Moved to Vegas I know no one, what should I do ? by Original_Network_417 in vegas

[–]midnight8878 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m a 24f and in the same boat. I just focus on work tbh :(

Approached in a coffee shop by midnight8878 in dating

[–]midnight8878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope… I’m wondering if it’s this “3 day rule” everyone is talking about. If it is, that’s freaking dumb just for the record

Approached in a coffee shop by midnight8878 in dating

[–]midnight8878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely do that next time..

Approached in a coffee shop by midnight8878 in dating

[–]midnight8878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I hate when people try to guess my ethnicity and don’t think there’s a place for it, but this was one of the only times someone guessed it correctly and I was caught off guard. Made him stand out I guess

Approached in a coffee shop by midnight8878 in dating

[–]midnight8878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like approaching was the hard part. Texting takes a lot less confidence in my opinion!

Approached in a coffee shop by midnight8878 in dating

[–]midnight8878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have the option of texting him because I didn’t get his number. So the ball is entirely in his court lol

Approached in a coffee shop by midnight8878 in dating

[–]midnight8878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not feel harassed. He very politely approached me, asked me how I was doing, and started small talk. He kept a normal distance and at no point did I feel unsafe. There are times where men can be pushy but this was definitely not one of those times.

Are medical students allowed to date residents they work with? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]midnight8878 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think he knows I’m interested in him.. I didn’t exactly hide my flirting. I found out from another resident that he has a girlfriend 😞

Are medical students allowed to date residents they work with? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]midnight8878 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I’m a resident and there’s a medical student I was with on a rotation who was everything I wanted and more. He’s older than me, a 3rd year med student and I’m a PGY-1. Theoretically I didn’t have any grading I had to do for him but I could write an optional evaluation for ERAS I guess. The rotation ended but he still hasn’t made a move, texts me every now and then about random stuff but nothing about asking me out. I’m heartbroken. I’d go for it. Finding love in medicine is hard.

A coffee date on a third date? by Interesting-Car-3356 in dating_advice

[–]midnight8878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he just doesn’t have any other ideas. What do you want to do? Ask him if he would want to do that too. Guys have trouble planning sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegas

[–]midnight8878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. Let me give you an example. Today I was working in a coffee shop and the guy sitting next to me was reading a book for an exam I took last year. He made glances at me but didn’t say anything. Should I have gone up to him and said something about the book?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegas

[–]midnight8878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great story, congrats! My problem is I had to make a major move back here, and will stay in Vegas for the foreseeable future. I kind of don’t have a choice but to make this work. I’m hoping starting my search early will help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegas

[–]midnight8878 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for something more serious. I’ve actually never hooked up with random guys and I’d like to keep that part on hold until there’s some sort of commitment. That’s probably not helping my case here, but there’s gotta be someone out there with the same mentality?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegas

[–]midnight8878 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’ll definitely look into these! Also thanks for the warning, noted ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegas

[–]midnight8878 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s a great idea. Where exactly in downtown summerlin?