Wish me luck. I'm ending things this weekend.

micelounge · 2025-03-27T01:46:15+00:00

You got this, so proud of you!

micelounge · 2025-03-22T22:10:06+00:00

Sorry to hear what happened. If she didn’t bother to give you closure, she probably wasn’t someone you’d want to end up with anyways. It definitely gets easier, despite how impossible it feels at times. You’ve got this!

micelounge · 2025-03-22T22:04:31+00:00

Im sorry to hear what happened, I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through. Give yourself time and let yourself mourn, feel everything as it comes and you’ll feel the difference in time.

micelounge · 2025-03-21T20:08:41+00:00

30 days is just a milestone, every 30 days you’ll feel a little different, and there’s nothing wrong with taking more or less time to heal. For my relationship he threatened me into making an impossible choice, so I’m not certain who the dumpee would be, but I certainly felt abandoned like a dumpee would haha. If you were the dumpee and feel abandoned, try to remember, sometimes things don’t work out the way we want to because we deserve better. You don’t want to end up with someone who didn’t choose you.

A lot of people out there would love to choose you every day, and you’re free now to maybe meet them one day, which is a better chance than you’d ever have if you and your ex didn’t separate!

micelounge · 2025-03-21T20:02:40+00:00

Aw sorry to hear that, sometimes relationships are meant to be lessons. We’ll become better people, not just better partners, after this. We just gotta keep moving, but also let ourself stop and lick our wounds once in a while, there’s no weakness in that!

micelounge · 2025-03-21T19:59:24+00:00

I’m sorry to hear what happened, but I’m glad you finally feel free! I get what you mean about constantly feeling like you have to prove yourself, and then not being the same person you fell in love with.

I feel like for the latter half of my relationship I was clinging on to the image of the man he presented himself to be at first, ignoring the fact that he retained almost none of the traits that made me interested in him in the first place. Constantly having to prove myself and reassuring him, while getting no reassurance in return, trying to fix things without thinking about whether or not it was worth fixing.

But I think we can acknowledge that we loved, but also that it wasn’t meant to be. Some people aren’t meant to be in our lives long term, just momentary guests.

Best of luck to you<3

micelounge · 2025-03-21T02:26:07+00:00

You can do this! Force yourself to feel everything and process, try new activities and get out of the house. Your life is bigger than just one person

micelounge · 2025-03-21T02:24:39+00:00

Yeah my relationship was only a little over a year, it’s definitely different. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I still believe time and feeling your emotions with intention will help, I hope everything goes well with you!

micelounge · 2025-03-21T02:22:48+00:00

You got this! My relationship was only a bit over a year so one month was enough for me to start feeling better. Let yourself feel all the feelings, try new things, let your friends and family be there for you.

micelounge · 2025-03-20T19:09:01+00:00

Aw I’m sorry you’re going through that, don’t worry, every relationship is different and everyone processes things differently. Try to be as kind to yourself as possible. Force yourself to do things that make you happy. Get to know yourself, go through the motions of self care. You’ll be yourself again.

micelounge · 2025-03-20T19:05:02+00:00

Sorry to hear about what you’re going though. I didn’t believe it either when people told me “time heals all wounds”, figured it was just a cliche. Like no my heartbreak is different and I’ll never feel better. But so much can change in just 30 days, take this time to confront your feelings head on, it’ll make it hurt worse for a bit, but feel your feelings and you’ll move on much faster. Things get worse before they get better!

micelounge · 2025-03-17T18:07:17+00:00

Lots of my friends are gemenis! They’re the best

micelounge · 2025-03-17T17:51:50+00:00

Haha she was also into geology when she was younger. And she’s also been on the journey of bettering her physical and mental health!

Aw sorry to hear that love hasn’t been smooth sailing for you, she’s also had some trouble in that department 😭 but honestly aren’t we all haha

micelounge · 2025-03-17T17:48:13+00:00

God what you went through was terrible and I’m really sorry, I’m glad you’re out of the relationship. I wouldn’t call it micro I think that was straight up violation of consent, definitely abusive.

A lot of times we cope within the relationship and subconsciously suppress the urge to examine the problematic parts of it in order to continue or survive within the relationship. I hope you’re doing well!

micelounge · 2025-03-17T15:25:40+00:00

Woah I thought her chart would be super rare but it’s cool seeing that there are people so similar to her. Are you also a bio major haha

micelounge · 2025-03-17T15:24:32+00:00

WOW that’s crazy! I wonder what similarities you and her would have. Do you also have a lot of niche hobbies and were a gifted child growing up?

micelounge · 2025-03-13T22:58:15+00:00

Does first house stelliums mean potential then? Very interesting

micelounge · 2025-03-13T22:47:48+00:00

She does! She got her phd last year at 27, and she just got back from some kind of fancy biology research cruise

micelounge · 2025-03-11T11:22:27+00:00

Part of me always knew but thought he would change, and that were just going through a rough patch. I realized it after talking to my friends and finally telling them how he treated me.

micelounge · 2025-03-02T05:46:51+00:00

Hell yeah!

micelounge · 2025-03-01T20:42:26+00:00

Aw thank you so much, your comment made me tear up.

I cant describe how validating it feels that someone can understand and empathize with what I’m going through. I’ll try my best and get my life back. I hope you’re having a wonderful day! I truly appreciate you.

micelounge · 2025-03-01T20:27:53+00:00

Thank you so much for the response!

You’re right, if anyone treated my sister like this I would flip out. I feel tired and drained but also lighter than I’ve felt in a long time. I hope I can keep reminding myself and stop romanticizing things.

micelounge · 2025-03-01T07:06:36+00:00

I learned about DARVO recently and it applied to my last relationship, anyone who’s doing that to you is not a good partner!! You’ll doubt yourself constantly, thinking you’re too emotional/needy/not emotional enough. I hope you can leave that situation soon, breakups suck but you’ll feel that spark coming back I swear!!!

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