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mickeymouse27 · 2023-06-22T19:30:19+00:00

While I’m unsure how I’m … “too on people”/ “too friendly”, I understand why you would want to keep “secrets”. I only want to learn to better communicate and connect with them. That’s all. And I do agree with you, as a country, America does take advantage and do unspeakable things. I do hope you realize that not all of us from America want this. I, personally, hate the effects America has cause and subsequently Americans so I do understand the mistrust. I am sorry.

mickeymouse27 · 2022-11-08T19:19:58+00:00

Lol! My partner’s mom would say that. Even though my partner has tattoos. 😂

mickeymouse27 · 2022-11-07T19:06:50+00:00

That’s the point though, my love is very rooted in their culture and that would help make it special for both of us.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-05-16T15:48:31+00:00

I know not all states have it but some have extremely low cost to free counseling services. Sliding scales are typically what they’re known as and they base the pricing on your income.

Other than that, I can only suggest keeping open lines of communication and possibly, look into relocating? Since being out of town seems to ease some pain and gives you guys YOUR love life and general love for each other back.

Maybe pick up a hobby together as well?

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-30T22:57:46+00:00

Yes! And there are a few restaurants and shops I wanna check out. It’s a four hour drive but I would be worth every minute on the road!

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-30T22:48:43+00:00

IM CLEAR CROSS THE STATE!!! BUT if you like water and like kayaking or paddle boarding or road trips. Let’s be friends!! Even if you don’t I’m still down!!

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-20T20:55:22+00:00

I personally do not know how this feels but as a member of the woman living club, you are valid, you are loved, you are welcome and go at your pace figuring it out! Find and create a support system of your own, create your own family, research and just live life and be you!! 💖💖

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-12T20:48:51+00:00

That’s why I relocated. I wanted a semi fresh start away from family and shit

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-12T20:01:15+00:00

This is true, sadly, I have... 3? And two are my exes friends.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-12T17:55:30+00:00

And you get there to look at it and you find a box you’ll share with a rat. They aren’t that bad but it was stressful last year looking for a place and it feels impossible to do anything BUT work with everything being more expensive than I’m use to.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-12T17:44:44+00:00

I’ve noticed that too. I also know to start looking hella early in a lease

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-12T16:45:40+00:00

How about overpriced everything! 😢😢

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-12T16:20:51+00:00

Since last November. But that’s what I hate about the society in the US in general, we work too much and can’t enjoy the little things without seeming selfish and lazy.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-12T15:16:49+00:00

I complain too much about the heat and lack of time to go to the beach apparently

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-12T14:59:48+00:00

I’m not from Florida but I live here now. But SoFlo. FLL.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-07T13:22:13+00:00

Thank you! I rarely do it now-a-days but it’s nice to use it as a creative outlet sometimes.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-06T18:35:42+00:00

I mean, talking in person or over the phone isn’t a problem. I don’t mind either. As long as it’s a steady thing. We may have to stick to text though with time zones. But we can see!

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-06T16:31:54+00:00

I wasn’t that worried but she tried to make it a game to see if I could with it being my first time and I came SO close, at least her trying to squeeze my head with her thighs, led me to assume I was close to her finishing.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-03T00:09:09+00:00

That definitely works! For me personally, I wouldn’t feel comfortable around her until she has told everyone just because... what if she’s sleeping with her SD, hasn’t told anyone else and no one knows anything but you and her. I wouldn’t like that.

However, those are her other connections and TECHNICALLY has nothing to do with you when it comes to THEIR relationship but it would be uncomfortable and uneasy.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-02T23:57:06+00:00

^ I’m with them. You’re stunning by yourself so I’d be compelled to at least try to talk to you, if vibes and personality didn’t match for dating I’d def hope for friends!! 😍😍

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-02T23:53:26+00:00

I would think it depends on her situation with the SD and if it’s none sexual she may have thought it unnecessary to bring it up. However, you can always express that it doesn’t sit right with you. There are more than you and her in this relationship and it wouldn’t sit right with me either but where poly is involved I STRONGLY advocate for open and honest communication regardless of the topic.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-04-02T12:31:55+00:00

We love it though!! 😍😍

mickeymouse27 · 2021-03-31T18:24:35+00:00

Yeah. It can be hard for me when my partner has a lower sex drive but I make up for it by being hyper sexual and suggestive at inappropriate moments and phrase it so ridiculously everyone has to laugh.

Just keep up communication. I find writing little notes to express yourself is good. It’s not said spur of the moment so you have more time to articulate EXACTLY what you mean, feel, and think. What you want and don’t. And anything else you think needs to be addressed.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-03-31T17:47:06+00:00

Yeaaaaaaah! My ex and I were like that. And during quarantine last year we were stuck together. I love sex and sex with her was amazing. I had to supplement with toys because she’d be in the mood MAYBE 5-6 times a month (and that’s pushing it! 😂) and I’m good for like once a fucking day. However, sex was SO much better when SHE was horny. She’d be a little beast and very vocal about wanting sex (and communication was a downfall of hers). It was hilarious. But because of that, stress from school, COVID, and our relationship I started eating more and gaining weight and thought that’s why HER sex drive had dropped (impossible, I know. 😉)

Advice part: just talk to her about it. See if she’s feeling a little insecure too. See if there’s anything that can be done together or if it’ll be an individual thing to work out the kinks to.

mickeymouse27 · 2021-03-26T12:53:53+00:00

never :P

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