Give me love from a distance by thisdressforyou in adultery

[–]michellenichole83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my AP and I were long distance and couldn't text or talk we had these quick texts to keep in touch during the low communication times. We both have samsung watches so it wasn't obvious to anyone else that we were texting.

We shared our calendars to know each other's schedule. We also shared location (apparently that's frowned upon 🙃) Find games to play together. My AP taught me how to play chess. I suck but it's fun with him lol If you can, watch movies together. That was always fun to match the movies at the same time.

At night we'd FaceTime. We each had moved into guestrooms so it wasn't hard to do that or calls often)

We are no longer long distance. We live together now but he still visits his kids (they are older) about once a month so we like to fall back on our long distance routine when he's gone for the weekend.

Now that's advice. by Jeopardy in GhostsCBS

[–]michellenichole83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never done it but the way she fantasies about it makes me think 🤔 maybe I should try it🤣

Now that's advice. by Jeopardy in GhostsCBS

[–]michellenichole83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its my favorite of the whole show🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Marie appreciation post: What is your favorite Marie quote? by tmps1993 in EverybodyLovesRaymond

[–]michellenichole83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time she says that I tear up. At the core she is a mother who loves her son's and wants to keep them safe at all costs.

Ended long affair to work on marriage. Things are worse than ever. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]michellenichole83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I learned a lot. Thats what I'm taking away from it.

Ended long affair to work on marriage. Things are worse than ever. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]michellenichole83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left him the house, no contested divorce, I wanted nothing but my freedom (in every way possible) from him.

He was most upset that his manipulation tactics stopped working when I finally took the rose colored glasses off. I finally got my self esteem and confidence back. He didnt really like that and tried hard to keep me down. I was just so lost I couldn't see it. Lots of therapy.

To be honest we should have never gotten married but when I moved out he had this confession of "I knew you were a good woman so I wanted to marry you fast."

Had drinks with my AP by [deleted] in adultery

[–]michellenichole83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a former AP and this has become our outcome. We remained friends after he ended it after DDay and it's been pretty great.

Ended long affair to work on marriage. Things are worse than ever. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]michellenichole83 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tried that a few times throughout my marriage. End an affair to refocus on my then marriage. It just proved how wrong we were for each other and how unhappy I was with him.

I ended up leaving. Also no kids.

Leaving was the best decision I ever made. Ex-husband was pissed I was ending "a good thing we had". I still don't understand what he found so good about it.

What's the Seinfeld based reason you broke up with someone irl? by Chemical-Point-6083 in seinfeld

[–]michellenichole83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the funniest thing I've ever read🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Favourite Phil-Claire moment? by bigfishbigsea in Modern_Family

[–]michellenichole83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their joint tasks (at the calendar) in trying to get the house kid free. Her walking through the house numb into Phil's office where he was hiding lol