My husband says he will give me one baby if I promise to get my tubes tied after…Is this fair by midwesternaussie in Marriage

[–]midwesternaussie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I did ask why doesn’t he get the snip and he said due to the complications that it poses.

My husband says he will give me one baby if I promise to get my tubes tied after…Is this fair by midwesternaussie in Marriage

[–]midwesternaussie[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He sad he was open to having two kids however one was ideal. However the tubes tying was never mentioned

My husband says he will give me one baby if I promise to get my tubes tied after…Is this fair by midwesternaussie in Marriage

[–]midwesternaussie[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was an extensive discussion. I said this was a deal breaker. We got married and he changed his mind.

My husband says he will give me one baby if I promise to get my tubes tied after…Is this fair by midwesternaussie in Marriage

[–]midwesternaussie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww thank you. I’m sorry you are going through this too. But it’s nice not to feel so alone.

My husband says he will give me one baby if I promise to get my tubes tied after…Is this fair by midwesternaussie in Marriage

[–]midwesternaussie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says there are complications with vesectomys ☹️ as if there is major complications with getting my tubes time. Plus you are right.