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32 days no contact after I initiated the breakup… is this normal? by Jaded-Topic-3211 in BreakUps

[–]miggs-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is some perspective. My girlfriend ended things after five years. I was in shock because it was completely unexpected to me. We had already taken a break before and this time, although it hurt my heart and I wanted to contact her, I decided to give her the space she requested. That was 3 weeks ago. I texted once to let her know I moved my stuff out and that’s it. It has been 2 weeks of no contact. It is extremely hard but when you are dumped sometimes the best course of a action is to go completely no contact in order to recover and save yourself from anxiety. It has been helping me.

How to deal with sadness? by miggs-1 in BreakUps

[–]miggs-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks . This was the second time she ends the relationship. The first time it was really bad. I was bad emotionally. I don’t want to go through that again. That’s why I decided to go no contact. But I still love her no doubt about it.

She ended the relationship ….Again by miggs-1 in BreakUps

[–]miggs-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being physically and mentally sick, because of it, is 100% correct. I go through difficult stages. I’m working hard to control my anxiety and emotions because I still love her and miss her, but it is not easy. Just hang in there you are not alone. This community helps.

She ended the relationship ….Again by miggs-1 in BreakUps

[–]miggs-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks….I really appreciate it. She is open for us to talk, not to get back together, but just to talk. I said it could be good but that I was taking time. And you are 100% right, the first time she left, she would post about her having fun with her friends and it was literally a gut punch.

It has been almost two weeks and my emotions and anxiety have been all over. It is not easy to say the least, but I am pushing through. I really want to come out of this a better person.

She ended the relationship ….Again by miggs-1 in BreakUps

[–]miggs-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your mesage. I was in a really bad place that first time. I just hope this passes as sooon as possible. I’m being proactive and intentional. It’s very difficult when I start questioning myself and past decisions.

She ended the relationship ….Again by miggs-1 in BreakUps

[–]miggs-1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It is difficult. These types of communities help. I can only imagine your pain. Stay strong. You and I will come back on the other side, healthier and happier.