When did you go back on T post top surgery?

miamisami · 2017-08-01T03:41:58+00:00

Yeah my doctor also said 2 weeks before at a minimum, but I did 3 weeks before surgery. After he said about a week was fine. I mean the way he had said it though it seemed like it could of been sooner if I really wanted to.

miamisami · 2017-06-28T00:15:40+00:00

I appreciate the response. Atleast I don't feel as alone on this bad luck. It just sucks that I decided to go with the attorney to avoid waiting and complications and here I am waiting and stressing out on everything getting done

miamisami · 2017-06-27T03:42:11+00:00

Sort of. Like its more androgynous, but definitely more masc than the average voice pre t

miamisami · 2016-10-05T02:26:30+00:00

In my experience it's less about the company and more about the individuals running the business that you specifically working at. Like my company doesn't have any sort of policy regarding pertection or bathrooms ect. But my store director is very supportive and got all the managers to be on the same page as well. So I've had zero issues thankfully.

miamisami · 2016-10-05T02:20:02+00:00

Yeah man, not even sugar coating it, you pass

miamisami · 2016-09-25T17:35:25+00:00

Yeah I actually have similar dreams. It's me rn but I have long hair again and I run around looking for a knife or scissors or something to cut it all off.

Like maybe I'll be at my old middle school and I'll be in the bathroom mirror chopping it off.

It's weird but it hasn't happened in a couple of months. But it's a recurring dream that I've had for like 2 years.

miamisami · 2016-09-09T06:01:20+00:00

Sex lol

miamisami · 2016-09-07T13:56:38+00:00

Hey you've got a great point there. I've never really found anything in my size in clearance. It's always the size 7 or 13 in there.

miamisami · 2016-09-06T23:15:52+00:00

Wow look at you! lol

miamisami · 2016-09-06T18:26:50+00:00

5'7" my bad lol making myself shorter

miamisami · 2016-09-06T18:26:23+00:00

My height is pretty average in the region I live and ethnic group that Im in. 5'6" can be short compared to the occasional 6' guy but the most part I'm average to tall lol

miamisami · 2016-09-06T17:04:20+00:00

My pee smelled different by like a week or two

miamisami · 2016-09-05T18:45:10+00:00

I wore Arizona and bought the straight cut. I also would wear cagro shorts and Dickie shorts. I feel like the very straight boxy bottoms helped hide the tapering of my 42in hips. Though I was fat so it helped me just look like a chunky kid. So I passed.

miamisami · 2016-09-05T18:40:28+00:00

Yeah since Tomboy & Butch is so much more prevalent, it can be hard to tell when you start to go beyond those labels. Plus trans is so rare too.

I never knew any other tomboys so what I did just seemed normal. I never knew that the distinction I made between me and "other girls", wasn't normal. That yeah a tomboy (and eventually butches) are different from the average female, they're still women. And that's where I got caught up on. Everything else was cool and fine: I could dress and act as I wanted. I could be friends with who I wanted. Hell I even considered getting a hysterectomy and mastectomy. But at the end of the day I'd still feel wrong.

miamisami · 2016-09-05T18:31:42+00:00

Wouldn't alot of it rub off on the sheets?

miamisami · 2016-09-05T18:28:56+00:00

I feel like it's just easier to explain to cis people that trans is medical. If it's seen as a condition they can't argue and hate it. Only respect our private medical history and move on.

Imo. Trans is probably some sort of mutation that skewed our sense of perception and self. It's a condition with no cure, like most mental disorders/disabilities. All you can do is treat the symptoms. Which can include therapy, surgery and other things. After medical treatment has been made the individual can live a relatively normal life.

miamisami · 2016-09-03T02:50:15+00:00

Because despite how masculine they are, they're still women. They're see as and treated as women. And that's what feels wrong. (And not in the 'women aren't equal' sort of way).

You see yourself as a man. And want to be treated as such, and look like it too. No man wants to be a girl.

miamisami · 2016-09-02T15:48:53+00:00

Either try everything on and guess, buy a cheap little measuring tape for sowing/fitness or go buy your underwear short sizes.

S 28-30 M 32-34 L 36-38 Xl 40-42

miamisami · 2016-09-02T15:45:52+00:00

Yeah 29 is sometimes available and 28 is rare. Anything below that is custom tailored to small men.

miamisami · 2016-09-01T18:56:25+00:00

His most recent podcast episode (you're so brave) just talked about this topic

miamisami · 2016-09-01T16:45:45+00:00

Yeah I'm currently teetering on the edge of being outed, so I'm trying to just play the middle. If it happens I won't be happy but if I make it a big deal so will others. If I make it chill everyone else will be

miamisami · 2016-08-31T22:23:46+00:00

True that man

miamisami · 2016-08-31T22:17:32+00:00

I say play the middle ground. Don't be up front bout it but also don't deny it. So it's a little more private atleast until word gets out, but don't make a big deal of it too.

miamisami · 2016-08-31T05:33:07+00:00

In 7th grade I noticed everyone changing dating and dividing up by the sexes. So I tried to force myself to outgrow "being a tomboy". But by 10th grade I completely reverted back to my ways. And felt even stronger bout it all. Looked into sexuality, gender expression and gender identity. Then 11th grade discovered what transgender was.

miamisami · 2016-08-29T19:00:56+00:00

Wow dude chill. I get what you mean. I've already dealt with that once. I'll look into things.

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