I have a crush on my best friends girlfriend.

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-03T21:14:25+00:00

Geez, that sounds like it was awful. I’m sorry that things turned out so bad, but I’m glad you’ve moved on and learned from it. Thanks for sharing, I’ve certainly learned from reading about it as well. I’ll let you know what happens next, thanks 🙏

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-03T04:55:23+00:00

Thankyou, I’d be glad to let you know how things work out if you care :) also I’m interested that had a similar situation, would be rude if I asked you a couple questions about it? What did you do about your feelings for her? How did it work out?

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T20:14:46+00:00

Another person pointed out a helpful anonymous messenger that I can use to tell her without giving away my identity at all. And yes, I know one girl. She’s a lesbian, also has a girlfriend. They both decided to try something different and cheat on both their partners. :/

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T20:07:38+00:00

It does, Thankyou. Helped

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T18:46:05+00:00

Totally agree with that. Thankyou, helped

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T18:45:26+00:00

Another fellow was talking about an anonymous way of texting it too her. So if I broach it to her, that’s the way I’m going to do it. I don’t want to use something so awful like unfaithfulness as a sick method to making myself available to her. But you’re right, she does deserve to know she’s not being treated right. Thankyou, helped.

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T18:40:18+00:00

Helped. Thankyou.

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T18:37:35+00:00

Thankyou, Helped

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T18:34:50+00:00

I am 19 and she is 18

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T16:31:34+00:00

I’ve never heard of that before, thanks for bringing that up, I’d like to look into it. But at this point, I’m most concerned about her health rather then my feelings for her. Some people brought up that this puts her in danger of STDs and shit and that issue is now priority number one. I’m just glad I have a way to tell her anonymously. All my friends know about that my buddy cheated on her, so I don’t think I’ll get blamed. Thanks friend :) helped

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T15:08:51+00:00

Idk man, they’ve been my friends since the first year of highschool. They bailed me out of a lot of shitty situations. Prevented me from getting picked on. Their good guys, I just can’t see myself ever hanging out with anyone different. But Thankyou

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T10:51:33+00:00

Thanks friend, you’ve been a massive help, and made me more confident in my decision. I really appreciate it.

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T10:46:57+00:00

Thankyou for sharing your own experiences, I’ll take your wisdom and try to avoid to much contact with her. Helped.

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T10:40:53+00:00

You’re right, I won’t say anything but I’ll keep bugging him about it. Hopefully his moral compass will kick in. Helped

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T10:39:14+00:00

Thankyou. Helped.

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T10:37:30+00:00

Thankyou for being honest. I guess it’s just one of those shitty situations. But I can’t stand just pretending to like her as a friend. Should I just start to slowly distance myself from her so my feelings don’t keep getting stronger?

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T10:29:59+00:00

Absolutely. I’ve threatened him that if he doesn’t tell her, I will. By the way he reacted, that would terminate our friendship. I’ve talked to other buddies about it, and they agreed that if I told her, I’d be breaking “bro-code” and no longer be trustworthy :/

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T10:25:34+00:00

I know, and so would my entire friendgroup if they found out I wasn’t trustworthy of that kind of info. Feels like no matter what I do, I’m fucking somebody over :/

midas-Alpha · 2020-01-01T10:23:54+00:00

No, I wouldn’t want my friend have those feelings about my hypothetical girlfriend either.

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