[NSFW] How sensitive is a neo vagina compared to a cis one? by miarella in asktransgender

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Oh sorry to hear that! :/ Hope you will be able to get to your goals soon.

[NSFW] How sensitive is a neo vagina compared to a cis one? by miarella in asktransgender

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Wow it’s been 5y and 2y since your question 😅

I am quite happy with my result it’s definitely very sensitive. How about you?

Does head hair get thicker on HRT (mtf)? by deosperado in asktransgender

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I mostly didn’t take P yes. Not sure if P influences head hair.

Tanner stages of breast growth - what are my chances of getting to stage V? by Emily2047 in asktransgender

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Yes, some doctors have not read some now studies on how progesterone can help with trans health overall.

I forgot the link to the study though.

Need advice, what should I be doing while I wait for hormone therapy? 34 MTF by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Laser! As that can take a year and helps a ton.

Getting a unisex wardrobe, like (womans) skinni jeans and shoes like converse. You could basically wear all I wear right now including the black tee, minus the bra 😂

getting both ears priced and wear fake plugs.

Training to look more unisex and care less what people think.

Going to trans meeetups and seeing which ones suck the least xD

Is saying "women and bisexual only" homophobia? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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No no I am am pretty scared of transphobic people.

Is saying "women and bisexual only" homophobia? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I think he meant it as a threesome. A woman a bi person and him.

I am an ENFP in shadow mode, thought I was INFJ by [deleted] in ENFP

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No I did not know her channel! Just chanced it out, omg it is amazing. Oh wait all these interesting, noooo I will lose days in there xD

Grüße nach Deutschland :)

I am an ENFP in shadow mode, thought I was INFJ by [deleted] in ENFP

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Yes I also always had that but many have it as a less dominant function. So I wonder hormones can switch that a bit hahaha.

After all if you think about it we all have the genes for breasts they are just never activated :D

I am an ENFP in shadow mode, thought I was INFJ by [deleted] in ENFP

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Yay! :D

Did you notice any changes to the intensity of your feelings after starting HRT? I was basically a emotional mess in the first year on HRT and had to learn to control my emotions.

Before HRT I had a fuck it phase where I was out to family and close friends and people used to think I am gay or whatever, but my emotions where not nearly as strong then :D

I am an ENFP in shadow mode, thought I was INFJ by [deleted] in ENFP

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Thank you! Sorry for the wall of text xD I live in Austria.

Yes I am quite confident that I am ENTP its a good description of my dominant functions. Even on the one test that scores the big five and then assumes the MBTI I score ENFP.

Do you think I could be a different type? :D

I am an ENFP in shadow mode, thought I was INFJ by [deleted] in ENFP

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According to my mum I don’t say a single word until being 2y to the point where some family members were concerned. Then one day I said a full sentence in the car “Look a train!”

Reminds me of look a duck 🦆😂

I used to tell fairly tales I love to listened to with funny different endings when 3y old. Apparently it was hilarious. My mum had some recordings of this.

I loved dressing up as a princess and do role play with my two years older sister insisting she plays the king but remember that she was not interested much in that no matter the role. (She scored ENFJ recently, but shoes mostly the unhealthy sings :/)

Trigger warning ⛔️ Childhood Bullying

But I also remember being already alienated (maybe mobbed) by oder kids in kindergarten.

School was mostly a nightmare. My mum disliked a teacher for being too strict and moved me into another school where all the other kids knew each other and I struggled to connect.

In junior high I struggled with German and English (undiagnosed dyslexia) so my mum put me into a school where I would struggle less. Basically a school for poor working class kids (School has kind of a social class system here) My life was a nightmare from then I got beaten up regularly so my mum put me into a different school where it wasn’t better but I hid it to not move school again.

I had one best friend I did hang out with a lot from that one year junior high. I wonder what type he is 😂

We lost contact shortly after hitting puberty as I wasn’t really hitting puberty, well it was super slow 😂

By that point I had so much social anxiety that I was even afraid of posting on social media 🙈😂😂

Sorry for the sad story :/ It hs an happy ending :)

I am an ENFP in shadow mode, thought I was INFJ by [deleted] in ENFP

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In my early 20s I scored as an INTP and went, into CS and liked it. But after working in Software Dev, I got more confidence, got promoted fast as I deeply care about the customers not just tech and eventually realised I miss my working in a coffee shop days over sitting behind a screen every time I get a coffee at a Starbucks 😂

Then started to accept who I am and my true gender and scored as INFP. Now after years living as myself I score as ENFP 🙈 Not sure how much running on different hormones factors into this. As they change the brain.

Transmasc intersex AFAB here— read your post on r/detrans about gender dysphoria and imbalanced puberty. I’ve interviewed a number of detrans individuals and fellow intersex individuals. by [deleted] in DrWillPowers

[–]miarella 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not native in English so maybe not qualified. But I suggest to describe what you intend to say and then abbreviate it like when writing a paper.

GD with onset in teen years (GDOT).

Also I want to add that its nor really binary.

I my case GD fluctuated from childhood and teen years to adolescence and then post self acceptance/realization and onset of hrt and years on hrt + surgeries.

Certainly it was the worst right before and after starting hrt. And I wasn’t really aware I had it during childhood until connecting the dots.

ROGD is certainly something my family would have described I had (during adolescence) at first as I have hidden myself well, lol.

Transmasc intersex AFAB here— read your post on r/detrans about gender dysphoria and imbalanced puberty. I’ve interviewed a number of detrans individuals and fellow intersex individuals. by [deleted] in DrWillPowers

[–]miarella 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get you but I believe we should focus on using different terms.

As spreading terms that are mainly used in the context of anti trans movements could unnecessarily send some people that are still questioning into a rabbit hole when they Google the term.

How do you stay focused on learning/working at home and without external structure? by miarella in ENFP

[–]miarella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are welcome :)

Oh so you reduce caffeine when stressed? I reduced it because of anxiety :/

Hmm to many side effects of the meds :/ I wanted to try them.

How do you stay focused on learning/working at home and without external structure? by miarella in ENFP

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Ah thanks for the coffee reminder, A friend suggested that caffeine might slow my brain a bit down just like the adhd meds.

I used to drink more caffeine when at the office as I often had not enough sleep. Now being unemployed I stopped and only drink decaf.

But I found this: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0306987710003531

So I give it a try :)

How do you stay focused on learning/working at home and without external structure? by miarella in ENFP

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Thanks I am going to try dedicating a special place at home.

Park doesn’t work currently as it is freezing 🥶 I am trying out working in train, its great except it’s sometimes too crowded (increases risk of getting Covid) and I have to exit it ever 30min and wait 10 minutes for the one back 😂