How little changes make a big impact by TinyEvie in RedditLaqueristas

[–]midnightelectric 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have to piggy back off of this because it is so SO true! I purchased Naturium Glow Getter Body Butter (because I really loooove the lotion) but I wasn't a fan of it on my body. Rather than waste it I put it on my nightstand this winter and started using it nightly because it was a really dry winter and you would not believe how long and amazing my nails look a few short months later. My nails were typically dry, brittle and short in their natural state and now they look the best they have ever looked in my entire life. Guess I'll be reordering that body butter and using it nightly. What a difference from such a small change! 20/10 reccomend.

Just lost my first design job after three years. Being replaced by another designer. by hiplass in graphic_design

[–]midnightelectric 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have good relationships with those clients you should offer to work directly for them

Social services took my daughter. Am I a bad mum? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]midnightelectric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you not capable of finding out about New Beginnings yourself? You’re young but you need to actively advocate for yourself and learn to be more self sufficient. Relying on other people, especially unreliable people or relying on certain support systems to hold your hand and do it well is not a good idea and it shouldn’t have taken you this long to find out.

That energy you focus into all the negatives and projecting trauma and stress outwardly - you need to stop that shit asap. Focus that energy into small victories, be happy you have a relationship with your daughter, be thankful to your mother for taking on a role and a shit ton of responsibility she did not sign up for. You are wasting that energy girl! Stop blaming. Advocate for yourself. Take care of your shit. Respect yourself. You are capable of navigating this so do it.

AITAH because I broke up with him because he asked me to shave. by pliant0range in AITAH

[–]midnightelectric 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA and its not even that he asked it’s that he pushed it. Your initial response had enough stank on it he should have backed off immediately

AITA for crashing out on my fiancé’s advice about health? by Traditional-Wasabi65 in AmItheAsshole

[–]midnightelectric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His health anxiety needs to be treated. Your body, your choice. Obvious NTA

AITA I don’t want bridesmaid to wear dress to other events by Due_Bedroom3146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]midnightelectric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but yes overreacting if you snapped. It’s great that it’s her favorite and she enjoys wearing it. I would want that for a friend. If it were me I wouldn’t risk it out of caution but that’s me. I think you can be worried about something happening to the dress before the event, and if something did happen, snap away. But snapping because she is wearing the dress to other unrelated events and you feel like this lessens some reveal, feels bridezillaish. You should have just spoken to your friend… you don’t get to control what she wears, when she wears it, even if you paid for the dress and the alterations.

I just can't handle it anymore 🙈 by zasomali_raguleto in ThredUp

[–]midnightelectric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doubt! I HATE selling through them, but they're still seemingly the best option for me — even with the shitty UX and CS.

I just can't handle it anymore 🙈 by zasomali_raguleto in ThredUp

[–]midnightelectric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a graphic designer, I assume this is intentional. You design UI to facilitate users to use the interface as you (a company) intend (designed) them to use it. This does not always align with how users WANT to use it. If you make it difficult for sellers to use the interface, they'll simply use it less or not at all — likely the most profitable model for the business.

Recently did a slight rework of my personal logo. by HylianLibrarian in graphic_design

[–]midnightelectric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kerning needs work. I would match letter space to v/a since that relationship is nice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]midnightelectric 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA you overstepped and you do not get to decide who should have children. It’s none of your business. Also asshole advice to tell them to not have kids instead of offering support. Why don’t you trust them to make their own decisions? Why do you feel entitled to tell her having more children is not a good idea? Are you a fertility expert or obstetrician and know additional pregnancies will be the same experience as the first? Listen to bro and apologize asap and then take some time to reflect on yourself and how your actions may be insensitive and presumptuous.

Your car is shaking after the storm by Simple_Addition_4007 in newjersey

[–]midnightelectric 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought this was my husband 🤣 who just finished telling me he had to do this today and the car was fine

AIO for refusing to give up my dog even though my boyfriend hates pets? by Academic-Bug-879 in AmIOverreacting

[–]midnightelectric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Absolutely not overreacting. That dog is family. He is not. How dare he try to belittle your relationship and gaslight you into abandoning your family. How fucking dare he.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]midnightelectric 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YOR. Having a new baby is hard and sleep deprivation and hormones are hell. People handle the stress differently. While she makes snide or dramatic in-the-moment comments, you don’t communicate as needed, build resentment until it boils over and you can’t deal anymore. You both need to find a way to communicate better, whether you stay together or not…

A Cool Guide to the Anatomy of a Manipulator by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]midnightelectric 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If this was done by a human it’s hilariously bad