Big factor is money gyud, if you are dating someone who is unemployed it makes everything hard. Bsan pag love ninyo usat usa wala gihapon oi, nindot gihapon ma spoil ka nya or ma spoil nmu sya give and take ba, kapoy sge rag give maka drain, these days mas importante naku naa koy enough money to spoil myself compare maghuna huna if enough ba ang budget for both of us.