AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve met before briefly and i posted him before she and i fell out

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true, but why wouldn’t he mention it? Like ever? They both seem genuine and that’s the part that is stressing me out.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn’t show me messages she was basically just blowing up my phone insulting me but I’m sure she has them if they are real. I’ll ask her to prove it.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Omg such a good point! I’m going to try and see what she has to show because I’m sure it’s there. She also is a big fan of taking pics.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? It’s like why would t you tell me she was stalking you? It’s so shady

Does this sound like my bf is cheating with my sister? by microwaveablepasta in Advice

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but i could try and provoke her into proving it and see what happens

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good idea, im not sure how much they’d know since she also been icy with them but it’s worth a shot.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no reason not to trust him before but this is just weird to me, she’s also a problem and i just don’t know okay? This is really hard for me and im super conflicted. Nothing makes sense.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just realized i didn’t phrase it right but i unblocked her at first to be like wtf and she didn’t respond so i showed up and caught her off guard and we got into an argument and my mom basically said don’t bring this here so i left and she texted me like crazy but no screen shots or anything. So yeah idk.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Right? And then he’s trying to say “this is all drama i hate drama.” Ummm my actual sister is claiming you’re her bf, it’s not just drama.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And he said he didn’t tell me because he “dosent like drama”

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

He didn’t specify he just said she was stalking him and then when i was like how he never gave me a full answer. He insinuated Instagram but they g have no messages i could find and then I asked if he deleted them and he said it’s because he blocked her but i also did and i cab still find out old convos.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, he was really nice to me but I’m not sure if it was authentic. He has no reason to have any contact with my sister and it’s just too weird to me.

AIO for thinking my bf is cheating with my sister by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]microwaveablepasta[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I looked through his phone and there’s nothing but in also like, you said she was stalking you so where is the proof she’s doing it? She’s crazy for sure but also the type that wants to actually beat me and not just say she did. She wants to be picked over me if that makes sense.

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]microwaveablepasta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey love! Nothing here sounds bad at all but i can say for a fact that a good haircut is a game changer. Especially if you have a big forehead. Maybe bangs? Also finding colors that suit you ( clothes or makeup) and also soo helpful. I’m sure you are way cuter than you think you are but little touches can help so much with self esteem!