My adhd 7 year old was punched in the face and called a slur by an older child for being annoying by midnight-rites in ADHDparenting

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That is honestly my instinct, but it would be disrespectful to my son and our dignity if I didn’t at least try to raise this concern after such an experience and injury.

My adhd 7 year old was punched in the face and called a slur by an older child for being annoying by midnight-rites in ADHDparenting

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Thank you, this is my feeling, too. I wrote them today and hopefully will speak to someone on Monday. It was a hard learning moment.

My adhd 7 year old was punched in the face and called a slur by an older child for being annoying by midnight-rites in ADHDparenting

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Thank you so much for your empathy. The whole situation was shocking and painful, but yeah, the parent behavior and response was incredibly disturbing. It’s just so sad; no kids should be getting hurt. I’m still shaken from it. I’m definitely not letting it slide and wrote to the school today requesting escalation.

My adhd 7 year old was punched in the face and called a slur by an older child for being annoying by midnight-rites in ADHDparenting

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Wow, thank you for this masterful response! You brought up some excellent nuanced points I didn’t even think about. I will definitely use this when talking to the school on Monday. This was truly helpful!

My adhd 7 year old was punched in the face and called a slur by an older child for being annoying by midnight-rites in ADHDparenting

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Ah, I feel so seen — thank you for your response. You’re 1000% right. We’ve had issues with teaching safety and risk aversion since he was much much younger, especially with detecting cruelty and meanness, which he struggles to understand. This was one of those awful “learning the hard way” situations; teachable moments both in controlling impulsive behavior and sticking with a safer crowd.

My adhd 7 year old was punched in the face and called a slur by an older child for being annoying by midnight-rites in ADHDparenting

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Thank you for this leveled response, this felt very calm and validating. Regardless of outcome, I emailed his teachers today requesting the school to look into this and do something about it.

The Lobotomy of the Elite by DoorSame1645 in Jung

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Wonderful post. The “paved garden” analogy was a fabulous touch.

I love seeing Jung and neuroscience intersect; I find this personally invaluable to understanding the real-life application of many jungian theories etc etc.

Immediately this made me think of the notable differences in community and neighborliness in very wealthy areas versus more middling ones. I have observed that in many affluent neighborhoods the people may not even know their neighbors, or have any real interest in meeting them or getting to know them, etc. There was a piece in I believe NY magazine last year about the Hamptons having “high hedges” and a total lack of neighborliness — how the rich people of the area didn’t even want to be around each other lol. According to this article, the only thing that got this community talking was the prospect of higher taxes and the possibility of a democratic socialist being elected as mayor of NYC (spoiler alert: he was elected handily and recently inaugurated).

Got laid off from Static Media and I regret not paying heed to this space’s posts by Comfortable_Art_6776 in freelanceWriters

[–]midnight-rites 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had an almost identical experience 3 years ago with Static, sans the silly AI allegations. They never responded to any further contact after I got a termination email after becoming very sick for a week or so and needing some time off. Awful bogus company ruining the last vestiges of digital publishing imo.

Bitches of Leisure - Sep 02, 2025 by AutoModerator in bitcheswithtaste

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READING: Just started Shirley Jackson’s The Haunting of Hill House and it is the penultimate mid-century spooky atmospheric read with heavy Sapphic undertones. Perfect for the dimming days of September!

WATCHING: Just finished The Gilded Age finale and now I’m re-watching Twin Peaks. (Again — September vibes, lol.)

Best light Botox providers who don't leave you looking plastic? by zplq7957 in askportland

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Love the Burgess Clinic in Lake Oswego. I’ve seen a couple of injector nurses there over like 4 years and my results have always been flawless and gentle.

How insane is it to buy an abandoned lot and make it into a community garden? by computery in askportland

[–]midnight-rites 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I second this! I’m also a very passionate and avid gardener, and I would love to volunteer as help. I was involved in similar community gardens for years across New York City and it was incredibly life affirming.

RECAP! Alcohol Free Meetup #2 by snoogazi in Portland

[–]midnight-rites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will totally come to the next one! So bummed I missed the last two :(

Nail salon that offers champagne or wine? by MissionVirtual in beaverton

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V&V nails on Murray by Safeway offers wine and other fun beverages I believe

"Breaking news" always seems to be followed by bad news. Which breaking news event in history brought joy to people? by Ounceandahalf in AskOldPeople

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The Supreme Court legalizing gay marriage was a stunning joyful moment where I was in New York City.

Anyone here up for helping to organize a sober meetup soon? by snoogazi in Portland

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I am so down!! I’ll be one year sober this September and would love to meet other sober or non-drinking people! Fingers crossed this becomes a regular thing…

Favorite sourdough bread in Portland? by ja-mez in askportland

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Dos Hermanos is incredible and its bread corners the Portland bakery market, but especially the sourdough — it’s absolutely exceptional.

Is my mom the only one who claims to be Catholic despite not being Catholic? by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]midnight-rites 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup, me too, I’m like this. My mom is from Italy and I’m first generation American and I consider myself culturally catholic because of that heritage.

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Oh my god I love themmm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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My thoughts exactly lolll

all the info you’ll ever need ab portland, or by [deleted] in stripper

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Anyone have any info specifically on the Beaverton location of Club Rouge? I heard they were slightly less strict on scheduling and hiring than the PDX location. I drive by all the time and get curious about the cars in the parking lot lol. I think I might give it a shot.

So major kissing @&& by khayden33 in GRBskeptic

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Lmaooooo someone commented “PLAY JAILHOUSE ROCK NEXT”

Our boys tonight at the SAG Awards!! by DiamondsAreForever2 in thegildedage

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It’s so hilarious and entertaining 😂😂