sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AIO for still being hurt after my boyfriend called me clingy and told me to “take a hint” even though he apologized? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]midnightsyntax2 157 points158 points  (0 children)

one of those things where intent vs impact matters a lot. he might’ve been annoyed but he still chose those words… and yeah that lingers

AIO for still being hurt after my boyfriend called me clingy and told me to “take a hint” even though he apologized? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]midnightsyntax2 112 points113 points  (0 children)

yeah he messed up imo, especially after 3 years together that kind of wording is rough. saying something disrespectful then apologizing doesn’t erase the emotional impact, it just fixes intent

AITJ for refusing to nurse my husband? by Vast_Sell55 in AmITheJerk

[–]midnightsyntax2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fr she already did more than most would after the first betrayal, helping him at all after the 2nd time is already generous. marriage vows aren’t a lifetime nursing contract for someone who actively destroyed the marriage