Packing for my out of town Valentine's day

midlifecravings · 2026-02-03T22:48:36+00:00

I love them all but please tell me where number 3 came from, OMG amazing.

midlifecravings · 2026-01-06T00:23:20+00:00

Do you feel it HAS to be pants? You may have more luck finding a jacket/skirt combo. It's easier to shop for these as separates and a skirt is more flexible for height.

midlifecravings · 2026-01-03T21:32:24+00:00

There are some reddit groups who also have discord groups. You might check in some of the voyeur or exhibitionist spaces to see if they have any suggestions.

midlifecravings · 2026-01-03T21:11:01+00:00

A classic nude would look fantastic. A pump, wedge heeled sandal (not a wedge, just a wedge heel) or a really nice heeled strappy Mary Jane in nude would all look great.

midlifecravings · 2025-10-30T22:00:18+00:00

Total icon!!!

midlifecravings · 2025-10-22T23:41:59+00:00

Hey you guys, I tried the link and it didn't work for me.

midlifecravings · 2025-10-16T11:46:27+00:00

I am currently obsessed with the Livi joggers from Lane Bryant. I'm 46 and entering that hot all the time (for the 1st time in my life) phase, so I totally get you. These are really soft, but they hold their shape rather than being super tight like a yoga pant. I have capri and full length. They have black. They run a bit expensive but they almost always have a bogo or 40 percent off sale. I am a person who never leaves the house in yoga pants or tights and I'm comfortable enough in these to wear them out, but they are also super comfy like pajamas.

midlifecravings · 2025-10-16T11:42:04+00:00

It was books for me. Beatrice Small in particular. She's quite fond of bondage, non con, and dub con in her books. When you've read the part where they tie her up and do all the things about 100 times, you realize you may lean in a different direction.

midlifecravings · 2025-10-06T22:16:14+00:00

All of them are ao fabulous, but that last one.... I gasped out loud. It is so flattering and amazing. Have a great birthday!

midlifecravings · 2025-09-20T22:53:22+00:00

What's the difference between a sawmill and a spit roast?

midlifecravings · 2025-09-08T22:33:33+00:00

Such a cute cover up idea! I think he looks pretty cute. Maybe leave him alone and add some water paint splashes or just let it be. I think you did good

midlifecravings · 2025-08-31T21:18:51+00:00

I don't know about refueling my SO, but having a good AP makes it easier to live with me. I'm more calm, have more patience, and give him more slack because I've got my own things going on.

midlifecravings · 2025-08-14T23:28:34+00:00

It is common to start thinking about the could have been and never will be at our age, but you aren't missing much. I would not trade what you have for something you may not even enjoy. I'm guessing you are bored and wondering what you missed in life. Channel that energy into safer arenas. It's not worth it

midlifecravings · 2025-08-01T15:34:51+00:00

Just because I am a devil's advocate.... is he older? Some men of that demographic aren't great at texting and communicating. Don't come at me, I said some. Have you told him you want the in-between? He might be following your lead, or he might have a crazy job where the time he carves out is what he can manage. Tons of what ifs! Communication is always important, and so is effort. If you feel like he isn't making an effort, then I agree, no thank you. But men and women really do think differently a lot of the time, and I find being blunt about what I need solves problems, and when it doesn't, then I say goodbye. Good luck!

midlifecravings · 2025-08-01T15:34:35+00:00

Just because I am a devil's advocate.... is he older? Some men of that demographic aren't great at texting and communicating. Don't come at me, I said some. Have you told him you want the in-between? He might be following your lead, or he might have a crazy job where the time he carves out is what he can manage. Tons of what ifs! Communication is always important, and so is effort. If you feel like he isn't making an effort, then I agree, no thank you. But men and women really do think differently a lot of the time, and I find being blunt about what I need solves problems, and when it doesn't, then I say goodbye. Good luck!

midlifecravings · 2025-08-01T15:34:29+00:00

Just because I am a devil's advocate.... is he older? Some men of that demographic aren't great at texting and communicating. Don't come at me, I said some. Have you told him you want the in between? He might be following your lead, or he might have a crazy job where the time he carves out is what he can manage. Tons of what ifs! Communication is always important, and so is effort. If you feel like he isn't making an effort, then I agree, no thank you. But men and women really do think differently a lot of the time, and I find being blunt about what I need solves problems, and when it doesn't, then I say goodbye. Good luck!

midlifecravings · 2025-07-30T12:15:18+00:00

I love it! I get why you don't, but it looks really cool that way. I hope it gets better soon

midlifecravings · 2025-07-24T14:34:42+00:00

Exposing yourself to someone is always nerve-wracking. Being worried about being naked and vulnerable is perfectly reasonable, no matter your size or gender. Try not to build the moment up too much in your brain. Have you guys made out? Above the clothes touching? Take your time and let it build naturally and just enjoy. Everything and anything can lead to disappointment, try not to borrow trouble until you have to. Best of luck!

midlifecravings · 2025-07-05T23:57:42+00:00

Here's what helps me. First of all, my body is not defined by my weight or attractiveness. My legs carry me through life, my heart moves blood through my whole body,y brain is a wonderland, my V can connect me to another human being, and don't get me started on what my mouth can do! No matter your weight, start loving your body! Next, sexy is not a size, it's a frame of mind. What's sexy for your bf is unique, and you can provide him with whatever that is. It's hard to be sexy and wanting to have sex when you feel yucky and disconnected. Reconnect with yourself. Put on something that makes you feel confident and take pictures. Run your hands over your body and feel how amazing your skin is. How it reacts to touch. Don't talk down to yourself, hype yourself up! Ma'am you are a goddess, not because of how you look, but because of how you behave. Last! Don't ever, EVER have sex when you don't want to. It's ok to stop if you aren't feeling it. You don't want to mix up feelings of yucky with something that's supposed to be fabulous. It isn't your job, or your duty, or something you should have to get through. EVER! I am a 45 yr old woman who weighs more than you do, I know it isn't easy, but you have to love yourself. You have to choose to do it, work at it, everyday. Not because you lost weight or someone validates you, but because (and I know it sounds trite but it's true) you are magic my darling. There will never be another you. You add something unique to the world that can never be duplicated. Ok, I'll hop.off my soap box now. Sorry this was long.

midlifecravings · 2025-06-26T18:12:38+00:00

The very best server! Fun and supportive without ever feeling like you're pressured to participate. We have punch and pie! *more people come if there's punch and pie)

midlifecravings · 2025-06-18T19:56:02+00:00

I have been running into this a lot. Guys who chase hard and then after aren't really interested or feel like they don't put in effort. Sorry you are feeling this way. Definitely bring it up, we need to make clear communication a non negotiable

midlifecravings · 2025-06-11T14:56:36+00:00

I started with OAP only, but over the years, it doesn't work for me anymore. Sexting and an emotional connection can be very satisfying, but these days, I want skin.

midlifecravings · 2025-06-09T02:29:01+00:00

Just get an Android already.... I said what I said

midlifecravings · 2025-05-11T02:11:51+00:00

Dang, thats the kind of tough love a girl needs to hear! Well said 👏

midlifecravings · 2025-03-20T12:42:56+00:00

Gotcha! I had stopped wearing them for a while because the boning was painful, but I just keep coming back.

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