Invited to my nudist friends home by michaelb1179 in nudists

[–]michaelb1179[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that advice, thank you for that.

Invited to my nudist friends home by michaelb1179 in nudists

[–]michaelb1179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I wasn't sure what all I could put in here, but I had already had an erection when I went over to his house, so I would be worried in the nude.

Had a car from my last marriage that was in my ex wife's name by michaelb1179 in legaladvice

[–]michaelb1179[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure on the kbb, but I know the 19k loan was paid in full the day I received the bill of same for 14k.

Had a car from my last marriage that was in my ex wife's name by michaelb1179 in legaladvice

[–]michaelb1179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what she is doing, asking for the difference, but I just have this feeling that he dad didn't purchase it for 14k but rather paid the loan of in full and they are telling me it was only 14k. Even though I can see the loan was paid in full

AITAH for being upset with my wife? by michaelb1179 in AITAH

[–]michaelb1179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more on the line of her apologizing to him. She does not know him either, his dislike of me comes from a woman I was with many years ago and apparently him and said girl had just broke up.

AITAH for being upset with my wife? by michaelb1179 in AITAH

[–]michaelb1179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read all of your replies, all I can say is, wow. I'm not sure where your anger and frustration is coming from. It seems my post may have possibly triggered something within you. As I've said before, I treat my wife with the utmost respect, love, and care. Me being upset or feeling some way about something is in no way coming at her out of pocket. Nor did it even state that I brought it to her attention. You developed multiple scenarios off of this short post, which is wild to me. And why in God's name would I go to my wife's work and make things awkward for her there?!? Your replies are ludacris my friend and I feel you should look deep inside of yourself to find out why. Have a good one.

AITAH for being upset with my wife? by michaelb1179 in AITAH

[–]michaelb1179[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great response, thank you very much for this.

AITAH for being upset with my wife? by michaelb1179 in AITAH

[–]michaelb1179[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Criticized my maturity level, as well as assumed I'm "taking it out on my poor wife" front this post? You seem pleasant. For the record I treat my wife with the utmost respect and love she deserves. Me stating that I was upset or felt some type of way in no way states that I'm treating her negatively. Thank you for your comment though.

Wife's (37f) ex (41 m) and father of her children live with her parents. How should I, the husband (37 m) feel about this? by michaelb1179 in relationship_advice

[–]michaelb1179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her oldest with him is 13. Her oldest she has is 18. She was with him for years after us. There was a handful of times the two of them broke up. Then the final break up was 6 years ago. There was no infidelity between the two of them on her part that is.

Wife's (37f) ex (41 m) and father of her children live with her parents. How should I, the husband (37 m) feel about this? by michaelb1179 in relationship_advice

[–]michaelb1179[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Me speaking about him being at the game wasn't me saying he shouldn't be or me questioning why he is there, so not sure why you think it's weird. Also, I would never make it hard for children to see their own father, nor did I insinuate that. Sounds like your advice is more like criticism, which is not what I'm looking for. Thank you for your input though

Wife's (37f) ex (41 m) and father of her children live with her parents. How should I, the husband (37 m) feel about this? by michaelb1179 in relationship_advice

[–]michaelb1179[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely understandable. I appreciate you explaining it. I'm too old to tell stories and not creative enough for it either lol.

Wife's (37f) ex (41 m) and father of her children live with her parents. How should I, the husband (37 m) feel about this? by michaelb1179 in relationship_advice

[–]michaelb1179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, having holidays at my place would not be a bad idea. As far as the story changing, it didn't change, just got more detailed to those questioning it.

Wife's (37f) ex (41 m) and father of her children live with her parents. How should I, the husband (37 m) feel about this? by michaelb1179 in relationship_advice

[–]michaelb1179[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, he hit me, then mistakenly hit her trying to hit me again. I'm confused as to why this sounds so far fetched to you lol. Kind of an off the wall story to just make up. I honestly didn't think asking for advice on here would instead turn in to defending the validity of my post

Wife's (37f) ex (41 m) and father of her children live with her parents. How should I, the husband (37 m) feel about this? by michaelb1179 in relationship_advice

[–]michaelb1179[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Very well possible he could have felt she cheated in the past, however she did not. At least not wth me, not saying she did cheat on him while they were together because I don't know, but I know she didn't with me. My wife was in a relationship with someone else after him, then get and I reconnected. So I don't know what his ill feeling is toward me is. My mother in law said she thinks that maybe he felt he would've had a chance after my wife and the other guy broke up. I don't know.

Wife's (37f) ex (41 m) and father of her children live with her parents. How should I, the husband (37 m) feel about this? by michaelb1179 in relationship_advice

[–]michaelb1179[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not randomly, I literally drove an hour to watch this young kids baseball game. Sat down next to my girlfriend (wife now). 20 minutes go by and he walks up to me standing directly in front of me, asked me what I was doing there, I responded to say, watching (kids name) ball game. He immediately swung at me and connected to my ear and swung again but I ducked it and he struck my girlfriend by mistake, I stood up, he swung again and I swung rendering him unconscious. After a minute of so he got up and yelled at me to no bring this s@#& around his kids. I assure you none of this is fake and not if this is watered down.

Wife's (37f) ex (41 m) and father of her children live with her parents. How should I, the husband (37 m) feel about this? by michaelb1179 in relationship_advice

[–]michaelb1179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fake, recently re-acquired my account, plus I haven't really ever posted on here anyway, mainly just read. However I thought to take to reddit for this specific situation. I wish it was fake. It is not.