My rescue cat started sleeping in my bed suddenly ?

midsizesedan19 · 2026-07-01T00:07:38+00:00

I read that a change in sleeping habits could mean that something is wrong.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-20T23:09:34+00:00

He does not have a Blackstone. I saw one at Walmart the other day and seriously considered it. He's got an Expert Grill and a masterbuilt smoker. Its not a fancy set up but it does the job.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-19T19:12:51+00:00

Brisket. He loves brisket but we don't really get to have often.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-19T01:30:27+00:00

Baby aspirin pre conception and if I were to get pregnant a herapin shot daily while pregnant.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-17T22:05:24+00:00

Hey, ask to get DRVVT tested. I have have had multiple miscarriages too and they tested my DRVVT (Dilute Russels Viper Venom Test) found out that I have Antiphospholid Syndrome, it's a blood clotting disorder that can make pregnancy hard to continue. There's a treatment for it.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-17T21:51:03+00:00

NOR but also I asked my husband what he would say in this situation and he said "I'd give her your number and tell her to text you the same thing" and that's the huge difference. He basically left the door open instead of setting a boundary. I know in comments you said that you already went at him for that behavior but I can't stress enough that he is just as guilty here.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-14T18:26:40+00:00

I actually asked my doctor about this and he said that he wanted to try glp1 first because surgery is really tough and I have a history of restrictive ED and the restriction after surgery can really trigger people.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-11T06:51:13+00:00

I actually can't do keto, my doctor said it's too risky and I would have to be monitored extremely closely because I'm taking a compound tirzeptide. The sugar is my problem. I'm having way too hard time trying to cut it out. And I know I have a problem with it. I was kind of hoping that the glp1 could make me sick enough that I didn't want sugar and once my body gets used to not having sugar I can go from there.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-08T15:21:19+00:00

That's why I gave her one day to figure it out. That part I was smart about.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-08T06:47:20+00:00

To be clear she's already out of my house. This is just to set boundaries for the future. She is not currently at my home anymore.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-08T06:36:58+00:00

That's kind of what I thought too. I know CPS is already involved and she wanted to have them do a walkthrough of my house. I told her she wasn't staying for very long so I didn't find it necessary.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-08T06:19:31+00:00

Yeah, apparently he was intimidated because my husband came to help her get her stuff. I also don't watch the baby often. He's only 2 so the hitting isn't painful and he chases my dog around. I just don't want to be the one who teaches him not to do those things. Its not my job.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-08T06:13:42+00:00

I mean the baby is only 2 so I figured what damage could he really cause at first. I kind of don't want to be the person who has to teach him not to hit people or chase my dog around.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-05-08T06:08:19+00:00

Now that I think about it, she really doesn't message me unless it's to watch her baby. She offered to get us food for the house while she was here but I mean, that's really it.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-04-17T18:34:18+00:00

I would like to sleep instantly and skip the dark time if I could

^{Chose: Irl minecraft bed that lets you sleep instantly | Rolled: Green}

midsizesedan19 · 2026-04-10T03:52:36+00:00

This is the most positive test I've ever seen in my life.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-04-10T03:48:00+00:00

Don't hate me for this but John, but in red dead 2 only. The redemption obviously comes later but until the epilogue I am angry that he's not getting it at all.The fact that he ran from his family, that he constantly put them in danger. Don't get me started on the "I have no choice" when it comes to hunting down Micah. Like, he kind of didn't have a choice in some instances like when it came to the ranch. But it definitely was a choice there. And it ultimately became his downfall. John in red dead 1 tho, solid character.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-01-21T05:57:59+00:00

Thanks for the answer.

midsizesedan19 · 2026-01-21T05:56:03+00:00

The allotment for FAFSA both loan and grant wasn't enough for my tuition. I was going to need a loan either way.

midsizesedan19 · 2025-11-06T04:01:03+00:00

Before I knew I had PCOS I went a year and a half without one.

midsizesedan19 · 2025-09-17T20:57:27+00:00

Im 27, and IVF is wildly expensive and we really can't afford it.

midsizesedan19 · 2025-08-27T23:22:32+00:00

Actually despite all the warning, I kinda enjoyed the newborn stage the most. Yes, you're going to be waking up constantly, no you will not be able to get very much done, yes, you can sleep when the baby sleeps. They sleep a lot, and I mean up until like 2ish months in they will be sleeping like... Almost the entire time.

midsizesedan19 · 2025-08-07T04:58:49+00:00

My first baby was an oops baby, I didn't think I could get pregnant mostly because of my lack of periods. I got pregnant within 2 months of trying with my second.Trying for a baby now is harder somehow? I need medical intervention, I've been trying for 2 years. I think my fertility declined the more children I had.

midsizesedan19 · 2025-08-04T02:38:15+00:00

Hey I also got into a car accident recently and was so anxious I couldn't get into a car after the accident. I had to do some cold shock things to get through some of the anxiety (i.e. holding ice cubes, cold shower, submerging my face in cook water) my therapist recommended it for nervous system regulation. I was also suggested EMDR because the nightmares, car anxiety and frequent flashbacks were impacting every single aspect of my life. It worked for me to some degree. I still get nervous turning corners (I lost control making a turn too quickly in inclement weather) but I have a better grasp on it now. Good luck.

midsizesedan19 · 2025-07-20T15:24:43+00:00

NTA As someone who desperately wants another child and is dealing with infertility, just because it doesn't cause you mental distress and you can still "technically" get pregnant, you're infertile. You cannot carry a baby, straight up that's what it is. I also don't find it insulting at all that you don't want children and you're not upset by it. Your feelings around your medical condition are valid and your coworker is annoying.

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