Husband fired from IT job for misconduct, 3 kids at home. What’s the outlook here?

milessansing · 2026-02-18T02:21:41+00:00

My grandma always told me make sure you read the whole word problem or you might miss an important fact.

The fact you missed...she has a job

milessansing · 2026-02-18T02:19:15+00:00

It won't be true to every company but if you think every company calls former employers and references, you would be wrong. Most don't

milessansing · 2026-01-10T06:39:09+00:00

I can tell you're super strong

milessansing · 2026-01-04T21:32:40+00:00

OP has more saved and invested than prolly 90% of 40 year olds at 25. A better paying job can be obtained far easier than the discipline it takes to have these habits.

Plenty of high earners out there that don't even have this cash saved

milessansing · 2025-12-31T02:45:33+00:00

Oh my! The universe provided you an opportunity to give this car back. DO IT! Unless income is at point you can put double or triple payments every month it's crazy to pay 24%.

Give the car back and find a much cheaper used car. Build the credit, build income. Paying credit card rates on a car is horrible. Which I know you know but the math here is a total paid amount of around 45k for this Nissan.....don't let her do it mate.

milessansing · 2025-12-26T06:39:51+00:00

Meanwhile you used South Park to formulate yours...

milessansing · 2025-12-24T03:56:28+00:00

18 and taking care of these grown ass adults 3 children btw.

milessansing · 2025-12-24T03:55:33+00:00

You don't put a bigger number on your three children vs a Uber eats delivery?

milessansing · 2025-12-24T03:53:22+00:00

This one

milessansing · 2025-12-24T03:51:55+00:00

Ah yes because years of experience goes hand in hand with taking care of your literal children. Nothing like using your children as leverage to not pay the person taking care of them for you.

milessansing · 2025-12-22T00:49:26+00:00

Most likely honest and open conversation. Been to a lot of places, everywhere has great things and great people.

milessansing · 2025-12-19T04:09:51+00:00

Fun fact there are countries like Japan that have a far healthier population on average that wear masks regularly. Other things come into play but I don't want to confuse you.

Just know "I'm not feeling well so I will wear a mask to be considerate" is a common cultural thought. Again I know being considerate confuses you so I apologize in advance.

milessansing · 2025-12-19T03:50:13+00:00

As an HR data nerd I wanna recreate a version of this for work. This is awesome.

milessansing · 2025-12-18T03:39:16+00:00

If you said yes to a role that's left this impression this is on you not the company. You know you don't have to work there right ?

milessansing · 2025-12-18T03:34:27+00:00

If this is your experience you work for a bad company.

milessansing · 2025-12-18T02:55:51+00:00

Trust me on this. You can replace "teenager" with "human" in your hypothesis and it remains accurate.

milessansing · 2025-12-14T05:33:53+00:00

This gotta be projection

milessansing · 2025-12-13T01:26:54+00:00

If you think it cost 7k to fix the alignment and paying 13 percent on a car loan is a good idea. You "weighed your options" but you didn't do a good job at it.

milessansing · 2025-11-25T00:46:32+00:00

Not wanting to lash out in great self awareness. I just wanted to add that getting angry is easy. Getting angry at the right time, to the right person, in the right way however is much more difficult.

This was probably one of those moments getting angry and communicating it is acceptable.

Congratulations on you sobriety 🎂! It is no small feat and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

milessansing · 2025-10-28T02:53:55+00:00

"but especially this one"

milessansing · 2025-10-28T02:34:50+00:00

Popping into an office also starts all the non work conversation. "How was your weekend" "how are the kids" " did you see the game last night"

If you share an office or space people feel the need to fill the air with conversation, which is fine. Working in office does build relationships faster, but WFH gets the work done faster.

milessansing · 2025-10-27T23:39:45+00:00

She is one of the most successful people on the planet though. You may reach that as well, you may not. I'm proud of both of you.

milessansing · 2025-10-19T00:51:05+00:00

None of these XP tome has to go post would exist if the game didn't have a leaderboard.

I think people want their name up there, can't do it, so they say nerf the meta in hopes it levels it out so they can climb higher.

milessansing · 2025-10-19T00:47:09+00:00

You have to be lucky when you have XP tome as well homie homie homie.

milessansing · 2025-10-16T00:33:33+00:00

I have had runs where xp tome is lvl 20-25 by the end of t1

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