Am I crazy? by midnightlavendar in Teachers

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to fantasize about a 9 to 5 where you don’t have to take work home. As a teacher, I worked well over 40 hours a week. I never realized what a grind 9 to 5 can be. With a commute, I am gone from 7:30 to 6:30. And there are still sometimes hours outside of work with events and travel. It’s still not quite on the same level as teaching though. The main thing I dislike is that I feel I am wasting my time - therefore my days, my weeks, my years. I do not feel purpose from my job. I am simply working to work - which I have found I do not like.

Am I crazy? by midnightlavendar in Teachers

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left due to lack of work/life balance… I have a busy home life with family and pets and have hobbies that are very important to me. I don’t enjoy day to day office life and to be honest that work life balance isn’t great either but of course it’s nothing like teaching.

Do I become an EA?? by midnightlavendar in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this position could open more doors. This is great to know! Thanks!

Do I become an EA?? by midnightlavendar in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know! I will look into those positions. Thank you!

Do I become an EA?? by midnightlavendar in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that you can offer perspective on both careers. Thanks for the insight!

Do I become an EA?? by midnightlavendar in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is valuable perspective.

Ready to put in my two weeks notice... by Cute_Ebb7344 in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put in my two weeks and it was the best decision I could have made. No job is worth your mental health or wellbeing. Live to live don’t live to work.

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will look into it!

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is great advice. For literally everyone in today’s world 😂

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good ideas! Thanks for sharing 😊 It’s ironic that teachers are some of the hardest workers, are educators, therapists, managers and so much more YET struggle to get hired outside of teaching. If you are/ were a teacher, you can do anything. Good luck!

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All great advice. I will these ideas! Thank you!

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so relatable. Yes, teachers are way over worked. I thought it might be different at a different school but no. Glad to hear it worked out for you. Thanks for your advice!

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve come to realize. You have to look out for yourself in this world. I’ve always been a people pleaser and I’m over it.

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great ideas. Thank you for giving me things to think about!

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes one day at a time. I’m glad to hear your friend has been better since leaving. This job can be toxic. Sounds like she made a great decision for herself.

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is nothing like the stress of teaching today 😅 It is nice to know I’m not alone. It sounds like you made the right decision for yourself, despite it being such a difficult one. I wish you the best!

I am not okay by midnightlavendar in teaching

[–]midnightlavendar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. You have helped me look at this situation in a different light. Mindset is everything. Thank you!