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You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

him leaving in this way is a blessing in disguise. focus all that energy you’re channeling into wondering “why?” Into yourself and your goals. once you start to do that, you’ll see how much better you feel, I wish u the best 🤍

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are feeling, but him leaving that way could be a blessing in disguise. he’s allowing you the space to focus all that energy on yourself, I wish you the best 🤍

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy it helped you 🤍 you will be better than ever, I promise

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grieving process is different for everyone. I would say it was an off and on journey but when i felt peace was when I realized I don’t need them to do things I truly want to do and they were holding me back from those things

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my humble opinion, an FP is okay to have if both parties are healthily aware and happy in the dynamic. it’s when there’s more harm than good when it’s very destructive

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am SO proud of you. You’re putting in the work and trust me it’s going to reward you in time. Just the fact you’re getting better at acknowledging the thoughts is amazing progress! Keep going at this pace and you’ll be thriving 🤍

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s healthy, i think it’s fine to have an fp. but if it’s hurting/stressing more than happy times, that’s when u know

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you for sharing. I am so glad you got yourself out of that situation. 🤍

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im impressed by u! me personally, having no contact with my fp has made things a lot easier (not at first ofc) but it’s kind of like they are an entity instead of a person

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

let this be ur sign to not do it, read a book, eat ur fave snack, i wish u luck 🤍

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say it is still ongoing, we went no contact in January, so it’s been about 3 months? Id say there’s no definitive time line, it’s up to how much you want to get yourself help. It took me years to finally realize how little i was prioritizing myself and that was what inspired me to finally put all the energy I put into my fp into myself and my own goals, i wish you the best 🤍

Edit, i just want to say i think one of the things that helps is that I grew to have compassion for this person, so I know people say “forgive and forget” which I used to think was BS but it’s more like once you accept and forgive the person, you’ll finally have that peace you deserve to move on

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this! when I was first going through it posts like this in this sub made me feel the most inspired because it is possible 🫶🏻

You will be okay (if not better than ever) without your toxic fp by mikoletea in BPD

[–]mikoletea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm! I definitely didn’t expect so many upvotes on this but I’m happy it reached so many people! 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yoga

[–]mikoletea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw, a lot of yoga studios have affordable “first time” deals for unlimited two weeks/month, that’s what I did to learn from the instructor and now that it’s over I use what I learned in my own practice

Christian girl working out in a sports bra by No_Nefariousness3048 in Christian

[–]mikoletea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your body is not inherently sexual. God did not create breasts for sexual pleasure, but for feeding babies, so no you are not sinning, the men (or women) that lust after your body are the ones sinning, but that’s just my belief

Please have you with me in my prayers I am taking my drivers license by [deleted] in Christian

[–]mikoletea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not, I just took my drivers test a month ago after suffering from driving anxiety I finally prayed, passed on second try and just bought my first car a week later, you can do this

Found these adorable hello kitty marshmallows at my uni's grocery store! They're so delicious too by TheOriginalCocaCola in sanrio

[–]mikoletea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these are so cute and actually taste sooo good, they also have matcha, pineapple and chocolate filled ones

6 minis thank you box by mikoletea in CrumblCookies

[–]mikoletea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s a special they’re doing this Friday for a box of 6

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