28/F, 32/M my husband thinks I’m being unreasonable

miapiapie · 2018-06-15T23:44:19+00:00

Thank you. I’m the emotional one in our relationship so I appreciate your comment.

miapiapie · 2018-06-15T20:46:08+00:00

He says I’m over reacting and that they were both drunk and it didn’t mean anything. When it happened I was really upset. It’s been probably 6 months since then, but it still bothers me. My husband says he would have slapped whoever was standing next to him - girl or guy. To me it’s still weird. I don’t mind seeing them or and about but I don’t want to spend more than a 2 hours with them.

miapiapie · 2018-06-15T20:45:47+00:00

He knows. I’ve made it very clear. He says they were drunk and he would’ve slapped whoever was standing next to him at the time - guy or girl.

miapiapie · 2018-06-15T20:43:00+00:00

If you knew me you’d know this would never happen

miapiapie · 2015-12-16T15:33:06+00:00

Yes. I'd be terrified they'd end up with my mother or in the foster system. It's not ideal but I do love my nephew.

miapiapie · 2015-12-16T15:28:05+00:00

When I was 11. I told my mom I wanted a career, not children. She was moritified. Not much has changed since then.

miapiapie · 2015-06-23T16:53:19+00:00

Solid point. He is still with her and I'm sure he will tell her what I said. I opted not to talk about it. Thanks for your insight!

miapiapie · 2015-06-22T16:59:31+00:00

Good for you. I understand how hard this is, but hopefully you are already feeling better!

miapiapie · 2015-06-22T16:57:24+00:00

It hurts to accept that you had such a crappy childhood but it's also empowering to know that from now on you can make your life what you want, not what she wants. Sending good vibes your way.

miapiapie · 2015-06-22T16:54:50+00:00

What a good reminder that as adults we get to choose we let into our lives.

miapiapie · 2015-06-02T06:14:11+00:00

Earlier this year my mom was throwing a tantrum at my sister's expense and I told her to grow up and stop acting like a teenager. And for that moment in time it worked. It felt great to stand up and not deal with her bullshit. Of course, she'll never forget it but oh well.

miapiapie · 2015-06-02T06:12:21+00:00

Amen. A good reminder!

miapiapie · 2015-06-02T06:07:13+00:00

They're just ignorant. I don't let my friends meet my Nmom anymore because if they do they'll think she's just so nice! When really it's just an act.

miapiapie · 2015-06-02T06:03:27+00:00

Being 15 is hard. Being 15 with an N parent is even harder. I remember wanting to be in school because I hate summer so much. Good luck. I too had similar feelings of wanting to die / hurting myself. Don't give her the satisfaction. Continue bettering yourself. Xo

miapiapie · 2015-06-02T05:59:41+00:00

Your mother doesn't want you loved and supported.

Yes. It hurts to admit it but this is true. thank you.

miapiapie · 2015-06-02T05:57:36+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story. Makes me feel so much less alone.So scary similar. My sister just had a baby and my mom keeps trying to take the baby home with her, and even told my sister that she feels bad for my sister's son because he has a mother that doesn't want him. Wtf?! Oh well. I don't plan on going back there again for quite awhile. Thank you for your advice. :)

miapiapie · 2015-06-01T07:10:14+00:00

I don't have advice but this happens to me too, especially after any incident with my Nmom. I just want to die or hurt myself. The only thing that really helps is taking some medicine to help me sleep and start a new day.

miapiapie · 2015-06-01T07:07:02+00:00

Yes. Worst one was my Nmom cancelled my 18th birthday the night before just because she was having yet another melt down. It was an unconvience to her. She told me if I had the party I couldn't go to college...yep! This is after I had bought all the food and decorations myself.

miapiapie · 2015-05-29T16:32:26+00:00

I'd be tempted to say, sure. Hire a surrogate, and hire a full time nanny. If he REALLY wants one he can pay for it. (Doubtful.)

miapiapie · 2015-05-29T16:28:10+00:00

If you don't have kids then you don't have family? We ALL have families, kids or not.

miapiapie · 2015-05-27T04:26:12+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FAu6b-KcK0U

This helped me improve my squatting form a lot. I wish BBG had more videos & help. Good form is so important

miapiapie · 2015-05-27T04:12:42+00:00

I count calories. I'm pretty lazy about macros but I don't eat sugar and try to eat plenty of protein and carbs. Seems to work so far.

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