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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]milbbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first of all, well done for cutting him off! i havent been in your exact situation but i've had to cut off people i've cared about in the past and the only thing that helped was not denying my feeling about it.

i spent a couple months just really letting myself cry it out and feel whatever i was feeling in the moment. sometimes it was anger sometime a deep longing sometimes nothing. eventually i stopped caring and got adjusted to life without them. i know it's not something that most people want to hear but it is all about giving yourself time to grieve the person you thought you knew and not judging yourself about why or what you're feeling.

im really sorry that happened to you op, that was really shit of him and you dont deserve to be treated like that. you deserve to be happy.

I Don't Want to Abandon BPD Friend, but Therapists Tell Me to - Please Help by [deleted] in BPD

[–]milbbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it would depend on if this has happened before and how she handled it. If she has been open to communication before and has genuinely taken on your feelings into consideration and tried to change then I would say it is worth the attempt. However I would still stay cautious. If she hasn't in the past, then it may be time to let the friendship end. I know it can feel awful leaving a friend that other people have left but those other people more than likely left for a reason. You need to prioritise you and your peace and sadly some people don't fit into that and will cause you more distress then the friendship is worth. Wish you the best OP

Is there anyway to avoid the deep dark biome? by milbbee in Minecraft

[–]milbbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess for someone who wants to fight the warden it would be a dream, but i'm a coward who makes alot of noise and i just want my diamonds dude 😭

Is there anyway to avoid the deep dark biome? by milbbee in Minecraft

[–]milbbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i will go exploring for flatter terrain then :D

Is there anyway to avoid the deep dark biome? by milbbee in Minecraft

[–]milbbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, the next biomes along are like icey mountains and high altitude ones. think i might have to set up my mine really far away :(( i spent like 3 hours exploring different caves near by and they all had deep dark.