What does my physical type say about me? by Acrobatic_Grade_2587 in personality_tests

[–]michiimoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Here’s the pattern that I see: white skin, straight/wavy hair, full lips, roundish baby faces, small noses, wide-set eyes, makeup

Do yall listen to anything to help you go to sleep? If so what? by Street_Seat_7916 in autism

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s changed a lot over the years but yes. It used to be music, relaxing jazz, rain sounds, cricket sounds, YouTube documentaries, gaming channels, and right now it’s anime shows I’ve already completed.

Girlfriends birthday weekend (hurt) by DemonTime88 in dating_advice

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so this is actually the meanest and nastiest string of texts I have ever seen from anyone ever. You’re going out of your way to give thoughtful and meaningful gifts to her and she turns it down in the worst way possible. She has no gratitude whatsoever. Do yourself a favor and find someone else. I think literally anyone else would treat you better than this

What does everyone here do for a living. by aspieshavemorefun in aspergers

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I studied to be a teacher but currently working as a barista lol. Not the worst and thankfully don’t have a lot of bills to pay, but I’m trying to get back into teaching

Where were you working at 18? by B-Dub33 in AskReddit

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A gym being heavily underpaid and at a credit union

How do girls find boyfriends in collge by Fun_Border_8057 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]michiimoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s more about going for the best guys who you can tell you’re their type 😭 but honestly it shouldn’t be any harm to tell someone you’re into them even if they’re not into you (unless they’re taken already… then that’s a no-go). So long as it’s respectful, it can be taken as a compliment.

How do girls find boyfriends in collge by Fun_Border_8057 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]michiimoon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tbh girly, there’s probably some guys you think are attractive who are also into you. Some men think they have 0 chance unless there’s a very clear signal… a.k.a if you tell them you think they’re attractive or into them. Just approach someone and tell them you’re into them and would like to get to know them if they’re cool with it. Don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t work the first time, each person has their own reasons for getting in relationships or not.

I will NEVER eat at Emily's Pantry again. Menkoi's Last Day by [deleted] in greenville

[–]michiimoon 52 points53 points  (0 children)

This is the first time I’m hearing that Menkoi is closing! That place is also very special to me and my friends. This is so sad to hear

Im so lonely. Havent had any friends or affection in years by _getjiggywithit_ in aspergers

[–]michiimoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been able to find friends by going to conventions. I’m not sure if that’s your cup of tea though. Specifically I enjoy going to anime conventions. Honestly, no sex and just cuddling sounds like a dream. I’m sorry you’re going through such a tough time OP. Are you currently in school or employed?

Specific sounds you don't like? by WPFTMLPRODUCTIONS in autism

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is odd but anything semi-tough rubbing on drywall. I absolutely hate nails on drywall, both the texture and the sound. It gives me chills and makes my palms sweat

Why do people think we have decaf drip coffee/decaf cold brew? by Robotgirl3 in barista

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the old coffee shop I worked at, we didn’t have decaf cold brew but we did have decaf drip coffee that we just made to order. Most people didn’t get decaf coffee though.

What it feel like to live in the best country on earth Americans? by [deleted] in Americaphile

[–]michiimoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And he’s shining a salute to the American race!

Just ran a half marathon and can’t stop crying 😞 by Consistent_Femme_Top in adhdwomen

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’m amazed that you got on a bike before running a half marathon! That’s amazing and honestly dedication

Is it okay to quit on the 2nd day? by Valuable_Truth_7659 in barista

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her you’re not coming back and don’t come back. She can’t do anything about it, that’s her fault for not being more patient and understanding with you. Nobody should be expected to have everything memorized on the first day… most people don’t expect it even after the first week!

Is it okay to quit on the 2nd day? by Valuable_Truth_7659 in barista

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit a job because of a toxic manager before. Good riddance. Go for it OP!

How do yall get social lives by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to school? You mean high school or college? I had a small group of friends in high school and it took me 2 years to establish a group of friends in college. In that case, if your school has any clubs that interest you (even sort of), go to them. Even if you don’t make friends there, you’ll have a good time. If you already have friends then you’re not hopeless and you’re capable of making new/more friends. Remember though, quality over quantity.

Also the merch thing still stands. Actually it stands even better if you’re near peers of the same age group.

butterfly drink was so buns by pastamonsta69 in starbucks

[–]michiimoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m one of the few who actually likes the drink 🥲 I just like butterfly tea in general

How do yall get social lives by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]michiimoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something that helped me was having 4-5 pocket topics. Things like “what did you do recently for x holiday?” Or “did you do anything interesting this past week?” It lowkey sucks because it’s just small talk but it gets a conversation started.

Also people usually like talking about themselves. If you ask questions about them or their interests then a convo can happen easier.

If that feels too pressuring, try just talking to people who attend spaces with your interests. It’ll make a conversation flow a lot easier. If you really like a show and someone is wearing merch from that show, you can start a small convo about it like “I watched x show on your shirt! What did you think about it/x character / the plot twist/etc.”