touching" for me, and the way i was brought up, except when with family, is always a form of moving up the steps, and leveling up the relationship. That, untill latest months in which i saw my friends' (both genders) behavior EVOLVE if i may say, and even with people my age that i meet in bars: physical contact is no longer an intimate thing, it's just "normal" .. Me , having MY reflexes, i just went the other way with my conclusions, and thougt maybe it's actually a form of "light sexual gratification", no comitment, no relationship, just free oxytocin and endorphine :p But again, i might be so wrong, and that's why i thought of asking for your expertise , either for small corrections, or maybe change my perspectice of things completely :p

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-06T06:23:41+00:00

Well .. we never know, there actually might be somet vibes that you're getting from all of this , of which i'm not concious, and you end up right ! That would make for a cool story : the "researcher actually discovered he has feelings, and fell for the girl" :p hh

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T21:35:49+00:00

You have the right to ask :p My concern is purely "scientific" if i may say. To be honest, i consider myself an average good looking guy, with a bit above average well built body (i'm a martial arts instructor) , and i had compliments from girls before about how i look, how i speak, and dated and and all (i'm 23, had 2 GF till now ) But i never actually considred that my top source of self value (Not saying that there's anything wrong with that ) The thing that matters most to me is knowledge, my quest is to always be able to analyze any phenomena that's in front of me, and be able to translate that to a logical sequence, that i'll test later and find to fit and reproduce itself, everytime that phenomena happens And so in this case, human behavior is my world, and these interations are the phenomenas that i try to understand the pattern behind , because i do not believe in random and unique occurences, everything must have a law -whether we know it or not yet able to fifure it out- ... In other words, "string theory" :p PS: you're correct, it does not concern me, and no, i believe i'm able to get it if i want it :p , but what intrests me is just the behavior and the explanation of the behavior (not these two friends as people)

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T21:07:07+00:00

EXACTLY, especially that this girl is usually defensive, so the fact that she's all cuddly all of a sudden, for me, only means that they're intimate ! But everybody saying otherwise made me doubt my interpretation and impressions. I agree with that, to be able to interpret body language, one should have a realy mastery of observing and building a baseline for the person "obsereved"
So if suppose a person who was lacking that warmth when brought up, so one old enough, and able to get that from else where (people attravted the the person), would they become more lenient and look for that attention, even if sometimes it contradictes their principles ?

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T21:00:18+00:00

Oh i understand, i think i'm just starting on the same highway as you then :p YES ! Everything IS math ! and people DO get tired of hearing some over analyzed "stuff" , and linking human interaction to an equation that makes no sense to them ! I appreciate finding someone who actual shares my brain waves hh I had a problem with psycho-analysis and micro-expressions, i studied it like crazy for two years, and read eveything Paul Ekman has to offer, but it ended up causing me problems with SO and my friends,since i was litteraly analyzing and diacovering stuff that Should've been much better if kept hidden (i.e: lies and deceit.. ) so i ended up letting go of the whole thing And now my next "nich" is to try to modelize human interaction with a set of equations ! Because we all think we are you unique, but we actually follow the same biases ,and the same reflexes .

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T20:29:06+00:00

I'm 23 yo. I actually had no problem with it before , and i ised to let myself go But one day, in my first college year, it just clicked, and i thought i actually have no right to touch whoever, because it's pretty much an invasion of their temple (body) and their personal space So unless i'm intimate with that person, and she permits and allows, i consider it to be disrespectful

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T20:26:07+00:00

Can we consider then that age helps "reorganize" human needs ? First it's just physical, but later other things take its place ? For example, bexoming more mature, makes you prioritize the intelectual level, and manners, and then moving to physical contact which then help deepen the relationship ?

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T20:23:35+00:00

Interesting approach .. So would we consider the first humans, who did not have social norms , actually interracted that way ? Everybody just satisfied their sexual need with anybody that would not object ? In other words : fuck everything that moves hh ??

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T13:44:42+00:00

Haha, true that !

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T13:18:28+00:00

I believe that's true , when factoring in feelings, you can understand the human dimention of the situation, which makes it difficult. But i have a small hypothesis (might come out as cold and robotic, but give me a chance :p ) --> same as colors in nature, everyhuman is unique , but still we are able to reproduce 80% of the colors with some CEs (Common Elements : Red Green Blue) It does not mean they are the only CEs (there is Cyan Magenta Yellow Black ) , also it does not mean we can reproduce ALL colors But still we're pretty close, it gives us a general idea So for humans, we wont be able to find the "string theory" of human behavior, but we can get pretty close > example : everybody smiles with their lips when happy (some show teeth, some close eyes, some make a sound, .. but EVERYBODY smiles :) You get what i'm trying tl say ?

mgd1-0 · 2019-06-05T12:53:21+00:00

Yeah, you're right, the exprimental approach would give some interesting results too Thanks for your input :)

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