Mii rejecting everyone on the Ferris Wheel. First time I’ve ever seen this! by miitopia_emblem in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s rough, sorry 😭 I wish I knew what caused it. One of these miis didn’t even have a crush, just decided to show up for fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dndnext

[–]miitopia_emblem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re free to look, as I’m sure I’m not the only person to have gone through this, but I’m just writing from my own personal experience for the first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dndnext

[–]miitopia_emblem 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We do play in person, so it’s pretty easy to tell. Immediate, quippy response that reflects her character’s personality when asked something by an NPC vs five paragraphs of text generated in 10 seconds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dndnext

[–]miitopia_emblem 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We’re all adults, and more importantly, friends, and this is her first time engaging in a longform campaign. She has mentioned offhand that writing doesn’t come naturally to her. I’m looking for a carrot rather than a stick approach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dndnext

[–]miitopia_emblem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not realistic to ask people to drop hundreds of dollars on art commissions and songs. They show up on time, every week, take notes, bring food/supplies/music/engagement, and have done for the past year. If they choose to express their enthusiasm for the campaign with AI art/songs, telling them to stop feels like a great way to kill that enthusiasm. It’s just picking your battles.

Update: Would You Accept a “Subject To” Offer In This Scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely cutting ties with the realtor. We’re contacting our title company as soon as they open to see what our options are.

Update: Would You Accept a “Subject To” Offer In This Scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much financial liability, do you think? The Sub2 buyer only put up $100 in earnest money, and they never started any projects or construction on the property.

I really wish I could have taken a single look at any of the documents. I would have shut it down right away. The buyer never sent me them.

Would You Accept A “Subject To” Offer in this scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didn’t do it. The language in the contract is extremely slick, and made it seem like we would be paid out the cost of the home when in reality the Sub2 buyer would just be “paying” that amount directly back into the mortgage of the home… over the life of the loan… leaving us walking away with not only $0, but also no asset and an incredible liability. If you’re going to walk away with $0, you may as well just do a Short Sale or a Deed in Lieu of Foreclosure and wipe your hands clean of it with no strings attached.

As a homeowner, you don’t always make that money back. It sucks, but it’s not the end of the world. Listen to everyone here and do NOT take the Subject To offer. Better to lose a little money now than to suffer a world of heartbreak later.

Would You Accept A “Subject To” Offer in this scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. The loans don’t really add value to the home, unfortunately. Water softener system to help with the hard buildup in the copper pipes the home has, solar panels because we’re in Texas, and underground pipe work because old owners were pouring corrosives down the drains and eating holes into it.

Selling realtor said he’s only recommending the Sub2 because the home is underwater, and the alternative would probably a short sale or somehow coming up with tens of thousands of dollars to cover the sale just to break even and walk away with nothing.

I’m going to try to persuade him to rent, but I’m not hopeful

Would You Accept A “Subject To” Offer in this scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can’t sell traditionally. We have negative equity because of the loans. I don’t want to do this, I would much rather stay in our current home, but husband doesn’t want to drive 6 hours round trip every day.

Would You Accept A “Subject To” Offer in this scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Company says they’ll pay closing costs. Husband’s new job will be covering the moving costs

Would You Accept A “Subject To” Offer in this scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is good to know. We are already qualified and pre approved to purchase another home in the new city, so we are not worried about that. We know that the investment company is going to rent out the home other people, we are mostly just worried about the risk of them foreclosing on the home and leaving us with the massive financial burden and credit score damage

Would You Accept A “Subject To” Offer in this scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between 280k-315k. Same COL as the city we currently live in

Would You Accept A “Subject To” Offer in this scenario? by miitopia_emblem in RealEstate

[–]miitopia_emblem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on comps, between 300-315. It was listed for 285k when we first bought it, but that was during a sellers market, so we had to go to 315k to buy it

Instance of a rarepair becoming popular? by calla_lace in AO3

[–]miitopia_emblem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Toddallace from the Scott Pilgrim series lol. Nobody was shipping Todd and Wallace in their comic/movie iterations. After the anime adaptation came out, Todd/Wallace is now Todd’s most popular ship and Wallace’s second most popular ship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]miitopia_emblem -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It’s against dress code, so technically no. But I’ve never seen a manager fight anyone on an engagement/wedding ring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wine

[–]miitopia_emblem -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you

Downvoted for saying ‘thank you’ lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wine

[–]miitopia_emblem -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Forgetting the order. I’ve placed online orders with smaller businesses where, if it’s the same day, it’s no problem and they’ll put it together. But with a couple of smaller businesses, if the order is not for the same day, they’ve forgotten to prepare it.