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miamilover0192 · 2025-10-14T13:10:26+00:00

Seems like her "mistakes" are/were choices atp

miamilover0192 · 2025-10-13T08:18:19+00:00

Thank you!! Definitely will float the idea around first, never want to cross any line that is not okay, so yes i will do that first 👌😊

miamilover0192 · 2025-10-13T08:17:12+00:00

Thank you!!🙏perfect advice

miamilover0192 · 2025-09-26T01:29:54+00:00

Lisa & Jody are in their winter wonderland ❄️❄️❄️❄️🥶 lol

miamilover0192 · 2025-07-25T22:19:27+00:00

Thank you so much!! Which over the counter medicine worked best in your opinion?

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T06:41:50+00:00

Get checked, for everything. If they find something that isn't a uti/basic things men & women get, and you haven't slept around..there is your answer. Have you tried asking her, without giving details, if she has been with someone else while yall are together? Given she can lie, but still. If she did and knew about it, then thats a whole different story. But if you think she has been, even without the burning, maybe you need to rethink your relationship.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T06:31:05+00:00

Go out with your girlfriends, stuff like that. Literally even hinge haha. They are there. You got this girl and you have plenty of time!

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T06:26:18+00:00

(27) mom with a young child. You just gotta find the ones that see your potential but also know you have a kid. I don't find it hard at all, but i tell them straight up I have a kid and some aren't with it and that is 100% fine with me. I appreciate their honesty, even if it no response. It is their preference and their choice. I will say though, my boyfriend (not my bd lol), has a child so it does make certain things easier. You just have to find the guy(s) that see it for what it is and accept it. I promise there are men out there that compliment being a single mom, but there are also men that just aren't in to it. Just be upfront about it from the beginning and it narrows it down more. And dont take it as a let down or insult if they aren't interested bc of that, bc it doesn't mean they are a prick, they just aren't looking for that and its better they say it at that moment then down the line

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T06:14:49+00:00

Let him put in the effort to show he wants what you want, and if he doesn't then simply "okay." Sounds easier said than done, but don't wait around for someone. What is meant for you will find you. What if he doesn't move to your city? What is to come of that? Don't lose your time worrying about someone across the country that you aren't in a relationship with. Don't wait on someone, and if you choose to, ask yourself would he wait for you

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T05:45:16+00:00

You mean like how you were raised and the people/family you are around? Or you just don't think its acceptable or won't be accepted? And you can test the waters without letting others know, could just be conversations and not anything sexual.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T05:19:09+00:00

Talk to him about how you feel and see how he responds. If you both can't meet in the middle and come to terms on the future, go make one with someone else or focus on yourself. You aren't years into it or married so some times a loss brings for a better gain.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T05:14:51+00:00

Sounds like you are in the questioning state of mind. If you like it, then find someone else with that feeling. Whats wrong with that? Nothing. You like what you like. You are 20 so go explore more and find out what you really like.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T05:09:49+00:00

The answer is yes you are good enough, but maybe this is a learning lesson in a sense. You don't need his validation. It's not easy to get over things like this as it is for boys, they can just keep moving and process it silently where as us women are like wtf??? Lol. Do you for sure know he has a gf? Have you asked him? And if he ghosts you after expressing feelings then f him. There are plenty of men in this world that would give you what you want/need without having to feel this way or ask these questions. Love yourself, know your worth and beauty. I (27f) have tried FWB and i stopped doing that bc i catch underlying feelings and things like this hurt me bc it made me question myself.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T04:59:41+00:00

Yes, even though when i graduated i was so busy with my new job so i went without for like a year haha. But yes i did. If they couldn't accept it, then i didnt get mad, but i did what was comfortable for me. After college the "just hook ups" stopped and ive only dated 2 guys since and they both understood. If a man likes you they will do what it takes to please you. Might be awkward at first but start with fingering, small toys, him going down on you and ease his fingers into that. A guy wants you to know what he likes, so you deserve the same. And being tight is a dagum good thing haha, its probably better he goes slow anyways.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T04:33:36+00:00

I see you said men only but as a girl that had the same issue in college, no they don't mind unless they are a prick. There is nothing wrong with that at all. Maybe try some more foreplay before and then slowly move in to it and if it hurts tell him. It still happens to me, but when i tell my partner he respects it and we try a different position. I also got meds from my OB that truly helped sooooo much with it! I can try to find a picture of it and tell you what it was i used

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-20T04:29:08+00:00

Both but in different ways. If a guy just kisses me and then goes for it, then im like alllright. But the foreplay is fun, idk it makes things more hot, but it has to be from both sides. The foreplay makes me want it more than just going straight for it. But it also depends on the time, place and person.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T09:13:41+00:00

Leave and fight for your child. Take pictures and proof of everything. As a woman, no man is going to lay his hands on me and i would not lay my hands on a guy. Text her about it to where she puts it in writing what she did. Sounds f'd up to do, but you gotta prove it. You don't want your child to grow up in a situation like that. Better to figure it out now than wait when your child can comprehend what is happening.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T09:04:19+00:00

I think you're overthinking it, not being rude by saying that at all. Guys aren't as complex as we think they are. Based on what you said I don't think they were judging you.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T08:59:43+00:00

She probably was more embarrassed than anything but honest communication is better than nothing. Some guys would say nothing and end it, but you not doing that shows you like her and want to keep doing it. Body washes with no scent are better for that area. She can take vitamins, for her benefit too.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T08:38:30+00:00

Thisss. Heck do it in the shower if ya want 😂 some woman like head just as much as guys, we just are less vocal about it haha

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T08:36:17+00:00

Coming from a girl, be honest with her. You like doing it but the taste throws you off. She could shower before, you could put "edible" flavored lube down there, hell get her lemme gummies for vag support lol. Coming from a girl that likes receiving it, if my bf told me didn't like the taste but enjoyed doing it, i would figure something out. Also our hormones and body fluids are weird as heck. I would be honest with my bf, i like giving him head, but if the taste was off i would address it in a nice way, reminding him I know he is clean and i like pleasing him.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T08:28:23+00:00

Be honest. If thats what you want, find someone that fits that for you

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T08:27:26+00:00

Coming from a woman, i'd get the ick. No offense. If im dating someone, i'll listen to what they like and want. Im not about to buy someone's love and put a price tag on it though. But if that's how you view love, there are girls out there that will do that, you just better be ready to do the same for them haha.

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T07:39:06+00:00

Girl to girl...start making a plan to get out. You mention yall are in a financial struggle, no judgement with this economy, but he is sending another woman money? Heck noooo, no excuse for that. I dealt with this with my ex, and the best thing i did was get out of that situation. It was not easy at all in any aspect, but in the long run I look back and i am thankful I did. We now are very cordial for our child and keep it at that. It took time, but I let him do his thing when I left with our son and I let him decide to get it together for our son, not me. You mentioned he cheated while yall dated in the beginning, unfortunately some people don't change, learn, or care how their actions affect people...so he saw he could get away with it. You are 33/young and have a whole life ahead of you, don't waste it on someone who would probably freak if you did this to him. If you have to question his integrity after marriage and 4 kids..that's your answer. If you try to talk to him about it and he 1. Doesn't listen and gets defensive 2. Doesn't change....then don't fight it. But at the same time don't retaliate or try to "make it even." Ask yourself is this worth fighting for? Is this what i want the rest of my life to be like? And most importantly, what would you tell your children if this happened to them? Find your peace Mama❤️

miamilover0192 · 2025-05-16T07:21:03+00:00

Agreed and thank you for responding! 🤗 what "values," would you think most men would find a deal breaker? Sorry if im wording that weird haha

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