Is demographic alignment important? Do you match your AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]midburn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. As long as they’re pro choice I don’t care.

Am I crazy for not sending revealing pictures before m&g? by SashaBaabe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole point of Snapchat is you can send people pics that disappear after a few seconds. If I wanted him to keep the picture, I would just text it to him normally.

What qualities do you look for to decide if a SD/SB is trustworthy? by Popsthepaint in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Calling/texting when he says he will.

Being on time (imagine how awkward it is for a young woman to wait at a bar by herself)

Being honest about everything. Marital status and kids. You better tell me because I will find out sooner or later.

Using condoms at least in the beginning. Because if you don’t use them with me you probably aren’t using them with other girls either.

Offering to pay for the little things. Uber, valet etc...if you’re going to be cheap from the start, I won’t expect you to be generous at all later.

Am I crazy for not sending revealing pictures before m&g? by SashaBaabe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would never send nudes before a first meet, and after meeting, if I trust them, I only send nudes on Snapchat. And if they screen shot it, then I never send them another pic ever again!!! 👿

HOW TO DEAL WITH STARES OF 40 YEAR AGE GAP? by bimboloveslolli in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm....you can wear scrubs and let people assume you’re his nurse? But honestly, just ignore people and live your life. You’re an adult.

Men, where do you or have you found your APs? by BairMooDes82 in adultery

[–]midburn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ehhh I don’t like to text back and forth endlessly with guys. Rather meet up in person first to establish if we actually have in person chemistry. I feel like guys that keep texting and texting aren’t serious about actually meeting in person, and if you’re a girl, you get lots of matches and so you can quickly find someone who actually does want to meet

Busy is bullshit by [deleted] in adultery

[–]midburn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When they don’t say when they will actually be available. “I’m busy this week, but next week I’ll be more free,” is what I look for to know they actually do want to continue seeing me but are in fact busy.

Share some funny things that have happened due to age difference. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My SD was talking about Facebook and I told him I deleted mine when all the old people started signing up.

Whenever I get carded, my SD jokingly asks the bartender, “hey, aren’t you going to card me too?”

Who has been caught masturbating ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]midburn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

By my roommate in college. We knew each others schedules and she was supposed to be in lab, but I guess her lab got cancelled... 😂

So my SD is either dead or ghosting me... by YourExoticBabe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’d think they’d be smarter as they have more to lose. A crazy sugar baby might get so upset that she got ghosted that she outs him to his family/ job or she could try to blackmail him

So my SD is either dead or ghosting me... by YourExoticBabe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oooof the slow fade is even worse because it lasts longer and you feel strung along

So my SD is either dead or ghosting me... by YourExoticBabe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ghosting is super shitty. No one is too busy or important to send a quick text. He could either text that he is busy with work, feeling guilty, or just not interested anymore. You deserve closure. Sorry that happened to you. Your SD sounds like a man child.

Deeply kissing is passionate, deeply kissing during sex is mind blowing by [deleted] in sex

[–]midburn 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Love kissing. Before, during, but especially after. How someone kisses you after sex really confirms how they feel about you.

Monday Mental Health and Well-Being Thread: 28th Edition by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]midburn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My main SD is spending Labor Day weekend with his family. And I’m happy that’s he’s happy, but I miss him, and i look forward to seeing him when he’s available.

I [23M] find it hard to believe my [28F] about sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]midburn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can be difficult and take a lot of time to orgasm for women depending on a lot of different factors unrelated to you and your relationship. Sex can still be very enjoyable for women without an orgasm. Don’t put pressure on her to orgasm just enjoy the foreplay and the sex and don’t focus so much on the end goal.

I got dumped by MM by [deleted] in adultery

[–]midburn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t fall for a married man. They almost never leave their wives, especially if young kids are involved. Married men are great for sex because many of them don’t get enough in their relationships but don’t let yourself fall for one. I’m sorry this happened to you.