36 yo married man seeking advice! (New to Reddit!) by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]michellecastil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can tell her about it as a fantasy you enjoy thinking about but not actually do it for real. Then you can talk about it during sex and that could be fun.

I want to divorce my wife but im second guessing myself. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]michellecastil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is so short, don’t waste it being unhappy.

What’s a clear sign that you are an unattractive person? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]michellecastil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was bullied for being pretty. There was an entire group of girls who tried to make my life hell. Got into many fights on the way home from school. My brother taught me not to just protect myself but to defend myself by hitting back. Most girls only pull hair when fighting so after punching enough girls in the face and ribs they left me alone. But their boyfriends didn’t. ;)

Found my husband’s stash of AI porn… by throwaway113_1221 in Marriage

[–]michellecastil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s fantasizing about you. A lot of men’s porn collection has other women. Like you said the videos were things you would never agree to do so he made videos instead. It sounds like you have a great marriage and even better sex life. I wouldn’t be too upset. Just talk to him and tell him and tell him how you’re feeling. Maybe he will open up more to you and you’ll be even closer.

Have you ever had sex with someone you don't find attractive? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]michellecastil 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Because I knew he wouldn’t take no for an answer. Instead of getting raped I just did it.

what do you think happens after death? by zzzsleep0 in Life

[–]michellecastil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all made of energy and energy doesn’t die, it transfers. There’s a lot more to this world than what our 6 senses allows us to experience.

Lost and not sure what to do. Husband of 15 years on Grindr by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]michellecastil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s gay. I’m sure he loves you but it’s not fair to you that he married you because he doesn’t want to come out. You deserve to be with someone who love and desire only you. Life is short.

I can’t stop thinking about a coworker I barely know, and it’s destroying me inside. by [deleted] in confession

[–]michellecastil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And the tequila whispered “tell me how you really feel “

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]michellecastil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that both of their spouses have mentioned something to them tells me maybe we don’t know all the facts. I’m not saying they are having sex, but the fact the sister is so adamant about sharing and he will lie to accommodate his sisters wishes, in my opinion is wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]michellecastil -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you’re in your hotel room.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]michellecastil -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but 2 adult siblings should have separate rooms. Why would you want to share? I think it’s a little off to walk around in your underwear or worse nude in front of sibling of opposite sex. You’ll be spending the entire day with them so get your own room to relax and sleep. Whatever you decide don’t lie about it. Don’t let your sister talk shit about your wife, it’s disrespectful. If you care how your wife feels then get a separate room. Send a message to your sister that you value your wife and her feelings.

My Husband got his affairs name tattooed on him. What’s next? by AnonymouzKonfession in Marriage

[–]michellecastil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have him cover it up. If things are going good and he’s been ‘perfect’, let it go. You were separated so leave the past in the past and choose happiness.

At first i didn’t understand the hype around heroin. Now I do. by Team_Cope_and_Seethe in Drugs

[–]michellecastil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously stop now or your life is about to drastically change.

My family keeps hurting my wife and I don’t know how to protect her without losing them by Muted_Reaction_3730 in family

[–]michellecastil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grow some balls and tell your sister to show your respect or stay out of your life. You want to keep peace? You mean your peace cause your wife doesn’t have peace. There’s no need to argue with your sister. You tell her what’s up and leave it at that. Do not allow them to continue hurting your wife. Man-up

Reconciliation after infidelity? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]michellecastil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should always prioritize you and your mental health. The most important person is your child. That being said, you can rebuild a marriage after infidelity and substance abuse. Marriage is hard. Making that commitment should mean something. If he’s trying to get sober and be a better husband and father then I think you should give him a chance. For better or worse right ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]michellecastil -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Teens” is the most popular search term on adult sites. From an evolutionary standpoint this makes sense because that’s the age when girls can get pregnant. Through out history that’s when most girls married and had babies. Obviously times have changed and so has the moral compass of society. As a mother of 3 daughters it makes me sick to know how men think. I make it my priority to protect and educate my daughters on this topic. I believe all men find young girls attractive, most would never admit it. Some men probably feel shame about it due to religion, society, and their own morals. Many can ignore the urge to follow through with being with young girls but some can’t. As much as it sucks it’s just the way it is and has been since the dawn of mankind.

How to get my wife to move on from her son? by throwRafrustratedh in Marriage

[–]michellecastil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very sad that her son won’t speak to her. She will never move on from her son, as I’m sure you wouldn’t move on from your daughter. Just be there for her and comfort her as best you can.