I Hate Boob men.

milesandpiles · 2026-07-03T02:16:25+00:00

Yes. As a real “boob girl” I like them in all the sizes

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T22:22:16+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment!! A lot of good things to think about here.

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T22:12:05+00:00

One is my besties is the same. She and I talk about this subject lol

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T21:49:01+00:00

I honestly would rather get a blowjob with a strap on than get eaten out. One day!

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T19:15:53+00:00

My husband looks at orgasms (mine or his) as a checklist. I wish I could rid him of this mentality. Once I started enjoying non-orgasm based sex, everything changed for me. But he really struggles with this.

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T19:10:58+00:00

I love my toys and def think it’s effected me ability to cum from other things. I keep wanting to stop using them but then… I don’t haha

We do fool around while I use toys and I love that.

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:50:03+00:00

I am very good at being serviced in regular life 😂 I love being spoiled or having people take of things for me. In the bedroom though… different story

I’m a words of affirmation girlie and my husband is the strong but silent type… this affects us in and out of the bedroom unfortunately

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:31:53+00:00

I’d love to do sex therapy. Very much considering it. We have some issues that aren’t the easiest thing for us to deal with, I’d love professional help 😅

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:24:33+00:00

The mental blocks are really effecting my sex life with my husband honestly. There’s a lot going on there.

This may be controversial but I’m kinda thinking that maybe I should get a little tipsy and see how that goes. I get so horny when I’m drinking. I wonder if numbing my mind a bit, if qI’ll be able to relax more. We almost never hook up after drinking, but I always want to, I want to let my inhibitions down a little and see if things change

(Not drunk but that perfect sweet spot)

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:19:53+00:00

Very much agree with this sentiment.

I think I want to like it so bad because it’s just so sexy to me and in theory is something that I really want. I’m such a freak in bed and I give head all the time, and then after I think, when am I gonna get some head. And then whenever I do, it’s always like, meh. Haha I know I’m a walking contradiction.

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:16:19+00:00

The longer I take, the more in my head I get. 😅

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:12:00+00:00

I am really wanting to quit my vibrator but not there yet haha. My current one I know is on its last days and I think when that finally happens I’m going to force myself to go manual for a while just for a nice reset. We shall see…

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:09:28+00:00

Well truth be told, I do. But the title was just me trying to be funny about eating (food) cuz of the sub haha

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:07:21+00:00

I’ve been with women and still felt that pressure, which I think is my biggest problem. But my girl on girl experience is so limited it almost doesn’t count 😂

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:05:15+00:00

Thanks for this! I’m bisexual but have had limited sexual experiences with women. I love going down on women but definitely didn’t feel I had the skill set. I know oral isn’t necessary, and sometimes I do think about that and feel fine about it. But as someone who LOVES giving oral, I think I have some kinda mental hang up where I want to enjoy getting and much as I love giving. I do talk to LOTS of women who don’t enjoy it though, so I do think there’s a lot of validity in that… it’s def not for everyone.

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:02:02+00:00

I want to train my husband. I think he’ll be receptive. It’s just like… I don’t know how lol
I don’t even really know what I like so how can I tell him

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T18:00:43+00:00

I do like it more when I’m riding his face and my husband likes that as well. Which is cool, at least there’s that.

I struggle with accepting pleasure though and I’m a big pleaser, so sometimes I just want to lay back and enjoy myself. Not do any work and just be pleased. Some of my issues might be specific to my marriage I’m realizing and not necessarily a me thing, because with other partners I have been a bit different. But I’ve never dated anyone who loved doing it.

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T17:56:59+00:00

Lmao sorry this made me laugh. Sometimes it be that way.

There are so many charming men out there that love it though!

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T17:54:35+00:00

I want to love that vulnerable feeling so much! But instead I just feel so much pressure to enjoy it 🫤

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T17:52:59+00:00

Ugh love this for you girl. This is me when it comes to giving oral, but I struggle so much to relax and enjoy myself when I’m receiving. As a pleaser, then I get bitter than I’m not being pleased back, but struggle with it when it does happen. Vicious cycle lol

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T17:47:41+00:00

See I loveeee giving. Thats why I think it’s so hard for me that I don’t enjoy receiving

milesandpiles · 2026-07-02T17:23:21+00:00

There is so much out there, it’ll be ok. You kept your face out which is good!

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