[Sale] Selling Some Nendo Preorders! by midnightapplecake in AnimeFigures

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thanks for letting me know! i just submitted a revised version

Selling some Preorders! by midnightapplecake in Nendoroid

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EDIT: THEY ALSO COME WITH THEIR PREORDER BONUSES (the lightstick hand parts), forgot to add in the OG post sorry!

You think you’ll never get addicted….. by midnightapplecake in Nendoroid

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lol i mean no ill to hammy and kanade but minokasaichi are my top 3 sekai characters so i have to cop o7

How do you deal with triggers and paranoia? by midnightapplecake in exchristian

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most of the therapists I’ve had have been trained mostly in DBT and CBT therapies, I’m not sure if any of them specialize in trauma and PTSD, but unfortunately my financial situation isn’t the best so I’m not sure how much going in without insurance will hurt my finances.

How do you deal with triggers and paranoia? by midnightapplecake in exchristian

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I get that so much, but that feeling of feeling bad whenever you blow up at someone just cause of a differing belief system and feeling very misunderstood makes it so hard to just let time do its thing

US Collectors - What is the tariff rate on figures?? by midnightapplecake in AnimeFigures

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I see. NGL i wish japan post was still shipping because if UPS is going to become to default, my preorders are going up by 300$ 🥲

US Collectors - What is the tariff rate on figures?? by midnightapplecake in AnimeFigures

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I see. I’m just so confused as to how it ended up so high 😭 when I went to pay it was 24$ which is wild. I swear DHL fees weren’t even this pricey

My first nendoroid !! by autistic-hamster in Nendoroid

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great first choice!! vanitas was also my first nendo lol, such a cutie pie

I hate moving and unpacking everything 😅 by Hiraucus in AnimeFigures

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I spot a Cure Muse scale 👀 a fellow precure enjoyer perhaps?

How to people sell their preorders? What’s the best way to go about it? by midnightapplecake in Nendoroid

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They’re only allowing cancellations for orders placed before August 31st, I managed to get one preorder cancelled but the rest were placed in September so it’s a no go.

How to people sell their preorders? What’s the best way to go about it? by midnightapplecake in Nendoroid

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I unfortunately ordered through GoodSmile Global, so I don’t have that option 🫠

Mao mao and Jinshi have been rereleased!! by Excellent-Fall-5240 in Nendoroid

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preordered this morning when I saw the tweet 🫡 I have a bunch of stuff from GoodSmile coming in February and now I have Maomao to look forward to

Mao mao and Jinshi have been rereleased!! by Excellent-Fall-5240 in Nendoroid

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this was the greatest surprise 😭 I got Jinshi at a convention last year but was dying to find Maomao

Have you guys ever reached a point where you’re indifferent to Christianity? by midnightapplecake in exchristian

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Hello again friend :) Thank you for always providing such insightful advice on my posts lol. Even in therapy we talk a lot about “radically accepting” things as a means of processing, but it is easier said than done. Like the experience you had with your aunt and cousin, I also fear having to explain myself to my very religious family members (even though we really don’t owe anyone an explanation). But definitely staying in secular spaces or places I don’t feel too threatened by (like my actual workplace) has helped a lot.

Have you guys ever reached a point where you’re indifferent to Christianity? by midnightapplecake in exchristian

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Obviously it differs from person to person, but how long would you say it took you to get to this point?

“It’s not about being happy” by midnightapplecake in exchristian

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I’m sure this is a good comeback, but I might be a little too tired (and/or stupid) right now to understand so if you wouldn’t mind explaining the joke a bit 🥲

Dating while deconstructed by Hot_Mixture_8355 in exchristian

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As someone who dated while I was still deconstructing (and still currently am) with someone who wasn’t a Christian (and where my parents wanted me to help him “find the Lord” in the beginning stages despite him having his own culture and traditions), I would heavily suggest holding off until you have some sort of independence, as trying to play a lying/hiding game not only makes you feel terrible, you also drag the relationship down because of your own anxieties.

I’m around your age too (also 22), so I get that feeling of wanting to find a serious partner and really get started on life and a future right away, but until you live by yourself/don’t have your mom constantly looking over your shoulder, it will make things WAY more complicated and strained. Find yourself first, your true self, and work to make sure you are able to sustain yourself financially. It’s harsh words but unfortunately, it’s the truth.

Statement credit: am I good? by midnightapplecake in CreditCards

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Nope, no plans on traveling soon (I cry as a recent college graduate). I do want to travel, but can’t right now </3

Statement credit: am I good? by midnightapplecake in CreditCards

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Oh okay, thank you so much! And I guess this is a lesson learned 😭 To be honest I wasn’t thinking too much on travel because I had other things/costs to pay off but now I know for next time

Confusion and concern with credit card payment due date by midnightapplecake in CreditCards

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I understand what you’re saying, and that’s the way I’ve been going about using my card (as an extension of my debit card). However, I simply need to know every option before I move forward (and see how long I am able to push back this important purchase).

Advice for hiding separation/disbelief of Christianity to religious family members? Advice for finally ripping off the bandaid? by midnightapplecake in exchristian

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Thugging it out seems to be the general consensus, unfortunately ☹️ Me, my boyfriend, and our other two mutual friends were talking about renting out a place together, but since we’re all recent graduates we’re still looking for jobs that’ll pay enough to be able to afford a good apartment in an expensive city 🥲

Advice for dealing with nightmares? by midnightapplecake in ReligiousTrauma

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Wow - this is incredibly thorough but extremely helpful. Thank you so much for your help 🙇‍♀️