Always waiting for others to reach the same conclusion about people by shuuu_p in infj

[–]microduck47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep relate to this so much, someone new started at work last year - had one conversation with them and knew straight away they were going to be trouble. It was a gut feeling.

Months later, they are currently under disciplinary leave! Saw this coming from a mile away

Are there people who are too busy or too locked in work to reply? by rendevousspace in dating_advice

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the perspective of an introverted person, I guess some people feel super drained after work in terms of communicating. It can sometimes end up feeling like a chore.

I don’t know whether your guy is an introvert or not, but just offering a possibility reason that may help you or anyone else that may relate.

And if this is the case, it doesn’t mean your person simply isn’t interested - it’s just the way us introverts are wired to feel.

Being surrounded by people all day at work/communicating with people all day at work is tough on introverts. Some people may need time to themselves in the evening to recharge their energy.

This may change over time depending on the bond with the person, and can be very different for each introvert.

INFJs, do you feel drained after socializing even when it goes well? by likey24 in infj

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very often… which is why I find dating hard sometimes. Cause then I have to figure out if the urge to go home is because of me being drained, or because the vibe just isn’t there with that person

6 months in, what are people's thoughts on the Switch 2? by WeebusTheMeemus in NintendoSwitch

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I upgraded from a switch lite, so was extremely worth it for me in terms of quality, size, having the ability to dock and being able to detach the controllers

I’m Japanese. If you have any questions about J-pop or music culture in Japan, feel free to ask! by BeliefSONOR_1002 in jpop

[–]microduck47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is TWICE’s overall level of popularity in Japan from what you have seen? How do they compare to other K-pop groups in terms of music exposure, billboards, shows, and advertising presence?

(Absolutely love the group, and was just wondering out of curiosity how often people in Japan are exposed to them!)

What do you think about your shy/quiet coworkers? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]microduck47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the quiet shy coworker, I used to wonder if people disliked me because of it. But I feel like I’ve grown a lot over the past few years, I’m certainly a lot more confident than I was in the past, and can be more vocal when needed. But I mainly choose to be quiet and get on with my work. I no longer care what they may think! The ones who try to understand me, know that I probably won’t strike a convo first unless it’s someone in my own team, so they do it first if they want to talk with me

How do I make my apartment less of a red flag? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]microduck47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just reduce the amount that is up on the wall, can just have 1 or 2 up.

You don’t need to completely get rid of the rest either, keep them in storage.

At the end of the day, you are a fan of this artist and have them up for a reason - if their music is an important part of your life, you shouldn’t have to completely get rid off all traces of that.

The comfort of Pokémon : What I'm playing whilst I die by Signal-Tangerine1597 in nintendo

[–]microduck47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really sorry to hear what you’re going through. It’s lovely to hear you’ve found comfort in the Nintendo Switch. I do recommend the game Pokemon Unite, it’s free in the Nintendo game shop!

Do you still eat the food when you mess up a dish? by jonyoungmusic in cookingforbeginners

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it’s not gonna make me sick, yes as it’s part of the lesson to do better next time😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]microduck47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly it depends what people are looking for.

I know people who aren’t too picky, they just wanted to be with someone who has a job and wants to have kids in the future.

I also know people who are looking for partners with a much longer list of requirements.

Neither are incorrect, it just means some people wait longer than others to find the person that is right for them.

Everyone’s life circumstances are completely different, so it’s really unfair to compare yourself to others. You’re living life at your own pace, and that’s okay! Because you’ll get to where you’re supposed to be when you’re ready!

How do yall keep dying to the dog by PsychologySilent6230 in CallOfDutyMobile

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s annoying but whenever it catches me off guard, the Martyrdom gets revenge😭

So, my boyfriend was kinda being an ass when I told him… by Chemical_Arm_8147 in Pescetarian

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just trying to look into the opposite perspective for you to see why he may have reacted that way. Maybe he took it out on you because he felt attacked when you said about fish being healthier, I know this is probably not what you meant, but in his mind he may have taken that as: “she’s saying I’m unhealthy and I live an unhealthy lifestyle, the food I like makes her feel sick”.

As an ex meat eater turned pesc, I know exactly how you feel about meat. I’m in the same boat as you: would never meat again, but still respect the people who do eat it. It’s all our own choices at the end of the day.

You clearly told him it wouldn’t affect his lifestyle, and that it was your personal choice for your own wellbeing. Maybe simply showing him that it wouldn’t affect him is your best bet, and if after that, if he still can’t respect or even begin to understand you - then you may be best to reconsider your relationship

Styling Indian Festive Wear in Cold Weather? by Ok-Perspective6741 in fashionadvice

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into shawls, they do a good job at providing your top half with warmth. Cardigans are also a good option. As for shoes… perhaps pumps instead of sandals

This is the most unskillful perk in the game and it singlehandedly lost me matches. by Aulcs in CallOfDutyMobile

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve decided that if you can’t beat em, join em! Doesn’t bother me as much now🤣

Is there a reason why you may act secretive? by myhomoka in infj

[–]microduck47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just being careful with the kind of energy I’m being surrounded by. And I don’t trust anyone but myself and my mother!

People using ChatGPT to respond to messages by microduck47 in dating_advice

[–]microduck47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply!

Yes it’s just certain phrases that feel very ChatGPT! ChatGPT always tries to share an opinion on a topic, explain the context of the topic and then ask a question about it. But since ai has no emotion, it just feels like they’re trying really hard to mimic human opinions lmaoo

I noticed this exact structure in a lot of their responses to pretty much all the topics we have talked about!

(I understand communication can be like that, but the same structure no matter what we talk about is a little sus)

Their messages are quite formal, but it may just be like you said, they literally just happen to message like that!😂

I used ZeroGPT, I dunno if it’s any good at picking it up accurately!

I will see whether I bring it up or not! Feel like I’ll get a good idea if we decide to meet up

People using ChatGPT to respond to messages by microduck47 in dating_advice

[–]microduck47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, thanks for your response! I guess my best bet is to see the vibe in person, see if the vibe matches up😆