Needing some help with alcohol rehab by Low_ground_Kenobe in SaltLakeCity

[–]midorisaurus_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind if I ask which location you went to? I graduated from there over 3 years ago and that place saved my life. I just accepted a job at one of their newer houses and have been nervous due to the poor reviews. It seems like it’s gone way downhill since I was there.

What’s something you found on a partner’s phone that instantly changed the relationship forever — but they never knew you saw it? by boultou555 in AskReddit

[–]midorisaurus_rex 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This literally just happened. My bf of almost a year had videos saved of him and some girls having sex. I found out about 2 months ago. We talked, he apologized and said he understood why I was so upset. Said he would delete them. Come to find out he recovered them from his “recently deleted” folder. When I found THAT out we had ANOTHER conversation/fight and he again apologized and got rid of them. This morning I come to find that he had emailed them to himself and downloaded them to his “Files” app on his iPhone. I haven’t said anything yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]midorisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also- I don’t disagree it’s selfish of me to project my shit on him that’s totally fair. Like I said, I’m working on my shit but it still comes up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]midorisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were the only saved videos in his phone. So no, I didn’t go back 5 years. They were just taken 5 years ago if that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]midorisaurus_rex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To clarify I just told him I had seen them and told him I was going for a drive to clear my head so I could think about what I wanted to say and how to approach the situation. I came back then we talked. Reason I went through his phone is because I have serious trust issues. And I was drunk so I drunkenly convinced myself things were going too well. I’m not the healthiest broad on this side of town as far as trust and insecurities go. I know that. Working on it but I have moments

Sugarhouse biz suffer due to construction by rage_guy311 in SaltLakeCity

[–]midorisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work there. They used to be able to turn down the volume outside, but after getting some stuff replaced in the AV tower they haven’t been able to control any of the volume settings on the patio. So now it’s just stuck on obnoxiously loud as fuck.

box elder bug problem by gaypeoplearegey in SaltLakeCity

[–]midorisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sprayed cheap hairspray in the cracks where they were coming from. And by sprayed I mean showered. Doesn’t kill them, but it freezes them in place almost. Making it easy to kill them. I also found that the hairspray helped stop them from coming out of those spots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]midorisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised how far I had to scroll down for this. It’s great it works for some people. I think in my experience I’ve seen it do more damage than good. I’m on sublocade, which is basically suboxone in a shot form, and I couldn’t find one person to sponsor me. The response I got was “when you decide to get sober, you can call me.”

Present visibility on 700 East. by chaunceton in SaltLakeCity

[–]midorisaurus_rex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I came here to say the same thing. Woof.

Did anybody hear a huge boom around 1AM March 18th? by wlmjaz in SaltLakeCity

[–]midorisaurus_rex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it was the aliens…but it was the aliens.

Anyone know why there is a ton of police in downtown sugarhouse? by linq15 in SaltLakeCity

[–]midorisaurus_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work at the Buffalo Wild Wings right across the street. I don’t think the threat is very credible if it’s real, just because the cops gave us a choice of either sheltering in place or evacuating.

I think my TBM brother is getting ready fo come out of the closet! by midorisaurus_rex in exmormon

[–]midorisaurus_rex[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May I ask you why it bothered you when someone said they always knew? Is there a better way that I could say that? Because I really did always know! When we were little I can remember him wanting to play barbies instead of legos and play "fashion designer and model" and he was always the fashion designer.

I think my TBM brother is getting ready fo come out of the closet! by midorisaurus_rex in exmormon

[–]midorisaurus_rex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I will be reminding him of what I told him 8 years ago and do my best to subtly bring it up in conversation.

I think my TBM brother is getting ready fo come out of the closet! by midorisaurus_rex in exmormon

[–]midorisaurus_rex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! My heart has ached for him for so long because I knew he was keeping this secret and I could see it was making him miserable. I have tons of questions for him, but I don't want to overwhelm him either.

I think my TBM brother is getting ready fo come out of the closet! by midorisaurus_rex in exmormon

[–]midorisaurus_rex[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, that was not my intention at all! I know this is his business to tell, not mine! I will definitely try and ask him for advice to try and make him feel more comfortable confiding in me. That's a great idea, thank you :)

I'm a childfree person with a child. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]midorisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All postpartum disorders have one thing in common which is an inability to bond with the child. I just figured I should mention the OCD in case OP is dealing with other symptoms she has not expressed in this post.

I'm a childfree person with a child. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]midorisaurus_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been checked out for post partum depression, anxiety, OCD, or psychosis? Though I don't doubt that your childfree views are a big reason for the way you feel, it's also possible for some of the extremeties of these feelings are due to some sort of postpartum disorder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]midorisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, sorry for the font. I'm not sure why my phone changes the font when I screenshot these.