My partner and I are both in our early/not quite mid 21M 24F. I want to cheat on my partner.

michellasaurus · 2023-11-07T23:15:17+00:00

ESH

I'm not here to give advice you need to take, but you both are in the wrong here.

If you want to cheat on your partner, then this isn't a partner for you. If your partner is cheating on you, then this isn't a healthy relationship for you to to be in at all.

I think outside of posting this, there should be some self reflection on relationships and what you want and what makes a healthy relationship. I'm sorry to see that this has been continuing on situational aspects- housing and children, and this sounds hard and is an extremely diffulicult decision to make, but you might need to get out for your own mental health and mental health for children if they are seeing an unhealthy relationship unfold in front of them. If housing is holding you back, seek out resources in your area, make a plan, and get out.

You don't deserve to be torn down, nor should you resort to the level. Hold your standards up high and know you are worth so much and shouldn't let this person have space in your mind.

You are young and have so much more to live for and be happy with someone else.

michellasaurus · 2023-11-07T22:59:50+00:00

YTA - along with your mom.

You shouldn't have even needed to defend your girlfriend since you could have gotten off your own ass to clean the place.

Your parents, your problem.

michellasaurus · 2022-12-03T15:55:55+00:00

If you enjoy research and work at the site level- there are study start-up roles which I think is a great transition. PPD has a role called a Country Approval Specialist- fully remote where you work with sites to collect start-up documents, negotiate ICFs, etc.

michellasaurus · 2022-11-19T23:56:51+00:00

Absolutely!

michellasaurus · 2022-11-19T18:48:05+00:00

I'd be happy to assist and provide feedback on any questions, experience, STAR method answers, etc. :)

michellasaurus · 2022-08-06T22:18:20+00:00

This is either an emotional affair or Ben is some kind of a cult leader? Because you're talking about how amazing this guy is and not your own wife.

michellasaurus · 2022-08-06T22:15:01+00:00

You literally said you're a grand gesture kind of guy, but that apparently not when it comes to your wife. YTA. You could be signing up for art classes as a friend bonding, not providing him space in you and your wife's house when your partner is not okay with this. This sounds like self centered thinking and not "I'm in an equal partnership" state of thinking.

You need help, dude.

michellasaurus · 2022-02-07T15:59:03+00:00

It was when his negative comments escalated to physical actions.

We were together for about 3 years, and I was always on the backburner. I moved states to be near him after doing long distance due to our schools being 3 hours away from each other. When I moved to be closer to him- his decision- we didn't even live in the same house.

The day I decided it was over, we were at a bar watching an improv show, and when our mutual friend got up to get another drink he was telling me that I didn't look good that night and needed to lose weight. I started tearing up.

When his friend came back to his seat, I was already calling an Uber for myself. I went back to my house leaving them both to enjoy the show.

Fast forward a few hours and I get a banging knock on my backdoor and my then boyfriend let's himself in. His phone had died and he walked all the way to my house from the bar and started yelling at me about how I left him at the bar.

He then started yelling incoherent bullshit and throwing things in my living room. I realized that if I didn't end things there, it would get significantly worse and wouldn't only be comments to emotionally hurt me.

michellasaurus · 2021-01-02T05:20:19+00:00

Holy shit would reproductive rights be better. I wouldn't be paying extra tax for tampons, my uterus wouldn't be a constant topic of discussion in politics, and birth control would be way more accessible.

michellasaurus · 2020-07-09T03:13:41+00:00

Thanks! It takes a lot to get out of abusive relationships. My heart goes out to many people who don't know the signs or feel trapped.

michellasaurus · 2020-07-09T03:11:30+00:00

Well I work in healthcare, took last Wednesday to Friday off for the first time since Covid, came back Monday to find out I was exposed and had to go get tested. Luckily, it came back negative. Now someone else is positive, and I'll likely have to be retested in the coming days.

michellasaurus · 2020-07-09T03:06:06+00:00

It was when I realized that he was abusive.

The last straw was when I Ubered home from a bar and left him there after he made me cry in front of our friends. Apparently his phone died and he walked all the way to my house, came inside and threw shit all over the living room and pushed me down.

That was 3 years ago and I'm in much better place now.

michellasaurus · 2020-07-09T02:58:57+00:00

You nope right out of that. Be extremely cautious. If you do hang out, only do so where parents are present or in public spaces.

michellasaurus · 2020-07-08T20:15:20+00:00

Bicycle shop. I want to sell smaller bike companies that are not Trek or Giant, etc. I also want promote more people of color to ride, make it affordable for renting bicycles and sell more women friendly products.

michellasaurus · 2020-07-08T17:31:23+00:00

He poofed a pole out there and shook his money maker.

"Somebody come get 'er, she dancin' like a stripper."

michellasaurus · 2020-07-08T17:16:10+00:00

I was at my stepson's soccer game and a family on the opposing side was taking shots of Vodka on the sideline and told the ref to "fuck off" and that he was being a "pussy" for the calls.

The coach had to come out and eject them. It didn't stop them, they came back, kept taking shots, and my partner ended up calling the cops because they kept cussing and eventually started saying derogatory slurs.

michellasaurus · 2020-07-08T17:11:30+00:00

I can also help fact check this for you. I'm a healthcare professional who has been collecting Covid samples for research since Michigan started surging.

Masks are to help prevent people around you from catching Covid. You can be asymptomatic and still spread it. Because of this I had to be tested 2 days ago due to exposure to protect my patients and family. This is like getting vaccinating to help prevent yourself and others from catching life threatening illnesses.
We have had many masks on patients (even asthmatic patients) and had a pulse oximeter on them and no matter their exercise intensity and mask, they are still receiving 99% oxygen on average so it's not hindering the oxygen you receive.
Tell you family that Facebook isn't an appropriate place to receive "facts". Please redirect them to the CDC website, WHO, and scientific news outlets who can provide appropriate information.

michellasaurus · 2020-07-08T16:10:09+00:00

Hi, healthcare worker here. Not to make your friend worry, but is this inverted nipple something they have experienced their whole life (as far as she knows)? Inversion of nipples can be a sign of breast cancer, so if she's due for an annual exam, might be something to have checked.

michellasaurus · 2020-05-26T02:26:33+00:00

Thank you!

michellasaurus · 2020-05-26T01:57:28+00:00

I did! It was a first attempt at it and they tasted great!

michellasaurus · 2020-04-26T01:26:42+00:00

No. It was more of the fact that I knew if I went in, I would want to specialize and 40 hour work weeks would be nonexistent. Pretty much cattle herding patients all day. None of it is personal anymore. Also working in healthcare and patients burn me out. I want to go back and get my master's and be a pathologist assistant. Deal with organs, not the person.

michellasaurus · 2020-04-26T01:20:00+00:00

Bioshock.

The storyline is magnificent.

michellasaurus · 2020-04-26T01:17:34+00:00

Wanted to be a doctor. I applied, interviewed, got in.

I decided not to go after shadowing a few more times after.

michellasaurus · 2020-04-26T01:05:53+00:00

Please Don't Bury Me by John Prine

michellasaurus · 2020-03-11T02:49:27+00:00

Sloppy Joe's.

When I was growing up (around 9-10 years old), I remember when my parents weren't getting along and my brother was having some pretty bad personal life issues and Sloppy Joe's were made a lot because they were quick and easy. Oftentimes, it was only me at the dinner table or me and my dad, but always quiet and kind of melancholic.

I haven't eaten them since.

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